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Jamastiene

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17. One of the things my aunt had leftover from her stuff at the VA when she passed
Tue Apr 28, 2020, 09:27 AM
Apr 2020

was one of those puzzle books with a list of words and a list of letters, where you circle the words from the list. I know how much she loved those. I have decided to fill in the book before never seeing these types of puzzles again, sadly. She enjoyed them so much. I'm sure there are some online that could be printed out.

I have yet to meet anyone elderly, at least in my family, that does not love westerns. My aunt sure loved them. Most male members of the family who are in their senior years love them too. Westerns are like pacifiers, I noticed. Or at least they were when I found some on the Roku for my aunt. Even cable usually has some channels that show those old westerns, either movies or TV shows from back then or both. Something about westerns settles older people down and makes them just zone out and grin or something. At least, that is how it did her and has done several other members of my family and extended family. Westerns are the great pacifiers of TV for them, especially Bonanza, Gunsmoke, The Rifleman, and any John Wayne movies you can find.

Those are the two best things I used to use to help my aunt not be so bored.

She loved those and reading. I would download oodles of "the classics" as she called them. They were books she had (that I now still have) but could not physically hold any more. She could read them on her little netbook though. Netbooks are not overly expensive to buy and would give anyone who loves to read oodles of material to keep them busy. Even Amazon offers oodles of free books that are well worth the read. Project Gutenberg is another great source of free reading. Even letting them borrow one will keep them entertained. I let my aunt borrow my netbook. It didn't bother me, because I have my laptop and love it. The netbook was her constant companion once I taught her how to turn the pages to read books and how to search and scroll to read newspapers and web sites too.

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My parents love jigsaw puzzles and Sudoku. PA Democrat Apr 2020 #1
A Kindle would give him access to a whole lot of books & movies. Lars39 Apr 2020 #2
Yes, and expose him to a few unalarming computer buttons. Hortensis Apr 2020 #11
Any chance he's got trees around? a la izquierda Apr 2020 #3
A bluebird, who seemingly does have a mate, has been Hortensis Apr 2020 #13
I've got a great window over my kitchen sink. a la izquierda Apr 2020 #19
The big, tropical-screecher one? Hortensis Apr 2020 #20
Some people enjoy doing artsy craftsy things like paint by number LiberalLoner Apr 2020 #4
That is a great idea. MuseRider Apr 2020 #18
Thank you! LiberalLoner Apr 2020 #21
If he has any kind of telephone there are tons of volunteer opportunities he could participate in hlthe2b Apr 2020 #5
Great idea. Biden campaign is doing national telethons from home. Hortensis Apr 2020 #10
What about asking him to write down his childhood memories for you? femmedem Apr 2020 #6
Painting / Drawing? SheltieLover Apr 2020 #7
How about a harmonica and beginners' instruction book? Without even Tanuki Apr 2020 #8
If he's in a collective living environment... 2naSalit Apr 2020 #15
My dad has been on the grill a lot. ecstatic Apr 2020 #9
My mother has been organizing old photos Books_Tea_Alone Apr 2020 #12
That's what I'm doing. It's a huge task. I'm putting the oldest photos Croney Apr 2020 #14
You tube is a great thing to take you away. gibraltar72 Apr 2020 #16
Seconding the YouTube idea! renate Apr 2020 #24
One of the things my aunt had leftover from her stuff at the VA when she passed Jamastiene Apr 2020 #17
Do you live near by? Rae Apr 2020 #22
A Sudoku book Codeine Apr 2020 #23
I've started taking my mom out weekly Rae Apr 2020 #25
Maybe one of these courses, which are available in multiple formats Tanuki Apr 2020 #26
Songs from the old days? cyclonefence Apr 2020 #27
Yale is offering online Course "The Science of Well Being" Free SheltieLover Apr 2020 #28
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