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mopinko

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32. cry with her. that's all we got at this point.

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Fri May 8, 2020, 07:47 PM

May 2020

but it sure aint nuthin.

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My heart is breaking so bad right now, I just can't take anymore. [View all] William769 May 2020 OP

OMG, that's horrible! Rae May 2020 #1

I have no authority to do anything William769 May 2020 #4

I am so sorry. Rae May 2020 #13

Can she demand to live with you? SheltieLover May 2020 #14

Does she have legal standing to make decisions for herself? Crunchy Frog May 2020 #26

Somebody does? lostnfound May 2020 #41

Been in that situation prior to this pandemic and it is depressing. Frustratedlady May 2020 #2

Awww. Newest Reality May 2020 #3

I am so sorry. To have all ones faculties intact and living like that has to be so hard... hlthe2b May 2020 #5

Yes they are doing what's best for the residents but explaining that to her is the problem. William769 May 2020 #9

I am so sorry handmade34 May 2020 #6

So sorry to hear that William. It must be very painful. smirkymonkey May 2020 #7

So SAD for you and your family! bluestarone May 2020 #8

Oh no! Please take heart! My mother's facility has been pnwest May 2020 #10

Sorry but I believe you missed my post completely. William769 May 2020 #12

I'm so sorry. tanyev May 2020 #11

I know. It's a very very bad time to be very ill or elderly Laura PourMeADrink May 2020 #20

Love to you and your MIL. sheshe2 May 2020 #15

Thank you my dear. William769 May 2020 #17

I am so sorry. madaboutharry May 2020 #16

FWIW alwaysinasnit May 2020 #18

You were communicating with her through a window. Can they move her to a room where you Karadeniz May 2020 #19

I am sure it is very scary for her...but it is actually the safest approach. The opposite is that Laura PourMeADrink May 2020 #21

My SIL's father died last night of Covid mcar May 2020 #22

& my thoughts & prayers are with you and your family. William769 May 2020 #23

Thank you mcar May 2020 #25

My thoughts are with you,mcar True Blue American May 2020 #50

It is a terrible disease mcar May 2020 #56

It is so sad when our loved ones die alone. brer cat May 2020 #51

I am so sorry for your families loss, mcar. sheshe2 May 2020 #57

What a blessing that she has you in her life. jmbar2 May 2020 #24

The executives are being extra safe. Better applegrove May 2020 #27

Luckily, she is in a single-story building with four wings. William769 May 2020 #28

I wish you all well. I know how hard it is to not be near your lived one in these times. nt applegrove May 2020 #33

My mother-in-law is in a very similar situation. warmfeet May 2020 #29

I am so sorry, William! I've thought so many times of how terrible pnwmom May 2020 #30

Sending love cp May 2020 #31

cry with her. that's all we got at this point. mopinko May 2020 #32

My husband is going throught the same thing. Resist160 May 2020 #34

Same at my 97 y/o mother-in-law's facility. DemoTex May 2020 #35

I am so sorry, William. murielm99 May 2020 #36

OMG, I am so sorry to heat that. greatauntoftriplets May 2020 #37

I know someone living with their mother nitpicker May 2020 #38

I'm so Sorry for what you and your family are going Cha May 2020 #39

My 90-YO Mom is going through this, too. TygrBright May 2020 #40

Can you set her up with facetime, or zoom? Ms. Toad May 2020 #42

This message was self-deleted by its author CountAllVotes May 2020 #47

My mom has been mostly confined to her apt marlakay May 2020 #43

Satan himself is behind this. pwb May 2020 #44

Oh, I Am So Very Sorry DarthDem May 2020 #45

So sorry. My father has been essentially locked in his apartment for 6 weeks. It is very spooky3 May 2020 #46

That is heartbreaking and frightening uppityperson May 2020 #48

We have the same situation True Blue American May 2020 #49

I'm so sorry, Bill. brer cat May 2020 #52

I'm so sorry. AirmensMom May 2020 #53

... Wawannabe May 2020 #54

my son's mother in law..has just died in nursing home Rene May 2020 #55

I'm so very sorry. Sophiegirl May 2020 #58