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meadowlander

(5,151 posts)
53. That's what money is for.
Sat May 9, 2020, 01:59 AM
May 2020

You can hire people to fix things for you. You can take a taxi to the car inspection or to your medical appointments.

Big decisions are easier because you don't have to factor in anyone else's opinion and there's no guilt if you made a bad decision because it didn't impact anyone except for you.

It's not like people with lots of friends and family get different doctors to people who don't. It's the same procedure. And you can hire people to assist you while you recover. Grocery stores and restaurants deliver, you can get a cleaning person, a home nursing aide, etc.

Saying you shouldn't be a hermit if that's your inclination because a few weeks out of the sixty years you live alone you might find it hard to get to the toilet by yourself is like saying no one should ever be in a relationship because 20% of long term relationships involve some level emotional, physical or sexual abuse. It's not true for everyone and you shouldn't be planning your life assuming that a relatively unlikely or short term problem will outweigh the benefits of living your life the way you want to live it the rest of the time.

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Indeed! Yonnie3 May 2020 #1
Yeah, not much has changed for me, haha. nt WhiskeyWulf May 2020 #2
My life hasn't changed at all lunatica May 2020 #3
Me too.. HipChick May 2020 #4
Mostly the same misanthrope May 2020 #25
And here I thought I was the only one. Butterflylady May 2020 #37
As a highly expressed introvert, I connect with this. Pacifist Patriot May 2020 #5
I'm pretty much exactly like you. smirkymonkey May 2020 #44
"I really love the lack of guilt for not turning down invitations I'm not receiving." Totally Tunsie May 2020 #51
I realized that about myself a long time ago. I didn't need a pandemic. nt tblue37 May 2020 #6
Same here Rebl2 May 2020 #33
No, I knew it already Leith May 2020 #7
You are So right snowybirdie May 2020 #8
everything but the beer and the sunshine. demigoddess May 2020 #9
makes me feel almost 'normal' stillcool May 2020 #10
This is one time Midnightwalk May 2020 #11
heh, I hear that! Skittles May 2020 #12
I'm basically a hermit myself so I know what you mean. Wounded Bear May 2020 #13
Being on a fixed income is now a positive. safeinOhio May 2020 #14
I actually have money left over from the last 2 months. 3Hotdogs May 2020 #22
Know how you feel, ... aggiesal May 2020 #23
Yes and no misanthrope May 2020 #47
Yup, very true for me Victor_c3 May 2020 #15
For us loners, it just a very very very long weekend! ;-) BamaRefugee May 2020 #16
I knew the zombie apocalypse plague was coming, for a long time, I feel strangely calm Baclava May 2020 #17
Yup. CentralMass May 2020 #18
Most of us haven't started talking to empty chairs yet. klook May 2020 #19
The best thing is no one is bothering me. No one shows up at the door, no obligatory social function Midnight Writer May 2020 #20
Introverts will survive this IronLionZion May 2020 #21
I got the dvd from Netflix. 3Hotdogs May 2020 #24
Shower?? Who needs them?? LeftInTX May 2020 #26
I hate to admit it, but I have kind of been slacking off on the personal hygeine lately. smirkymonkey May 2020 #45
My kids already said this about me. Pepsidog May 2020 #27
lol.. same here.. only I knew it before. My family Cha May 2020 #28
I have lived alone for years and I'm not not very social leftyladyfrommo May 2020 #29
YUP! phandancer917 May 2020 #30
Me, too. TrishaJ May 2020 #31
Yep. Blessed are the introverts, for they shall inherit the earth. tanyev May 2020 #32
same here NRaleighLiberal May 2020 #34
Not much different here SheltieLover May 2020 #35
Hermits have problems bucolic_frolic May 2020 #36
Bah, humbug. Hermit-The-Prog May 2020 #41
That's what money is for. meadowlander May 2020 #53
Every intrusion bucolic_frolic May 2020 #57
And that's not true for having a spouse or kids? meadowlander May 2020 #58
Except when out picking up a few things, I'm alone 99% of the time. Talitha May 2020 #38
Mine would say shanti May 2020 #50
Introvert here. warmfeet May 2020 #39
😂 No, I know hubby & I are. Duppers May 2020 #40
I am still struggling with my house and zoom meetings LOL LeftInTX May 2020 #46
Yeah, people keep asking me if I'm going crazy from the lockdown. dhol82 May 2020 #42
Word Six117 May 2020 #43
Asocial, the MEME should have read Asocial. ahoysrcsm May 2020 #48
One could make the argument asociality is distinct from but not mutually exclusive to anti-social Brother Buzz May 2020 #54
Nope shanti May 2020 #49
OMG - I relate to EVERY answer above! Totally Tunsie May 2020 #52
The absolute only difference for me is that the grocery stores Jamastiene May 2020 #55
Extroverted, introvert. I'm good. ❤ nt littlemissmartypants May 2020 #56
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