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jmbar2

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50. It's hard to know what to say when someone's heart is breaking

Mon May 18, 2020, 11:26 AM

May 2020

Your whole life is on hold as you love this man through this phase in his life. While there is not much you can do for him right now, you have been there for him for many years. In his suffering, he knows that you are there, and that he is deeply and unconditionally loved. That is the best blessing anyone can have in this life.

We will be here for you as you go through this dark time. You are also loved by your DU family. {{{hugs}}} and tears.

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No good news on JohnnyRingo [View all] samplegirl May 2020 OP

I'm so so sorry Danmel May 2020 #1

I can't find the right words.....so democrank May 2020 #2

I'm so sorry, samplegirl. Hoping for the best outcome. Dennis Donovan May 2020 #3

I'm so sorry to read this. MineralMan May 2020 #4

I'm so sorry! The Velveteen Ocelot May 2020 #5

Oh, no. janterry May 2020 #6

Oh no! DUgosh May 2020 #7

. Laelth May 2020 #8

Dear, I am so sorry to see this. MuseRider May 2020 #9

I will keep positive thoughts for you today. Ohiogal May 2020 #10

I am so sorry, samplegirl peacebuzzard May 2020 #11

I am so sorry to hear this news. cayugafalls May 2020 #12

I am so sorry. redwitch May 2020 #13

So very sad to hear Moostache May 2020 #14

I'm very sorry, samplegirl. Does the hospital have a mechanism to at least talk with him hlthe2b May 2020 #15

It breaks my heart. . FarPoint May 2020 #16

My prayers and love are with you. overleft May 2020 #17

You've done all you can. I cannot imagine the pain you are going through. CTyankee May 2020 #18

I'm so sorry. bucolic_frolic May 2020 #19

💔 onecaliberal May 2020 #20

I am so sorry for your pain and fear. MLAA May 2020 #21

Sending you much love at this very sad and frightening time.... FM123 May 2020 #22

I'm so sorry. Fabala May 2020 #23

Welcome to DU, Fabala. calimary May 2020 #28

My deepest sympathies for you tiredtoo May 2020 #24

I am so sorry. crickets May 2020 #25

Thank you for keeping us updated, samplegirl. calimary May 2020 #26

This is tragic and so sad. People care. Take care of yourself. Miigwech May 2020 #27

You are both in my thoughts... CaptainTruth May 2020 #29

(((hugs))) we are here for you..vent, scream, cry, pray, curse...we are here. samnsara May 2020 #30

I can't even begin to imagine your pain. Very sorry to hear and will keep hoping for you and JR. Evolve Dammit May 2020 #31

So sorry Proud Liberal Dem May 2020 #32

Sending you both good vibes Bayard May 2020 #33

I am so sorry to hear this, samplegirl. Always remember that the rest is not yet written. Celerity May 2020 #34

Good vibes & prayers to JohnnyRingo.... spanone May 2020 #35

Continued thoughts and prayers for you both. pazzyanne May 2020 #36

Healing and positive vibes sent your way, samplegirl.... Heartstrings May 2020 #37

Too sad malaise May 2020 #38

I'm so sorry to hear this. greatauntoftriplets May 2020 #39

So so sorry...Sending prayers for JohnnyRingo Demsrule86 May 2020 #40

So hard ismnotwasm May 2020 #41

This is very heartwarming LeftInTX May 2020 #55

I am a transplant nurse ismnotwasm May 2020 #59

+ 1000 coeur_de_lion May 2020 #60

... Kali May 2020 #65

Sending a hug cp May 2020 #42

so, so sorry. testament to how big, how much, of a family we all are here. The grief you are NRaleighLiberal May 2020 #43

JohnnRingo (Bob) samplegirl May 2020 #68

Oh no! I'm so sorry Recursion May 2020 #44

I'm very sorry. It is hard not to be able to be with someone you love so dearly. PatrickforO May 2020 #45

Praying for JohnnyRingo gademocrat7 May 2020 #46

So very sorry to hear. Hugs and prayers for strength and healing for all of you. Your DU family niyad May 2020 #47

I'm so sorry Bettie May 2020 #48

I'm So Sorry DarthDem May 2020 #49

It's hard to know what to say when someone's heart is breaking jmbar2 May 2020 #50

... N_E_1 for Tennis May 2020 #51

I am so sorry. murielm99 May 2020 #52

samplegirl, I am worried about you Maru Kitteh May 2020 #53

I think because he lived alone samplegirl May 2020 #69

... Skittles May 2020 #54

I'm so sorry LeftInTX May 2020 #56

:( Solly Mack May 2020 #57

I am so sorry to hear this samplegirl. I will be keeping you and JohnnyRingo in my thoughts. KPN May 2020 #58

God I am so sorry vercetti2021 May 2020 #61

Sending love to you both... Blue_playwright May 2020 #62

I am so sorry. bronxiteforever May 2020 #63

so sorry Kali May 2020 #64

I am so sorry that this is the situation which presents itself PCIntern May 2020 #66

Peace and love musicman65 May 2020 #67

Bob is my family samplegirl May 2020 #70

❤️🙏🏾 BlancheSplanchnik May 2020 #71

Just called his nurse samplegirl May 2020 #72

He has you and us and the heavenly hosts interceding for him and comforting you. sprinkleeninow May 2020 #82

Pardon My Ignorance, but Who Is This Johnny Ringo Guy? panfluteman May 2020 #73

I'm so mzmolly May 2020 #74

I'm sorry to hear this Bluethroughu May 2020 #75

So sad bdamomma May 2020 #76

I am so sorry DesertRat May 2020 #77

I'm sorry cate94 May 2020 #78

sending good vibes stillcool May 2020 #79

So sorry to hear that, samplegirl. SergeStorms May 2020 #80

Sending positive healing thoughts Raine May 2020 #81

No words I can say help you, but I will tell you my story... Xolodno May 2020 #83

No words, just... Beartracks May 2020 #84