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onlyadream

(2,248 posts)
5. This entire story really bothers me
Thu May 28, 2020, 08:28 AM
May 2020

Last edited Sat May 30, 2020, 08:51 AM - Edit history (1)

First off, I’ll say, the lady was wrong not to follow the rules of leashing her dog and wrong to call the cops. With that said, I believe she was scared. As a woman who often walks my dog alone in the woods, I get scared whenever I see a man. Doesn’t matter the color. When the man reached into his pocket to throw dog treats at the dog, that act alone would have scared the crap out of me. I wouldn’t know what he was throwing. He is a stranger. She tried to even the playing field with her white privilege, saying her intentions, out loud. As if to say, “I have power too.” This is from a place of fear.

The man was recording her, and quite happy when she called the police. He even thanked her. It seemed to me that he was hoping for this. With all the horrible things that happen to black men, I believe he was coming from a place of anger, and possibly fear as well.

I don’t think she should have lost her job and dog. Jobs now are so hard to find, and I think this entire situation is just so unfortunate.

Edited:
Since this post I have viewed the video (before I had read a few articles). What the video did show was Amy Cooper advancing on Mr. Cooper, which was aggressive on her part (this wasn't specified in the articles). Also, the articles failed to show how she put on an act when calling the police (while actually hurting her dog). So, yes - all the posts that follow saying I should watch the video were correct.

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And you do NOT want ..... jaxexpat May 2020 #1
Yeah but where does she fall in the pecking order? DVRacer May 2020 #3
Amy Cooper is the worm. amb123 May 2020 #11
Insult to worms! Rebl2 May 2020 #42
You win the thread malaise May 2020 #20
And there is the rest of the story. nt pazzyanne May 2020 #2
I guess it was around 2010. Central Park "Hawk Bench." 3Hotdogs May 2020 #4
This is a lovely story. Thank you KSNY May 2020 #9
I remember the story about that hawk. It almost became a cult figure. George II May 2020 #12
I believe Pale Male is still alive, going on 30 years. 3Hotdogs May 2020 #23
Awesome. In spite of the insanity, remember there are really good people out there, like birders Evolve Dammit May 2020 #25
I'm a birder... SergeStorms May 2020 #54
Have you ever had the fortune/misfortune of seeing pine siskins? Jamastiene May 2020 #61
Never had the displeasure of Pine Siskins. SergeStorms May 2020 #64
It is fascinating. Life long lover and protector of wildlife, instilled in early 60's. Beats humans Evolve Dammit May 2020 #63
I got my love of wildlife from my grandfather. SergeStorms May 2020 #65
Waht a great memory. The government helped farmers a lot then. I had family in NY that had similar Evolve Dammit May 2020 #70
Thanks, 3Hotdogs. elleng May 2020 #43
Lovely story...we can all make a positive contribution if we just take the time, make an effort. Karadeniz May 2020 #46
steve earle has a great song by that title too. mopinko May 2020 #51
This entire story really bothers me onlyadream May 2020 #5
I so much agree with you about the fear mrsadm May 2020 #6
There are some types of power we should not use KSNY May 2020 #7
As a woman I would never walk my dog alone in the woods period. Coming from that place, chia May 2020 #8
Not sure I can agree. calimary May 2020 #10
I noticed that when the dog started to yelp Mariana May 2020 #17
When I saw the video, there she was - what looked like a few yards away, calimary May 2020 #34
100% agree. And she was pretty high up in the company as well. Neema May 2020 #41
I agree! And the NY Post has an article saying she's a stalker, too. yardwork May 2020 #68
I guess it is a matter of perspective. cyndensco May 2020 #14
If she were afraid of him, why did she advance on him? csziggy May 2020 #26
BOOM! THIS TOO. calimary May 2020 #36
Exactly what I said. She advanced on him. She responded to a very simple request to Neema May 2020 #44
I'm a small woman who runs alone... a la izquierda May 2020 #15
I'm a woman who walks my dog alone several times a day. If a man approached me and I felt Neema May 2020 #22
It seemed to me he was hoping for it when he said something along the lines of onlyadream May 2020 #24
You really need to watch that video and watch her ramp up the fake hysteria. Please watch it. Hekate May 2020 #28
It was pretty glaring. Yes. calimary May 2020 #38
You're right onlyadream May 2020 #66
Honestly, I don't think that he should have to endure her company Collimator May 2020 #32
He was likely saying that because he is aware of his reputation. Caliman73 May 2020 #35
I don't know how you can judge that the response to her was unwarranted if you didn't watch Neema May 2020 #40
You didn't even watch the video???!!! yardwork May 2020 #59
I agree with you completely. Regarding losing her job: she is a liability to any employer... Hekate May 2020 #27
I know. What she did borders on attempted murder, and she clearly knew it. Neema May 2020 #45
"I am in fear for my life." MicaelS May 2020 #37
If she was afraid... zentrum May 2020 #39
Sorry Rebl2 May 2020 #47
She was not "walking in he woods" they were in friggin Central Park on a Sunday afternoon. Dream Girl May 2020 #48
This message was self-deleted by its author onlyadream May 2020 #53
It is appalling to see this defense of foul racism here on DU. yardwork May 2020 #60
Did you watch the video? The way she just snapped into the hysterical "fear" the instant she Kashkakat v.2.0 May 2020 #49
I edited my post after viewing the video onlyadream May 2020 #67
please read about white privilege to become more racially sensitive. FreddyWhite May 2020 #56
As a white woman, I find your post disgusting. yardwork May 2020 #58
You forget who the victim is here. Nice job of victim blaming. marble falls May 2020 #62
Taking up birding has been one of the most rewarding things I've done in my life Johnny2X2X May 2020 #13
I love birding. a la izquierda May 2020 #16
That is one gorgeous bird! Lars39 May 2020 #18
I saw 1 a couple years ago Johnny2X2X May 2020 #19
Excellent on Audubon! CrispyQ May 2020 #21
Great organization! Both the Audubon and the Arbor Day Foundation are in my Will. OMGWTF May 2020 #29
I'm a dog owner and a birder. cwydro May 2020 #30
years ago i watched a doc(HBO?) about birders & migration thru central park. pansypoo53219 May 2020 #31
Beautifully said, Audubon Society.. Thank you! Cha May 2020 #33
This is so delicious. She picked the wrong dude to fuck with. Joinfortmill May 2020 #50
great statement. now act. do something. anything. mopinko May 2020 #52
:) They just did act. Over 600,000 members (just looked), Hortensis May 2020 #69
an article was posted yesterday about black birders... their experiences trying to just enjoy nature Demovictory9 May 2020 #55
African Americans and people of color... FreddyWhite May 2020 #57
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