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TNNurse

(7,541 posts)
22. The best thing you can do for her now is to listen to her needs.
Tue Jun 16, 2020, 06:10 PM
Jun 2020

Let her do or not do what she wants. She should see who she wants and not see them if that is her choice.

You have the chance to make her last days as good as they can be.

Is Hospice involved??? Please do that if not already, peace and comfort are the goals for her.

Will be thinking about all of you.

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So sorry demtenjeep. Cary Jun 2020 #1
I have no words. So very sorry still_one Jun 2020 #2
Wishing peace and comfort to you all. And an easy passing to her bobbieinok Jun 2020 #3
So very sorry, demtenjeep. gademocrat7 Jun 2020 #4
I'm so very sorry. Demovictory9 Jun 2020 #5
So sorry for you and your family. Greybnk48 Jun 2020 #6
I'm very sorry, demenjeep. brer cat Jun 2020 #7
I am so sorry irisblue Jun 2020 #8
Many warm hugs to you and your family. Prayers sent for your sisters peaceful passing. Ninga Jun 2020 #9
Im sorry RT Atlanta Jun 2020 #10
I'm so sorry for you, your sister, and your family Docreed2003 Jun 2020 #11
imagine onethatcares Jun 2020 #12
I am so sorry mcar Jun 2020 #13
I am so sorry. LiberalLoner Jun 2020 #14
OMGOSH demote Jeep......I am sooooooooooooo sorry for you and your family. a kennedy Jun 2020 #15
I'm so sorry. Peace to you all... Hekate Jun 2020 #16
You've been there through all this. I am so sorry. cayugafalls Jun 2020 #17
What terrible news. AJT Jun 2020 #18
How unbearably tragic. lunatica Jun 2020 #19
So sorry! SheltieLover Jun 2020 #20
Very tough news, I am sorry to hear it. Bless your sister, you and your families in these very ... marble falls Jun 2020 #21
The best thing you can do for her now is to listen to her needs. TNNurse Jun 2020 #22
TNNurse is giving good advice. ChazII Jun 2020 #33
May your sister find peace in her remaining time. I hope she has a good hospice provider. japple Jun 2020 #23
I am so sorry! cate94 Jun 2020 #24
We're never ready malaise Jun 2020 #25
I am so sorry for you and your sis Ferrets are Cool Jun 2020 #26
demtenjeep, what can anyone say? saidsimplesimon Jun 2020 #27
Damn, so sorry. budkin Jun 2020 #28
You have my deepest sympathy. NNadir Jun 2020 #29
So very sorry. WinstonSmith4740 Jun 2020 #30
Well, That's A Drag! ProfessorGAC Jun 2020 #31
I'm so sorry. Virtual hug being sent. LiberalBrooke Jun 2020 #32
I can't imagine the anguish you must be experiencing right now. LaMouffette Jun 2020 #34
I'm so very sorry. It brings back memories of my dad's final days when he was dying of ALS. catbyte Jun 2020 #35
Sending good wishes to you and your family. Lonestarblue Jun 2020 #36
Wishing you strength and solace GeoWilliam750 Jun 2020 #37
If it must be, may the angels of The Universe accompany her and give you LoisB Jun 2020 #38
How very sad for you and all those who hold your sister dear. Tanuki Jun 2020 #39
Such sad news... Freedomofspeech Jun 2020 #40
I'm so very sorry. Ilsa Jun 2020 #41
I am so sorry Delphinus Jun 2020 #42
I'm very sorry. yardwork Jun 2020 #43
I am very sorry. Stuart G Jun 2020 #44
I am so very sorry, demtenjeep. Vibes for healing and strength and comfort for all of you. niyad Jun 2020 #45
Oh, I Am So Very Sorry DarthDem Jun 2020 #46
I'm so sorry for all of you..... Upthevibe Jun 2020 #47
I'm so sorry. barbtries Jun 2020 #48
Oh dear... 2naSalit Jun 2020 #49
That is SO hard, and I am so sorry. BigDemVoter Jun 2020 #50
I'm very sorry that your families are going through this. sinkingfeeling Jun 2020 #51
try to support him, too. mopinko Jun 2020 #52
Holding you and your family in my heart for strength and consolation. TygrBright Jun 2020 #53
I'm so sorry Bettie Jun 2020 #54
I'm so sorry vercetti2021 Jun 2020 #55
No words... tazkcmo Jun 2020 #56
Damn, that sucks alfredo Jun 2020 #57
I am so sorry. I offer my deepest sympathies. (eom) StevieM Jun 2020 #58
The doctors are not exact riverbendviewgal Jun 2020 #59
Sending you and your dear sister 💕💕💕💖💖💕 MLAA Jun 2020 #60
Sorry to hear this,demtenjeep peggysue2 Jun 2020 #61
I'm very sorry. hamsterjill Jun 2020 #62
I am so sorry.... Heartstrings Jun 2020 #63
So sorry Nikki28 Jun 2020 #64
Thank you all. demtenjeep Jun 2020 #65
He's no Newt Gingrich, give him some slack Demonaut Jun 2020 #66
So sorry demtenjeeep. You said it best - be strong for your sister. c-rational Jun 2020 #67
.... spanone Jun 2020 #68
I am so sorry Lifelong Protester Jun 2020 #69
So sorry to hear this. All my condolences for you and your family to make it through this. Celerity Jun 2020 #70
I'm so sorry 😐 I sent up a prayer 🙏🏽 for you all. nt live love laugh Jun 2020 #71
Thinking of you, demtenjeep. calimary Jun 2020 #72
I am so very sorry, demtenjeep. sheshe2 Jun 2020 #73
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