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I'm invited to a barbecue the 4th [View all] vercetti2021 Jun 2020 OP
Wear a mask. Keep a distance. Make them wear masks too. PTWB Jun 2020 #1
Not exactly my place to make them wear masks vercetti2021 Jun 2020 #2
Find out if they're going to be wearing masks. If not, don't go. PTWB Jun 2020 #4
I will vercetti2021 Jun 2020 #10
Chance is slim to none - first having a party like this in the first place. Strike One. progree Jun 2020 #25
I didn't think about that last one oh no vercetti2021 Jun 2020 #30
The sharing of food and utensils etc is the dealbreaker DonaldsRump Jun 2020 #51
Yes ask if others bdamomma Jun 2020 #67
IMHO Be a friend, stay away for their safety and yours. RGinNJ Jun 2020 #3
Outdoors? dawg day Jun 2020 #5
Yes I believe its outside vercetti2021 Jun 2020 #8
Are you going to go with what your head or your gut tells you? BigmanPigman Jun 2020 #6
It's a two way street vercetti2021 Jun 2020 #9
Go with the one least likely to get Covid than. BigmanPigman Jun 2020 #13
Why do you consider it "blowing off a best friend" when the reason for not going JI7 Jun 2020 #61
If they are planning that, you know they take no precautions, probably go anywhere brewens Jun 2020 #7
My answer would be a simple no thanks. progree Jun 2020 #11
Personally, I'd stay home because I'm high risk. LuckyCharms Jun 2020 #12
I can't imagine your best friends sister would be upset that you MLAA Jun 2020 #14
Go, and keep your distance, elleng Jun 2020 #15
Well, just be sure the pig has a mask over his snout. LastDemocratInSC Jun 2020 #16
I'm not going to my best friends 20th wedding anniversary party on 7/11 BannonsLiver Jun 2020 #17
This marybourg Jun 2020 #18
Yeah they aren't trump folks by any means vercetti2021 Jun 2020 #19
I'm just annoyed they can't just go away for a weekend. BannonsLiver Jun 2020 #27
I'm glad you're able to vent vercetti2021 Jun 2020 #29
Actually, you are at minimal risk even if the owners don't do 48 hours between rentals. PoindexterOglethorpe Jun 2020 #38
There is less chance of this virus being spread on things than through the air. LisaL Jun 2020 #56
You Might Have RobinA Jun 2020 #84
I'm sorry you saw it that way BannonsLiver Jun 2020 #90
yes larwdem Jun 2020 #22
If you go you'll probably get too close to someone, it happens. dem4decades Jun 2020 #20
True vercetti2021 Jun 2020 #23
You are in a state that is spiking. I wouldn't because I am old and I really do not want it. LizBeth Jun 2020 #21
I recently went to a funeral and the lunch afterwards. Almost no one was wearing a mask Quixote1818 Jun 2020 #24
I myself wouldn't go, too much of a risk Raine Jun 2020 #26
Are they offering carry-out? KY_EnviroGuy Jun 2020 #28
I've got the same issue here. Ms. Toad Jun 2020 #31
Thinking new Covid-branded goggles might flood the market before Thanksgiving. greyl Jun 2020 #37
Those of us who wear glasses are probably pretty safe. Ms. Toad Jun 2020 #39
So what exactly is the risk of infecting through the eyes? PoindexterOglethorpe Jun 2020 #40
I've heard that even over here. OnDoutside Jun 2020 #41
Really? Remind me again how we can get infected through eyes. PoindexterOglethorpe Jun 2020 #48
Numerous msm articles talk about covid being transmitted through the eyes and people needing eye LisaL Jun 2020 #57
I don't have any stats on that, all I'm saying is that I have heard OnDoutside Jun 2020 #77
No stats - but opinions from doctors and researchers Ms. Toad Jun 2020 #87
Even if everybody wore masks, as soon as they start eating, masks have to come off. LisaL Jun 2020 #55
See if they are offering curbside carry-out? Captain Zero Jun 2020 #32
The thing is, since it's a BBQ, you're going to be eating... Laffy Kat Jun 2020 #33
That's just it. I wouldn't go. If you're eating and drinking Liberal In Texas Jun 2020 #75
At the very least, you will need to isolate for 14 days afterwards -- and that means isolating from diva77 Jun 2020 #34
My beloved relatives have been family-reunioning, birthday partying, high school graduating... Hekate Jun 2020 #35
Hang in there. PoindexterOglethorpe Jun 2020 #49
I am, but this starting to bite -- same as for all of us. Hekate Jun 2020 #74
You could remind them that when they are in ICU no one will be able to visit them. PoindexterOglethorpe Jun 2020 #78
Right Now RobinA Jun 2020 #85
Go and be exemplary. nt greyl Jun 2020 #36
Maybe it's just me, but I would be so uneasy it would defeat the purpose of going. I have always dameatball Jun 2020 #42
I was invited to a wedding on the 4th Awsi Dooger Jun 2020 #43
Ahh, someone I know got married PoindexterOglethorpe Jun 2020 #50
Don't go. Nt raccoon Jun 2020 #44
I plan on getting my first haircut on the first of August. Baitball Blogger Jun 2020 #45
I wouldn't this year. DonaldsRump Jun 2020 #46
If he was a best friend he wouldn't have the gathering. imo LiberalFighter Jun 2020 #47
One can't eat in a mask. LisaL Jun 2020 #52
I wouldn't have gone. LisaL Jun 2020 #53
Depends on what state you live in treestar Jun 2020 #54
Very current news about the extreme infectionist of corona.. Maxheader Jun 2020 #58
It's most definitely is airborne. LisaL Jun 2020 #63
In the end it's up to you . I'm sure you already know the risks . And why would you feel bad for JI7 Jun 2020 #59
What I'd say: "I'd love to, but Covid really frightens me. Next year, I hope..." NurseJackie Jun 2020 #60
Would be difficult to eat barbecue and drink adult beverages with a mask on. These retread Jun 2020 #62
We politely declined an invite to a Father's Day pool party Danmel Jun 2020 #64
I wouldn't. tanyev Jun 2020 #65
And I have read too many stories about LisaL Jun 2020 #66
I think the better question is whether it would be prudent for you to go or not. mnhtnbb Jun 2020 #68
Sounds rather "russian roulette-ish" to me... Wounded Bear Jun 2020 #69
Wear a mask. Be very certain about keeping your distance. kairos12 Jun 2020 #70
Since you asked, don't go. Here's why: Pobeka Jun 2020 #71
No way. Unless u were assured it would end with a nekkid hottub party, in super chlorinatated water Baclava Jun 2020 #72
Lmao a bleach baptism? vercetti2021 Jun 2020 #94
A friend of mine just asked me to do road trip marlakay Jun 2020 #73
No Tink41 Jun 2020 #76
If you don't want to hurt their feelings, marie999 Jun 2020 #79
No uptick w outdoor protestors grantcart Jun 2020 #80
And yet people apparently are getting infected on beaches. LisaL Jun 2020 #86
Wearing masks? Most pictures I saw people were without masks. grantcart Jun 2020 #89
It doesn't sound like OP would be going to a gathering where other people would wear masks or LisaL Jun 2020 #91
You're right vercetti2021 Jun 2020 #98
Go If You're RobinA Jun 2020 #81
I WOULD NOT GO. trueblue2007 Jun 2020 #82
No way. cwydro Jun 2020 #83
If outside the entire time I would consider it. GulfCoast66 Jun 2020 #88
It should be outside yes vercetti2021 Jun 2020 #93
Then I'd go. If things seem skivvy make a silent exit. GulfCoast66 Jun 2020 #99
Super spreader, hard pass. sarcasmo Jun 2020 #92
Do not go and stock up on get well cards lunatica Jun 2020 #95
Ouch vercetti2021 Jun 2020 #96
Remember that almost no kids are badly affected lunatica Jun 2020 #97
Update on my COVID 4th of July - Ms. Toad Jul 2020 #100
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