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3. Totally agree with #1 post.

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Sun Jul 12, 2020, 08:49 AM

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That LIE about Joe Biden. What was said to me and what I have decided to do. [View all] CTyankee Jul 2020 OP

I don't think you should engage with him again. It's not like he doesn't know he shouldn't do this. Squinch Jul 2020 #1

Thank you. I understand what you are saying and believe me, I will not seek him out. CTyankee Jul 2020 #8

As another poster said, your civility is a wonderful thing. Good luck with whatever you choose Squinch Jul 2020 #10

Hit him back with his own strategy. Polly Hennessey Jul 2020 #54

Hi, I wanted you to know I reported him this a.m. CTyankee Jul 2020 #97

I'm glad. This isn't your responsibility beyond telling those who have the power to do Squinch Jul 2020 #98

I'm just a little worried he'll try to take revenge on me, not physically but with a lawsuit or CTyankee Jul 2020 #99

You certainly haven't broken any laws. I probably would avoid the store for a while, or Squinch Jul 2020 #100

I'll go later in the week. If we lack anything, we'll order out. CTyankee Jul 2020 #101

Do keep us posted. I'm sorry he put you in this position when you were minding your own business. Squinch Jul 2020 #102

I am not going to let this guy run my life in terms of food shopping. CTyankee Jul 2020 #103

You're much nicer than I would be Lulu KC Jul 2020 #2

I agree.. He is spreading dis information. Does he have any proof? I doubt it mitch96 Jul 2020 #7

read my update below. I reported him this morning around 8:30 am. CTyankee Jul 2020 #96

Totally agree with #1 post. patricia92243 Jul 2020 #3

Report him, Democratic people need to be a little tougher StopTheNeoCons Jul 2020 #4

Agree. SammyWinstonJack Jul 2020 #49

I would shop somewhere else WestLosAngelesGal Jul 2020 #5

You are so nice. EqualityNow Jul 2020 #6

Thank you. Believe me, I just want to be fair and civil. CTyankee Jul 2020 #14

I would report it to the top level, but I would not confront the clerk. True Blue American Jul 2020 #25

totally agree, I left the clerk off that list intentionally. EqualityNow Jul 2020 #34

Having worked in that area I learned long ago True Blue American Jul 2020 #40

I would write some letters to the store manager BigmanPigman Jul 2020 #9

Definitely Awsi Dooger Jul 2020 #106

Slander JT45242 Jul 2020 #11

Maybe don't title threads with that phrase - which I refuse to retype Merlot Jul 2020 #12

That's what I was thinking. LisaL Jul 2020 #15

Oh, no! I will change it immediately! CTyankee Jul 2020 #17

Good. LisaL Jul 2020 #20

:) True Blue American Jul 2020 #42

It has been changed. THANK YOU for alerting me to this. CTyankee Jul 2020 #19

+1000 Thekaspervote Jul 2020 #55

Any of 3 actions would be fine (your idea, shop elsewhere, or report him anyway) Bernardo de La Paz Jul 2020 #13

Most employees actually don't care about customers not coming. LisaL Jul 2020 #18

But he would be upset if True Blue American Jul 2020 #33

Alas, it is really not an option for me. Stop and Shop is our only option left. CTyankee Jul 2020 #21

Then report the guy, to preserve your only option left. . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Jul 2020 #23

Agree!100% True Blue American Jul 2020 #35

Just tell him he's mixing up Donald Trump with Joe Biden LymphocyteLover Jul 2020 #16

I did. He just thought that was funny. CTyankee Jul 2020 #24

Ugh. So fucked up. Their gaslighting operation is impressive but freaking evil LymphocyteLover Jul 2020 #37

well, it stops with me. I'm g oing to the manager asap. CTyankee Jul 2020 #41

Good. cate94 Jul 2020 #71

great--- thanks for fighting the good fight! LymphocyteLover Jul 2020 #86

You *have to* report to the manager. Pobeka Jul 2020 #22

Thank you. CTyankee Jul 2020 #26

i don't know what he said but sometimes it's right off the radio certainot Jul 2020 #27

I've ordered a couple of T shirts to wear safeinOhio Jul 2020 #28

Take care. God bless. Joinfortmill Jul 2020 #29

What is your goal? WhiskeyGrinder Jul 2020 #30

that he never repeats it to another customer. CTyankee Jul 2020 #38

Just report him GeorgiaPeanut Jul 2020 #31

For you latecomers (like me), here's the lie: Paladin Jul 2020 #32

Yes, you are right. Being silent only encourages them. CTyankee Jul 2020 #36

That statement by him is extremely serious defamation of character. KY_EnviroGuy Jul 2020 #57

Public persons have a serious problem protecting themselves against this kind of speech. CTyankee Jul 2020 #60

How will you monitor his behavior to know if he does it again? Ligyron Jul 2020 #39

Once upon a time MissB Jul 2020 #43

100% waste of time dealing with a trumper, better use of effort in getting people registered to vote beachbumbob Jul 2020 #44

When I was younger, I did this tirelessly. At age 80, my options are limited. CTyankee Jul 2020 #50

Thank you for changing the OP headline malaise Jul 2020 #45

Report him to the manager. LiberalBrooke Jul 2020 #46

Either report him, or ignore him dansolo Jul 2020 #47

Realize that this stuff is going to amp up the closer we get radius777 Jul 2020 #48

Can you link you post from yesterday? Thanks Takket Jul 2020 #51

Here! CTyankee Jul 2020 #52

Report him just for talking about politics with customers Freddie Jul 2020 #53

It is obvious that this person has been "instructed" to strategies that throw off the rape charges CTyankee Jul 2020 #59

I wouldn't offer political affiliation... 2naSalit Jul 2020 #56

I absolutely think you should set him straight and here's why... Trueblue Texan Jul 2020 #58

I should not have even engaged with him. I should have gone to the manager immediately. CTyankee Jul 2020 #62

Your decision is justified and I wish you the best of luck, but I find it HotTeaBag Jul 2020 #61

I guess I was more surprised than anything else. CTyankee Jul 2020 #65

I am in no way making light of how you feel, and I support your decision completely. HotTeaBag Jul 2020 #70

Love it Lulu KC Jul 2020 #91

I was in retail or restaurant management for a lot of years, and I would report this to the Tech Jul 2020 #63

This person works in customer service dlk Jul 2020 #64

Now I am, dlk. The support here has been heartening. CTyankee Jul 2020 #66

I'm glad you feel supported dlk Jul 2020 #68

Even my own husband says "why do you let these things upset you? just ignore them." CTyankee Jul 2020 #69

When a man brings up rape to a woman, in any context, it's about power and control over them dlk Jul 2020 #73

I know He seems to think that rape comments can just be ignored but I am telling him differently. CTyankee Jul 2020 #75

Yes dlk Jul 2020 #84

I didn't see the original post radical noodle Jul 2020 #67

Exactly. I will report it and he will be called in and told it will go on his record. Of course, he CTyankee Jul 2020 #72

You're far too kind. I'd have reported his ass that same day. NurseJackie Jul 2020 #74

Report him. Skip the step where you give him fair warning. Mr. Ected Jul 2020 #76

Report Him NonPC Jul 2020 #77

This is why I checked it out with someone who has worked as a shop steward himself. I told him CTyankee Jul 2020 #78

WHat was the lie? I don't know what you are referring to. Context, please. Amaryllis Jul 2020 #79

here... Takket Jul 2020 #80

Thanks. I needed a mental health break and hadn't been on DU for a couple days. Amaryllis Jul 2020 #85

Realize that Rs believe that 90% of Americans agree with them on everything. stopbush Jul 2020 #81

yeah you should report that........... Takket Jul 2020 #82

I'd just report it. You cannot reason with stupid lettucebe Jul 2020 #83

Your so nice... EveDibb Jul 2020 #87

Your last paragraph is my thinking entirely. Obama would not have chosen him in the first place. CTyankee Jul 2020 #88

Be safe EveDibb Jul 2020 #89

Whatever you decide to do.... Dan Jul 2020 #90

Good luck with that. cwydro Jul 2020 #92

That's how big corps handle the trouble makers.. Maxheader Jul 2020 #93

Or you could just let it go. BannonsLiver Jul 2020 #94

UPDATE on this event. CTyankee Jul 2020 #95

You should report him anyway. WyattKansas Jul 2020 #104

See response above. I reported him at 8:30 this morning by phone. CTyankee Jul 2020 #105