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80. I finished the book a half hour ago

Mon Sep 7, 2020, 06:49 PM

Sep 2020

I have Cohen's book on preorder and wanted to finish this one up before tomorrow.

I was frequently upset with Stephanie throughout the book and found myself wondering what her husband and children must have been thinking about her blind devotion to a woman who gave so little in return. I think most husbands would have reached a breaking point and perhaps put down some sort of ultimatum - "Hey babe, its us or her". Meanwhile, it appears that he didn't even realize how much money Stephanie had paid in lawyer's fees while at the same time collecting no salary.

I agree that she does seem likable enough, but I also agree that she might need some therapy. Everyone is somebody's fool at one time or another, but her blind devotion to the Ice Queen for so many years is awfully disturbing. If nothing else, writing this book seems to have been very therapeutic for her.

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I just finished reading Melania and Me. [View all] madaboutharry Sep 2020 OP

I Remember Reading Somewhere That Ivanka Pocketed 20 Million Me. Sep 2020 #1

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Here is a Rolling Stone article that can answer your question Escurumbele Sep 2020 #51

Thank you Me. Sep 2020 #52

Thanks for the review. MontanaMama Sep 2020 #2

THEY all need to end up in prison yuiyoshida Sep 2020 #82

It was an interesting book. The Velveteen Ocelot Sep 2020 #3

I think sometimes people deep down know madaboutharry Sep 2020 #10

I think that's probably what happened. The Velveteen Ocelot Sep 2020 #11

Narcissists often marry other narcissists, so she's just like him. And unfortunately, pnwmom Sep 2020 #14

I think that most people have had friends PatSeg Sep 2020 #19

I kept mentally yelling "Get out! Get out!" The Velveteen Ocelot Sep 2020 #49

You too? PatSeg Sep 2020 #56

Replaces them with other bodies? Neither of them moonscape Sep 2020 #59

No, they don't PatSeg Sep 2020 #61

I think i'm at the same spot in the book as you, generalbetrayus Sep 2020 #72

I finished the book a half hour ago PatSeg Sep 2020 #80

Only a somewhat less offensive facade, if I may as so. 3catwoman3 Sep 2020 #26

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In one of the biographies I read, mention was made of her insistence that... 3catwoman3 Sep 2020 #94

She sounds like a nightmare. smirkymonkey Sep 2020 #95

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i am 100 pages into it and i think the same thing!!! samnsara Sep 2020 #4

Its quite a week for books PatSeg Sep 2020 #20

I'm curious if you mean she's "smarter" because she communicates less? forgotmylogin Sep 2020 #48

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She can say, "Leave the money on the dresser" in five languages. OMGWTF Sep 2020 #55

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MAY I Post your review on my Facebook page??? trueblue2007 Sep 2020 #13

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whomever gets thru out first, would you considering letting on?? demtenjeep Sep 2020 #17

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You're more patient than I to get through that tape. Totally Tunsie Sep 2020 #63

The audio here wasn't computerized. Was disappointed that Stephanie did so much talking Illumination Sep 2020 #64

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Oh, goodness...No! Totally Tunsie Sep 2020 #79

And that's exactly what made 90% of the actual book boring to read -- banal conversations, ancianita Sep 2020 #99

Wolkoff's interviews haven't inspired me to read her book, Totally Tunsie Sep 2020 #100

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