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tblue37

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35. I don't expect everyone to know everything I know--I just think that
Sun Sep 23, 2012, 09:38 PM
Sep 2012

if they don't know abotu something, they shouldn't sling the terminology around as though they do.

I am appalled because people with Asperger's are being insulted by the claim that nastiness like Romney's is to be expected from those with Asperger's.

I would be equally appalled if someone's ugliest personality traits or vices were said to be caused by his having, say, MS, or hearing loss, or visual impairments, or any other condition that is somewhere outside of what most people would call "normal."

It is the association of Asperger's with insulting, vicious personality traits that appalls me, because it paints as typically having such traits a group of people who are even less likely than most to have such traits.

In the same way, associating adults with developmental disabilities with violent acting out (which was commonly done in the past and is still done all too often today) led people to isolate and avoid such people, for fear that they might attack them.

If people get the idea that those with Asperger's tend to get nasty and insulting as a consequence of their syndrome, that will reinforce prejudices against them and unfair treatment of them. I consider that a good enough reason to be appalled!

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Link to post? thanks DURHAM D Sep 2012 #1
No reason to link to my post, since I have copy-pasted it tblue37 Sep 2012 #3
I see the comment/quote was from an article at Wonkette. DURHAM D Sep 2012 #14
+1 marybourg Sep 2012 #2
I'm an Aspie. He's no Aspie TrogL Sep 2012 #4
Precisely! Aren't you horrified at the ignorance about Asperger's tblue37 Sep 2012 #5
What makes him a "sociopath?" Has he killed anyone? foghat rules Sep 2012 #9
He is a bully, at the very least. This has been shown in numerous examples. pnwmom Sep 2012 #17
Well then Bush would be one too, right? treestar Sep 2012 #19
that word... BanzaiBonnie Sep 2012 #22
This message was self-deleted by its author devilgrrl Sep 2012 #23
Most sociopaths aren't murderers. Fact. nt laundry_queen Sep 2012 #25
And by definition, very few socoipaths are willing to participate in society loyalsister Sep 2012 #31
A sociopath has no feelings for others. Zoeisright Sep 2012 #36
good point. Liberal_in_LA Sep 2012 #6
I agree. Romney is just someone who thinks because he is rich he is entitled WI_DEM Sep 2012 #7
I hadn't heard that claim before. kag Sep 2012 #8
WTF? There's no need for a "diagnosis" -- the guy is just simply a prick. Sheesh! gateley Sep 2012 #10
Yep. DU's obsession with medicalizing everyone they don't like is irritating. (nt) Posteritatis Sep 2012 #11
Indeed! loyalsister Sep 2012 #33
In my professional opinion, and I am one, he does not have Asperger's Syndrome. nolabear Sep 2012 #12
Thank you for this siligut Sep 2012 #32
I disagree. Romney is an ass burger if anyone was. Kablooie Sep 2012 #13
Mitt is an ass-burger mindwalker_i Sep 2012 #15
He's not an aspie. He's a pathological narcissist, without a drop of empathy pnwmom Sep 2012 #16
I agree. deafskeptic Sep 2012 #20
I had one, also. pnwmom Sep 2012 #21
Sounds like my family. laundry_queen Sep 2012 #26
Agreed, Mitt being out of touch is not Asberger's treestar Sep 2012 #18
No, no, no. Willard doesn't HAVE Asperberger's MurrayDelph Sep 2012 #24
Why would you be appalled? randome Sep 2012 #27
These days for something as widespread as that? Yes, it's a reasonable expectation. (nt) Posteritatis Sep 2012 #29
I don't expect everyone to know everything I know--I just think that tblue37 Sep 2012 #35
rMoney is a psychopath. backscatter712 Sep 2012 #28
This is why I hate the "autistics have no empathy" crap. Odin2005 Sep 2012 #30
I am the mother of an Aspie, SheilaT Sep 2012 #34
Mitt's not on the autistic spectrum sakabatou Sep 2012 #37
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