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Rorey

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Reply to PoindexterOglethorpe (Reply #16)

Sun Oct 18, 2020, 11:10 PM

Oct 2020

I can sum up everything that happened in two short statements: He voted for trump. He had an affair.

Now that the 25 years we were together are in the rearview mirror, I can honestly say that the divorce was the best decision I made in 25 years. I didn't realize how unhappy I was until I was out of that situation. Life is good. Well, other than the state of the world, and the fact that we've been under the control of a monster in the WH and the repukes, that is.

(To clarify....we were together for 25 years, married for 20.)

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Question about direct deposit stimulus payment [View all] Rorey Oct 2020 OP

Can you alert your bank to not accept anything from your ex? Nt Heartstrings Oct 2020 #1

I doubt it Rorey Oct 2020 #7

One deposit, to our joint account... we're still married, though. Talitha Oct 2020 #2

Thank you. Rorey Oct 2020 #8

If you filed taxes together and if you received money back dewsgirl Oct 2020 #3

We had to pay in for a lot of years Rorey Oct 2020 #10

Good luck to you too. dewsgirl Oct 2020 #15

Only my dependent child got payment cpamomfromtexas Oct 2020 #4

My deepest condolences on the passing of your husband. Rorey Oct 2020 #17

Maybe this will help Rorey Oct 2020 #25

I think you need legal advice FBaggins Oct 2020 #5

We filed jointly in 2018 Rorey Oct 2020 #9

As an attorney I can tell you the cost of the "advice" would be more than the stimulus payment. former9thward Oct 2020 #18

As the Bard said in Hamlet, "There's the rub"... Talitha Oct 2020 #20

No reason that it has to FBaggins Oct 2020 #24

Depending on how the break up occurred kimbutgar Oct 2020 #6

The payment will go into my own account Rorey Oct 2020 #12

If the money shows up in your account, sending him a check would probably be the best option. Talitha Oct 2020 #21

use a Certified check Captain Zero Oct 2020 #23

I just want to add Rorey Oct 2020 #13

All I can offer is sympathy, but nothing of substance. PoindexterOglethorpe Oct 2020 #11

Thank you Rorey Oct 2020 #14

Without knowing any more than what you have posted, PoindexterOglethorpe Oct 2020 #16

Thank you Rorey Oct 2020 #19

You are amazing and courageous. PoindexterOglethorpe Oct 2020 #22