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In reply to the discussion: (Suze Orman)Apparently Poor & Middle Class People Shouldn't Have Babies [View all]Maine-ah
(9,902 posts)27. this is what we do
opposite shifts. Husband works days and I work nights, though right now I'm unemployed. Our daughter is now five. Three days a week at day care is $117 a week. We function quite well as a family. My daughter is a bright well adjusted kid, my husband has been with the same company for 13 years, he's a wonderful father and husband.
Families come in many stripes. You adjust and you do what you need to do to keep a roof over your head...you stick together and you love and nurture each other...that's how families work. We don't all fit perfectly into the same box.
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(Suze Orman)Apparently Poor & Middle Class People Shouldn't Have Babies [View all]
The Straight Story
Dec 2011
OP
Many, many people work on different shifts and their families do just fine. It takes a lot of extra
Brickbat
Dec 2011
#12
they may want their child to have siblings to grow up with, to teach, to learn from, etc.
CreekDog
Dec 2011
#22
"Their expenses are $6500/mo. They make $5600/mo" Obviously that's not working.
alphafemale
Dec 2011
#3
Your response illustrates what (for me) is so despicable about those contemplating having children
Uranus Needs Men
Dec 2011
#11
Forgoing a second child will not solve their income/spending problem. She should address that first.
Brickbat
Dec 2011
#20
They are running $900 in the red every month. Until they can get that straightened out,
iris27
Dec 2011
#21
I agree, though I haven't read her exact words. It's much more expensive to have children
napi21
Dec 2011
#26