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Showing Original Post only (View all)To my family who chose Trump over me: Was it worth it? (CNN article) [View all]
(CNN)"Was it worth it?" That was the poignant and wise question a family member posed on Facebook after Joe Biden became President-elect. It's a question I've grappled with for four years now. More specifically: Was your blind loyalty to President Donald Trump, a person you've never met, worth burning our family to the ground?
Mirroring our real-life relationships, Facebook connections among our family members ended suddenly after Trump's inauguration. We disagreed sharply when it was reported that Melania Trump would remain with the couple's young son in New York City to finish out the school year instead of moving with him to Washington DC. The additional costs for Secret Service protection in New York were significant.
We argued about it on Facebook until I wrote these two sentences: "If Michelle Obama had announced she was going to remain in Chicago with Sasha and Malia while running up the tab on the taxpayer-paid Secret Service protection, all the while charging them rent, I would have heard you bellowing all the way down here in Atlanta. You're a hypocrite."
The last thing I remember was the top of your head figuratively coming off, IN ALL CAPS as you fired off an incendiary reply. As I hit reply on my response, I received a message from Facebook informing me my comment wouldn't load. That's when I realized you had "unfriended" me...
We argued about it on Facebook until I wrote these two sentences: "If Michelle Obama had announced she was going to remain in Chicago with Sasha and Malia while running up the tab on the taxpayer-paid Secret Service protection, all the while charging them rent, I would have heard you bellowing all the way down here in Atlanta. You're a hypocrite."
The last thing I remember was the top of your head figuratively coming off, IN ALL CAPS as you fired off an incendiary reply. As I hit reply on my response, I received a message from Facebook informing me my comment wouldn't load. That's when I realized you had "unfriended" me...
https://www.cnn.com/2020/11/10/opinions/trump-tore-my-family-apart-eldredge/index.html
It's really well written and the ending especially is very good. I wish I could post the whole article.
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There are members here who have posted that they were thinking of cutting off family.
madaboutharry
Nov 2020
#3
I do not discuss politics with my two brothers nor a very dear 80 + year old aunt.
Demsrule86
Nov 2020
#25
I read every heart-breaking word. Yes. Very poignant and captures the situation for so many
hlthe2b
Nov 2020
#5
Fortunately most of my family was apolitical by their natures before all the Trump
ooky
Nov 2020
#27
I hope so. It's very hard in my family, even though we all try to refrain from politics when we are
smirkymonkey
Nov 2020
#30