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Chili

(1,725 posts)
50. not not not defending the owner, don't know...
Fri Dec 4, 2020, 03:42 AM
Dec 2020

...but I'm taking care of 2 strays and 4 ferals that I took over as a community/family from the wonderful elderly lady across the street - we live near a park, where MFs dump their cats and abandon them. She had them TNR'd and given shots - cost her a fortune. But her health eventually gave way and we lost her. She has a fantastic son who would stop by after work every day to feed them, give them fresh water. After a few months of that, I felt so bad I offered to take over. Four years later, I'm still working on getting 3 of the ferals inside the house, but they are afraid of my 2 dogs - the other three basically stay in the house in the winter and dominate . But they still demand out sometimes. So I worry worry worry about them, all the time, crossing the street, chasing each other out there... I can't control them. Thankfully we live on a quiet street, but there are always assholes driving too fast, not paying attention to anything.

Don't know how many people who take care of ferals / strays can afford this - sh*t, *I* can't afford it - but I'm in the middle of converting my beat-up backyard into a half dog run / half large catio, with cat-proof fencing all around to keep them out of the street. I would say I'll be eating cat food for a long time once it's done, since I'm so broke now, 'cept they eat Blue Buffalo which damn near costs what I eat.

So... just saying that, possibly, that cat was an outdoor cat who just had an unlucky moment. I feel terrible for both of you.

Oh and, f*ck me if I ever hit any pet or animal, or God forbid, a child... my life would be over, it would be devastating.

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In the rain? lame54 Dec 2020 #1
8pm, dark, rainy, highway Demovictory9 Dec 2020 #3
In a church parking lot jimfields33 Dec 2020 #20
What. The. Actual. Fuck. greenjar_01 Dec 2020 #2
And Ferrets are Cool Dec 2020 #4
Exactly. I'd never get over it. Never. hlthe2b Dec 2020 #5
+1 Ferrets are Cool Dec 2020 #7
yeah, someone is going to need therapy Demovictory9 Dec 2020 #8
Took Me A Month To Get Over... ProfessorGAC Dec 2020 #29
I hit a bird. Felt horrible Demovictory9 Dec 2020 #39
not not not defending the owner, don't know... Chili Dec 2020 #50
yeah. I know many put kids out of the car BUT NOT ON THE HIGHWAY!! here is pic of 165 Demovictory9 Dec 2020 #6
The article says they pulled into a church parking lot coti Dec 2020 #18
Don't be so sure. BGBD Dec 2020 #21
So what happens if you don't have a garage when coti Dec 2020 #22
Do you think BGBD Dec 2020 #23
No, this is nothing like holding a kid's head underwater coti Dec 2020 #24
I don't agree BGBD Dec 2020 #31
Do you realize that you haven't even ruled out coti Dec 2020 #32
You're losing the thread BGBD Dec 2020 #40
I have a strong suspicion that if it wasn't raining coti Dec 2020 #43
You think the rain isn't pertinent? BGBD Dec 2020 #45
It sounds like he abandoned the kid in the parking lot dansolo Dec 2020 #51
Un.fucking.believable. Crunchy Frog Dec 2020 #25
They are lying...no way that kid ended up on the highway from a church parking lot...hope they Demsrule86 Dec 2020 #26
I agree with your being suspicious of the the larger coti Dec 2020 #36
OMG. I just read the article. This was less than 5 miles from my home. Ferrets are Cool Dec 2020 #9
This is SICK. NCDem47 Dec 2020 #10
JFC. That poor driver. How the hell do you ever get over that? Maru Kitteh Dec 2020 #11
Sickening Johnny2X2X Dec 2020 #12
This message was self-deleted by its author Freelancer Dec 2020 #13
I Faux pas Dec 2020 #14
You force a five year old out of a car on a highway malaise Dec 2020 #15
Right? Who effing does that? Bettie Dec 2020 #17
I just can't, process this. FM123 Dec 2020 #16
Horrific honest.abe Dec 2020 #19
Poor, sweet little boy. smirkymonkey Dec 2020 #33
Some people shouldn't be allowed to have kids. cwydro Dec 2020 #27
That child wasn't his. LisaL Dec 2020 #28
I know. cwydro Dec 2020 #30
You know she has to have been aware of his EllieBC Dec 2020 #38
Exactly. She's referred to as a longtime girlfriend. cwydro Dec 2020 #46
I hate to say it but EllieBC Dec 2020 #47
Was she in the car? If so,she should be charged as well. Demsrule86 Dec 2020 #34
I hope he is kicked out of the service. LiberalFighter Dec 2020 #35
I hope BGBD Dec 2020 #41
Unruly?!?! He was 5! EllieBC Dec 2020 #37
A major threat to the welfare and lives of many children is the boyfriend of a mother Kaleva Dec 2020 #42
Oh my heart Delphinus Dec 2020 #44
As a father of three usajumpedtheshark Dec 2020 #48
Jesus Christ vercetti2021 Dec 2020 #49
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