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In reply to the discussion: Let it sink. [View all]Froward69
(5,098 posts)Turtle neck sweaters and chastity belts for everyone!!! YAY...
the violence perpetrated I believe, is a direct result of a nanny state where sex and sexuality are suppressed. terms like vagina Labia and penis are commonly subjected to becoming slang terms because society as a whole (or the greatest majority of it) is fearful of sex.
When Sharks Orgy and Dolphins rape, Humans are not that different when it comes to sex. to discount human behavior as somehow Superior and controllable is really the dumb position to take.
the other aspect is the glorification of "Beauty" in our society. not everyone can be beautiful and desirable, but everyone can have sex. the reservations and denial of sex to those who would otherwise be the best most loving person. IS what I believe to be the basis of the violence. as someone who is kept in a position of weakness will eventually TAKE the opportunity to control and dominate violently and especially sexually.
me?? once I learned to be nasty and mean towards girls. I get laid far more often than i did being "loving" AND "caring". I still Care and I still Love yet I do not wear it on my sleeve any longer... I suppress it. as once I admit I am a big softie... I get tossed over for some other asshole. <--- just the way it is I wish it were different but it ain't.