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True Dough

(26,586 posts)
13. I respect your decision
Sat Jan 2, 2021, 06:26 PM
Jan 2021

but are you confident things are going to work out in your favor? I was hit by another driver in a minor accident. She admitted fault at the scene and fortunately she sent me a text message with her name and "the lady who hit you" as part of it. We didn't involve the police. But the relatively minor cosmetic damage was resulting in body shop estimates around $3,000.

When I presented three estimates to her, she texted me again later and said her neighbor is a backyard mechanic who does quality body work and he could fix the damage for much less. I said thanks, but no thanks.

As the weeks went by, she changed her story and denied that she caused the accident. I told my insurance agent that I would send the text messages as proof. The insurance agent, much to my surprise, said text messages are meaningless to them. I insisted on talking to someone at a managerial level. A few days later another agent called me back and invited me to forward the text messages. I did. The issue was then resolved within 24 hours. No fault for me. It was a relief, but shouldn't have been such an ordeal.

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Do you feel safe calling 911? [View all] KentuckyWoman Jan 2021 OP
do you know how many 911 calls are made Skittles Jan 2021 #1
I don't. I expect it's rare. KentuckyWoman Jan 2021 #2
I would have called 911 Skittles Jan 2021 #4
If I see a man punch a woman, I'm calling the police without a second's delay. cwydro Jan 2021 #19
I don't think the non-caller was weighing the possibilities angstlessk Jan 2021 #3
I called them for an elderly person falling treestar Jan 2021 #5
I'm in an almost all white area in Idaho. It's common knowledge that if it's a domestic brewens Jan 2021 #6
We just had a situation in the last month of shoot first ask 2nd. KentuckyWoman Jan 2021 #11
So you just assume the "big guys" would handle the situation correctly? cwydro Jan 2021 #20
Be assured. KentuckyWoman Jan 2021 #33
Here, I Suppose So ProfessorGAC Jan 2021 #7
Did they bring your large pie with the works? True Dough Jan 2021 #9
Now That You Mention It ProfessorGAC Jan 2021 #12
Did you check their pockets True Dough Jan 2021 #14
I was involved in a car accident a few weeks ago. Dem2theMax Jan 2021 #8
I respect your decision True Dough Jan 2021 #13
Yes. Luckily for me, my situation was not nearly as bad as what you went through. Dem2theMax Jan 2021 #17
Glad to hear it won't be an ongoing hassle for you True Dough Jan 2021 #31
I would have called in that situation... demmiblue Jan 2021 #10
I reckon by my personal experience it's about 60/40 for the police improving the ultimate outcome... hunter Jan 2021 #28
I have never called 911. But my phone did, twice. Cops showed up both times progree Jan 2021 #15
I used to have 911 speed dialed on my landline Bayard Jan 2021 #22
Sheriff's deputies showed up at my house answering to a 911 call. marie999 Jan 2021 #26
This message was self-deleted by its author progree Jan 2021 #16
My granddaughter, who is 30, was drinking with some friends in a bar a few years ago Mr.Bill Jan 2021 #18
Yes, in an emergency, because I'm an older White Tom Rinaldo Jan 2021 #21
I've seen the police shoot people I wouldn't have shot... hunter Jan 2021 #23
The system is working as it was designed. It can't be "fixed" or reformed. WhiskeyGrinder Jan 2021 #24
This reminds me of the Kitty Genovese story. Later to be debunked, but still. cwydro Jan 2021 #25
you did... myohmy2 Jan 2021 #27
I don't feel right about calling 911 because, like you, I'm afraid I'm putting someone in danger Empowerer Jan 2021 #29
I know a woman who was last seen arguing with her boyfriend at a gas station 5 years ago. Kaleva Jan 2021 #30
An estimated 240 million calls are made to 9-1-1 in the U.S. each year. Klaralven Jan 2021 #32
We're they black? lilmamba Jan 2021 #34
I've Called RobinA Jan 2021 #35
Yep, I do. I called them 3 mos ago. Duppers Jan 2021 #36
Of course I do. I'm not about to do nothing while someone is being beaten! nt Raine Jan 2021 #37
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