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redqueen

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145. I'm not angry at anyone who isn't invested in minimizing the issue of rape culture.
Tue Jan 10, 2012, 07:46 PM
Jan 2012

Did you see the thread about the woman who was raped repeatedly while hotel workers accepted the word of her rapists that everything was fine, despite her screaming?

Did you see that that thread was dismissed by an outraged DUer who found it unconscionable that we discuss the incident?

Do you not see that the post below, claiming that just because this is an old email that it's somehow meaningless and this is a non issue dismisses the issue of rapes on college campuses?

Just because you're comforted and reassured that the frequency of rape is decreasing, that doesn't mean that everyone is so all fired up and satisfied that we think that now we can just ignore this crap and pretend that anyone dismissing it is just ducky and we shouldn't be annoyed about that attempt to dismiss it at all? That many of us are aware of how many women never report the rape to begin with, so such statistics really aren't so comforting that we can allow people to attempt to minimize these things?

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it is a free for all on women. here on du, too. sexism and misogyny has gotten a thumbs up. seabeyond Jan 2012 #1
.... dana_b Jan 2012 #4
Seems like we're going backward... one_voice Jan 2012 #6
i have been saying for too long that we are, and why, and it is a huge issue. we address it or we seabeyond Jan 2012 #13
I have seen a trend... one_voice Jan 2012 #24
What forum is that? Fawke Em Jan 2012 #48
that has already played out and we can't. it is what it is. nt seabeyond Jan 2012 #49
Of course, there's also this: mistertrickster Jan 2012 #54
what does that have to do with this issue? divert to talk about all the zillion of men being falsely seabeyond Jan 2012 #58
What I posted was entirely factual. mistertrickster Jan 2012 #59
you are wrong. nt seabeyond Jan 2012 #60
you are right. n/t zappaman Jan 2012 #65
red herring. The subject is, "dehumanizing women" BlancheSplanchnik Jan 2012 #95
But... what about the men! redqueen Jan 2012 #131
What's "MRA"? BlancheSplanchnik Jan 2012 #134
Men's Rights Advocates redqueen Jan 2012 #135
Ohhhhhhhh DUHHHHHHH BlancheSplanchnik Jan 2012 #136
Hah yes... redqueen Jan 2012 #138
We're not going backwards. Sex crimes are down. mistertrickster Jan 2012 #61
again, i disagree, in some respects.... nt seabeyond Jan 2012 #64
you are right. n/t zappaman Jan 2012 #66
not that there is concern a man does this, but your need to dismiss women, again. seabeyond Jan 2012 #71
jumping in cuz I agree zappaman Jan 2012 #72
i have seen you dismiss sexist and misogynist behavior in every post. no one should bother with seabeyond Jan 2012 #73
I've seen you display open misandry in nearly every thread on this subject. Occulus Jan 2012 #81
i supported the mens forum on du2. comtec actively went after that forum seabeyond Jan 2012 #82
Then why'd you complain about it for DU3? Occulus Jan 2012 #83
i didnt complain about the mens forum. you might be getting confused with a different seabeyond Jan 2012 #85
Nope. Occulus Jan 2012 #89
nope? you accuse, know for a fact, but you cant clue me in what you are accusing me of? seabeyond Jan 2012 #91
I already gave what I remember to be very close to a direct quote. Occulus Jan 2012 #96
the issue i had before du3 opened was no moderators and a jury system. that has nothing to do with seabeyond Jan 2012 #97
I think the DU3 preview threads, the testing ones, are gone. Occulus Jan 2012 #104
ya. so? seabeyond Jan 2012 #105
actually, he's not. BlancheSplanchnik Jan 2012 #94
I wasn't just talking about sex... one_voice Jan 2012 #67
"Sex crimes down"--NOT according to MY sources. Please update your information BlancheSplanchnik Jan 2012 #77
I'll definitely be checking back redqueen Jan 2012 #88
I have a feeling he won't reply BlancheSplanchnik Jan 2012 #92
Ridiculing my profession is not fair. mistertrickster Jan 2012 #113
I wasn't ridiculing your profession. I was ridiculing *you*.... BlancheSplanchnik Jan 2012 #128
I guess silence is easier than a simple "you were right." nt mistertrickster Jan 2012 #127
Actually, my life got in the way--halfway through my reply to you too. BlancheSplanchnik Jan 2012 #129
My God, if snark were money, you'd be a billionaire. You're blocked. nt mistertrickster Jan 2012 #140
well, for anyone *else* reading then.... BlancheSplanchnik Jan 2012 #149
see the following mistertrickster Jan 2012 #116
I'll definitely be checking back too, lol. nt mistertrickster Jan 2012 #126
LOL indeed. redqueen Jan 2012 #132
You know, clever sounding personal insults mistertrickster Jan 2012 #142
How about the US census for "updating my sources"? mistertrickster Jan 2012 #115
this guy should have lost his job. boston bean Jan 2012 #70
Don't leave! Then they win. :-( chrisa Jan 2012 #63
His parents must be very proud. Suich Jan 2012 #2
I was just thinking that someone should send that email to his parents. CurtEastPoint Jan 2012 #3
hope the guy gets kicked out of USC nt/ RainDog Jan 2012 #5
Again!? This text sounds very familiar - is this an old report, or did USC petronius Jan 2012 #7
4 years Tunkamerica Jan 2012 #19
How do we know this is even a real e-mail message? mistertrickster Jan 2012 #55
Haven't heard that term in 40 years? Time to update your information: BlancheSplanchnik Jan 2012 #79
I grew up in the country in MI Occulus Jan 2012 #98
hey, I was just citing popular, contemporary websites, BlancheSplanchnik Jan 2012 #103
Good God, that's an over-the-top response Occulus Jan 2012 #107
You think someone correcting your misperception is an attack? BlancheSplanchnik Jan 2012 #109
Written by a pig,and other than that words fail me. virgogal Jan 2012 #8
and other "pigs" are listening and learning from him.... a kennedy Jan 2012 #14
And THAT *is* true. Occulus Jan 2012 #101
This message was self-deleted by its author seabeyond Jan 2012 #108
only 'explanation' ... "that age" once is that the little head is thinking for the big head. seabeyond Jan 2012 #111
Well that's disgusting . . ProfessionalLeftist Jan 2012 #9
I fear iverglas Jan 2012 #10
they are not even drooling over her. they are making comments to degrade, dehumanize women seabeyond Jan 2012 #17
I bet he comes from a "prominent" rethug family. Peregrine Took Jan 2012 #11
why, because this is not a male issue, just a repug male issue? really? seabeyond Jan 2012 #18
what board are you reading? Tunkamerica Jan 2012 #23
no i was not saying rape. yes i was saying misogyny. thank you for allowing me to clarify. nt seabeyond Jan 2012 #25
"male issue" Occulus Jan 2012 #87
did you read post 25 or just conveniently ignoring? nt seabeyond Jan 2012 #90
Oh, I read it, all right. Occulus Jan 2012 #99
wow. read it and ignored it. bully for you. nt seabeyond Jan 2012 #100
Let's go back for a second Occulus Jan 2012 #102
lets not. you have wasted too much time on your garbage. nt seabeyond Jan 2012 #106
I'm curious, I wonder what kind of relationship Raine Jan 2012 #12
This message was self-deleted by its author Ecumenist Jan 2012 #15
OMG, really?? If someone did this to me, being the person I am today? Ecumenist Jan 2012 #16
This sumbitch is acting like there's no such thing as AIDS Ecumenist Jan 2012 #20
What I don't get is that these guys have female family members. Swede Jan 2012 #21
college chant ... no means yes. gang rape porn a favorite. where does sisters, mothers seabeyond Jan 2012 #26
Exactly. Anyone who is surprised redqueen Jan 2012 #52
What college did you go to that had gang rape porn or "no means yes"? (NT) Heywood J Jan 2012 #56
yale. first google. didnt read seabeyond Jan 2012 #57
Thank you for the link. Heywood J Jan 2012 #124
you are welcome. i am the worst googler around. kids laugh seabeyond Jan 2012 #125
San Diego State University n/t dogknob Jan 2012 #93
Wrong - YALE. proverbialwisdom Jan 2012 #117
I know this happened to two friends of mine in college abelenkpe Jan 2012 #22
"Isolated Incident" my ass, close all these frat houses. Odin2005 Jan 2012 #27
Ugh... These thugs are an embarrassment to real men everywhere. Initech Jan 2012 #28
Dumbass fratboy should read the paper. The term "rape" has been redefined, so to speak. flvegan Jan 2012 #29
Solution Bohunk68 Jan 2012 #30
Objectification = dehumanization. redqueen Jan 2012 #31
post 26. i am surprised you are surprise. YES. lets all pretend seabeyond Jan 2012 #35
It is sad. redqueen Jan 2012 #51
what i am finding is when it is blatanly presented, how consistently people ignore the issue seabeyond Jan 2012 #74
Either deny it exists or pretend it's ok. redqueen Jan 2012 #86
The Military sure understands the value of DEHUMANIZING BlancheSplanchnik Jan 2012 #80
Some deny that objectification even exists. redqueen Jan 2012 #84
yeah... BlancheSplanchnik Jan 2012 #130
It's amazing that so many people can apparently maintain such a huge blind spot... redqueen Jan 2012 #137
Kappa Sigma.. doesn't surprise me annm4peace Jan 2012 #32
Shouldn't Campus Police be investigating this? annm4peace Jan 2012 #33
Kappa Sig. . .not surprised! Suji to Seoul Jan 2012 #34
I wouldn't blame the greek system for this LTR Jan 2012 #36
high-testosterone college male.... oh those silly boys. nt seabeyond Jan 2012 #40
That email is a disaster. LetTimmySmoke Jan 2012 #37
There are many good reasons to avoid frat parties quaker bill Jan 2012 #38
They should plaster his name all over the internet _ed_ Jan 2012 #39
+1. yes the nets, for all to see, when applying for a job. i could do without just testosterone seabeyond Jan 2012 #41
Actions should have consequences _ed_ Jan 2012 #42
Excellent Idea... we should help fascisthunter Jan 2012 #47
USC Tends to Attract this Type dynasaw Jan 2012 #43
As a University of Tennessee football fan, I have to smile at this statement. Fawke Em Jan 2012 #46
Go burn another couch... Starfury Jan 2012 #62
Huh??? Fawke Em Jan 2012 #118
Blame Pete Carroll. n/t Cali_Democrat Jan 2012 #68
Na... I'll blame Kiffin. Fawke Em Jan 2012 #119
What a ludicrous post filled with grossly offensive overgeneralizations. proverbialwisdom Jan 2012 #75
No. 5 of the Fourteen Signs of Fascism Fawke Em Jan 2012 #44
we have a twofer. keep wemmez as virgins, all wemmez is whores for mans play. seabeyond Jan 2012 #50
Ah yes... another conscienceless meathead fascisthunter Jan 2012 #45
This is someone who women don't like treestar Jan 2012 #53
Tomorrow's corporate executives and politicians. nt Fire Walk With Me Jan 2012 #69
FYI, read here including comments at links: http://dailytrojan.com/?s=kappa+sigma+viral+email proverbialwisdom Jan 2012 #76
excuse me? are you accusing me of having an... one_voice Jan 2012 #78
Please see post #114, thanks. Now if you'd posted about this upcoming DVD release, no argument. proverbialwisdom Jan 2012 #120
I didn't know it was a year old... one_voice Jan 2012 #121
Also wanted to add... one_voice Jan 2012 #123
Whoever Dorian Gray Jan 2012 #110
I would think it would be an embarassment Le Taz Hot Jan 2012 #112
This story is nearly a year old. ONE student wrote this (and he was not from USC); it LeftinOH Jan 2012 #114
Awww, Leftin, you're spoiling the OUTRAGE! mistertrickster Jan 2012 #122
All the people who chimed in with their personal stories were lying? redqueen Jan 2012 #133
Way to go for the personal insult. I guess mistertrickster Jan 2012 #141
Way to avoid addressing the problem, redqueen Jan 2012 #143
I never said that rape in college was not a problem. mistertrickster Jan 2012 #144
I'm not angry at anyone who isn't invested in minimizing the issue of rape culture. redqueen Jan 2012 #145
Yup, you win. nt mistertrickster Jan 2012 #146
I'm not trying to win. redqueen Jan 2012 #147
Heh, BS. nt mistertrickster Jan 2012 #148
"Isolated incident"? MadrasT Jan 2012 #139
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