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jumptheshadow

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57. Rather than berating me

Sat Feb 27, 2021, 05:50 PM

Feb 2021

Why don't you show a scintilla of sensitivity for the situation of people who have been trying as hard as they can to protect and save the lives of loved ones? Instead of answering with snark, which is just an ill-researched response to a very real desperate situation?

And this thread is as valuable to the public as 2,027 threads saying, "I got the vaccine and the people on the ground were wonderful." On this thread, you are seeing some of the situations I have heard about -- people in their 80s who are blind who can't get the vaccine.

While public officials are trying to pass off the blame, a lot of you want to plaster happy faces on a situation where it is still impossible for qualified medical professionals to ascertain who in line should receive the vaccine.

If you don't see the frustration and resentment, then you don't have your ear to the ground. Or, giving you the benefit of the doubt, you live in a place where there actually are effective systems.

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Can we show sensitivity to those who can't get vaccines? [View all] jumptheshadow Feb 2021 OP

I can't get a shot for various reasons. LakeArenal Feb 2021 #1

Great post. OnDoutside Feb 2021 #4

+1 nt Kahuna Feb 2021 #116

Thank you! Mickju Feb 2021 #178

I can't find a vaccination either at this point, but I sure am thrilled when my DU compadres score!! Leghorn21 Feb 2021 #2

Try this CDC VAX locator! SheltieLover Feb 2021 #11

I still can't find a vaccine appointment in my area meow2u3 Feb 2021 #35

I had to keep refreshing page for about an hour to find mine. SheltieLover Feb 2021 #38

The farther away from a major metropolitan area you get the better the chances Major Nikon Feb 2021 #59

We live just outside Houston and drove 6 hours to a CVS in Witchita Falls, TX Sucha NastyWoman Feb 2021 #67

My appointments are at the Lake Worth CVS Major Nikon Feb 2021 #74

So glad you were able to get one. Do you need help getting there? Sucha NastyWoman Feb 2021 #79

Fortunately I'm not that old yet Major Nikon Feb 2021 #81

Hard to tell age here Sucha NastyWoman Feb 2021 #144

Oh, look - you get to choose which vaccine you want. Ms. Toad Feb 2021 #41

That's all well and good, but... AZ8theist Feb 2021 #177

Some of the guidelines are ridiculous, for sure! SheltieLover Feb 2021 #185

Part of the problem.... AZ8theist Feb 2021 #187

Every person who gets a vaccination makes it more likely that those who can't or don't BComplex Feb 2021 #109

We have helped several elderly people get vaccinations. gordianot Feb 2021 #3

Thank you for expressing the frustration of so many of us virgdem Feb 2021 #5

Try CDC Vax finder link! SheltieLover Feb 2021 #7

Thanks for this! ShazzieB Feb 2021 #132

Try this CDC VAX locator! SheltieLover Feb 2021 #6

In my case, it's not a matter of wnylib Feb 2021 #30

But the CDC site shows which pharmacies have vaccine appointments available & SheltieLover Feb 2021 #33

There are 2 pharmacies in my community, wnylib Feb 2021 #44

So sorry to hear this! SheltieLover Feb 2021 #50

I don't know where you are - Ms. Toad Feb 2021 #53

Same in the Syracuse area whistler162 Feb 2021 #63

The map says these places have the vaccine FakeNoose Feb 2021 #127

I'm not eligible yet - Ms. Toad Feb 2021 #129

I hear ya. It's been my experience, too. wnylib Feb 2021 #133

FakeNoose, your experience mirrors mine! ShazzieB Feb 2021 #134

My experience as well, upstatepolyglot Feb 2021 #142

I wasn't expecting to get one till late this year and I didn't begrudge those who have gotten it. Kaleva Feb 2021 #8

I don't begrudge those who got shots jumptheshadow Feb 2021 #16

I can see your point but i also think many here who were worried sick and now got the vaccine Kaleva Feb 2021 #19

How is ANY of this being disrespectful? NurseJackie Feb 2021 #51

Thank you NJ SilasSouleII Feb 2021 #56

That's right mcar Feb 2021 #118

Thank you. sheshe2 Feb 2021 #130

I agree with you. Mickju Feb 2021 #179

Thank you, NJ. All along I've felt a sense of community, as if we're holding each others' hands... Hekate Mar 2021 #196

Amen! GusBob Mar 2021 #198

Also people who don't live in the richest country on earth who don't even have a chance at one meadowlander Feb 2021 #9

"They" don't speak for all of us. LakeArenal Feb 2021 #14

I love the idea of pinning threads! ShazzieB Feb 2021 #137

Good idea! smirkymonkey Feb 2021 #176

Thank you. I've only been able to "pre-pre-register" at 3 sites that have no idea 50 Shades Of Blue Feb 2021 #10

I know exactly how you feel, 50 Shades! ShazzieB Feb 2021 #141

Hopefully things will improve for all of us! 50 Shades Of Blue Feb 2021 #165

Things seem to be opening up pretty fast. Ocelot II Feb 2021 #12

Here is CDC vaccine locator - worked for me SheltieLover Feb 2021 #39

Interesting.... cannabis_flower Feb 2021 #125

The site has only been repurposed a few days ago SheltieLover Feb 2021 #156

Wow! Thanks for this MyMission Feb 2021 #154

You are most welcome! SheltieLover Feb 2021 #157

Thank you for posting this LetMyPeopleVote Feb 2021 #170

You are most welcome! SheltieLover Feb 2021 #172

I am fully vaccinated and so is many members of my family LetMyPeopleVote Feb 2021 #174

This message was self-deleted by its author Ocelot II Feb 2021 #13

kaiser hawaii still restricting to over 75 (and have for 2 months) nt msongs Feb 2021 #15

Many people are not getting vaccinated due to fear of negative reactions. I think AnotherMother4Peace Feb 2021 #17

You are correct jumptheshadow Feb 2021 #26

I HOPE you will get yours soon; that those who were fearful will now AnotherMother4Peace Feb 2021 #93

Right after I stop. (n/t) Iggo Feb 2021 #18

The point of all those posts is hope. MineralMan Feb 2021 #20

+1 Ferrets are Cool Feb 2021 #94

Vaccines are becoming more available LetMyPeopleVote Feb 2021 #171

I am more into informing people, all people how to get a shot because a lot is perseverance and LizBeth Feb 2021 #21

I'm mid fifties, work with the public almost every day obamanut2012 Feb 2021 #22

Everyone who gets a vaccine helps those that cannot be vaccinated grantcart Feb 2021 #23

THANK YOU!!! For a lot of us, it's still, GoCubsGo Feb 2021 #24

+1 wnylib Feb 2021 #36

Try this CDC vaccine locator - worked for me! SheltieLover Feb 2021 #42

I am not eligible. The locator is useless to me. GoCubsGo Feb 2021 #65

Oh. Sorry to hear. SheltieLover Feb 2021 #68

A worthwhile rant. It's getting better though. A new vaccine is now availabe. brush Feb 2021 #25

12,882 Lilaclady Feb 2021 #27

At least in Ohio - Ms. Toad Feb 2021 #55

My mother got her second one on Friday and my friends husband gets his second tomorrow. Ka-Dinh Oy Feb 2021 #28

I keep trying, but no JohnnyRingo Feb 2021 #29

perhaps also consider 'building a fire' stopdiggin Feb 2021 #31

I am having difficulty scheduling the vaccine; SilverDawg Feb 2021 #32

For a minute I thought I had read this on a site other than du. msfiddlestix Feb 2021 #34

So what exactly is it that you want people to do? NurseJackie Feb 2021 #37

Agree with your post 100% beaglelover Feb 2021 #45

Rather than berating me jumptheshadow Feb 2021 #57

Ridiculous! Sharing our successes and motivational stories is NOT being "insensitive" to anyone. NurseJackie Feb 2021 #66

You are taking this far too personally jumptheshadow Feb 2021 #75

Lulz. NurseJackie Feb 2021 #83

I had a poster in December go off on me over receiving it xmas74 Feb 2021 #119

That's awful. Silver1 Feb 2021 #138

I've lurked since 2002 xmas74 Feb 2021 #147

You sure as heck aren't speaking for me Random Boomer Feb 2021 #96

I think that's because your OP berates those who have shared good news muriel_volestrangler Feb 2021 #97

It is personal. Pacifist Patriot Feb 2021 #162

Thank you for your posts here, Jackie. Silver Gaia Feb 2021 #100

Amen. Wednesdays Feb 2021 #155

I agree with you LetMyPeopleVote Feb 2021 #173

For those who are waiting.... nvme Feb 2021 #40

We (food service) were in the 1B group in my state happybird Feb 2021 #43

I can't get vaccinated eithter. LisaL Feb 2021 #46

Things are MFM008 Feb 2021 #47

Absolutely nothing available for me right now. ananda Feb 2021 #48

Same here. West FL. ancianita Feb 2021 #52

Ugh. Most of my family are in Austin. momta Feb 2021 #64

Thank you ananda Feb 2021 #91

So my posts trying to alleviate fears about effects are insensitive? nolabear Feb 2021 #49

You're right. It's petty resentment at the good fortune (or luck or perseverance) of others. NurseJackie Feb 2021 #54

Thank you, Jackie. murielm99 Feb 2021 #58

More thoughtfulness and consideration, please jumptheshadow Feb 2021 #73

You may think that's what you're doing... but that's not what you're doing. NurseJackie Feb 2021 #90

Sharing Keepthesoulalive Feb 2021 #111

"Hey, I won the lottery!" Wednesdays Feb 2021 #158

Indeed! NurseJackie Feb 2021 #160

The situation out there is currently DESPERATE. Mariana Feb 2021 #168

Thanks Jackie. nolabear Feb 2021 #122

Your posts are wonderful Random Boomer Feb 2021 #103

I read one of your posts sheshe2 Feb 2021 #148

Congratulations and amen! Keep wearing those masks! nolabear Feb 2021 #149

That is the whole point, isn't it. sheshe2 Feb 2021 #150

I feel no resentment but rather happiness Akacia Feb 2021 #60

I'm 64 and 7 months with two confirmed and one suspected cancer, Ms. Toad Feb 2021 #61

Me and you should go to PA to get vaccinated. LisaL Feb 2021 #69

I've explored it a bit. Ms. Toad Feb 2021 #115

Misinterpretation jumptheshadow Feb 2021 #77

I just don't see it as tone deaf. n/t Ms. Toad Feb 2021 #114

What tone deafness? mcar Feb 2021 #121

I had a hard time getting my 93 yr old mom Tree Lady Feb 2021 #62

I can't get a vaccine until phase 2 of the roll out begins. MontanaMama Feb 2021 #70

Colorado has a pretty good system, just not enough vaccine. momta Feb 2021 #71

I fully expect to qualify for my vaccine when the variants have taken over & the vaccine is rendered Native Feb 2021 #72

My oldest son (34) and I had this discussion this morning mnhtnbb Feb 2021 #108

my kid's a software engineer too & on maternity leave she created a vac finding site for her state.. Native Feb 2021 #167

My brother in Mass will be 75 in August, his wife a couple of years younger. They can't get an appt Fla Dem Feb 2021 #76

You have hit on a very real issue jumptheshadow Feb 2021 #78

I live in Florida, and DeSantis is doing a shit job. Go to macovidvaccines.com... Native Feb 2021 #82

Thank you, I am working all the sites jumptheshadow Feb 2021 #85

It's strictly a MA site. Native Feb 2021 #89

There are several sites in my state, as well jumptheshadow Feb 2021 #104

Backatcha! Native Feb 2021 #163

Thank you I shared that site with my brother today. Fla Dem Feb 2021 #183

Not here in CT. Governor Lamont's plan, while not perfect, has gotten us vaccinated. We are in CTyankee Feb 2021 #84

Here are the numbers for Massachusetts, Florida, and the US as a whole: Mariana Feb 2021 #169

I enjoy hearing about more and more people getting it. It makes me hopeful, not resentful. GulfCoast66 Feb 2021 #80

It breaks my heart to think of the millions who are spending LuckyLib Feb 2021 #86

I refuse to publicly discuss my covid vaccine experiences Rocknation Feb 2021 #87

+1 Native Feb 2021 #92

lol Random Boomer Feb 2021 #105

I'm in New Mexico, where you register through the state dept of health. PoindexterOglethorpe Feb 2021 #88

I'm from NM too. Elessar Zappa Feb 2021 #124

We aren't? Hekate Feb 2021 #95

My wife and I are both in our sixties. BobTheSubgenius Feb 2021 #98

Maybe move the discussion to a DU Health Forum leftstreet Feb 2021 #99

At what percentage point can we say, "OK, you can now celebrate?" Croney Feb 2021 #101

I think All of us want the vaccine NOW karynnj Feb 2021 #102

This message was self-deleted by its author ExTex Feb 2021 #106

Thank you! upstatepolyglot Feb 2021 #135

Thank you jumptheshadow! OddMom20 Feb 2021 #107

Here in the Caribbean, we will get AstraZeneca....... They will be distributing province by province secondwind Feb 2021 #110

The Indian Reservation on which I live and work GusBob Feb 2021 #112

+1 sheshe2 Feb 2021 #123

Coming right out and saying it, jealousy. For me, it's jealousy. oregonjen Feb 2021 #113

Amen to this. ShazzieB Feb 2021 #143

How is reporting that one got the vaccine mcar Feb 2021 #117

So what would you do? jumptheshadow Feb 2021 #131

I think you are mistaking announcing that one has gotten the vaccine mcar Feb 2021 #145

Asking one to be more sensitive does not equate to not being happy they got a shot jumptheshadow Feb 2021 #151

People on a "medical fast" don't go to restaurants and berate the people eating big meals. NurseJackie Feb 2021 #161

Wait, wait, wait jumptheshadow Feb 2021 #191

Absolutely ridiculous. You know perfectly well that I've done no such thing. NurseJackie Feb 2021 #192

Wow mcar Feb 2021 #175

I am 39,687th in line upstatepolyglot Feb 2021 #120

I was pretty much in the same position Rhiannon12866 Feb 2021 #153

CVS is where I got mine Sat. sheshe2 Feb 2021 #189

And where I got mine Friday! Rhiannon12866 Feb 2021 #193

Totally disagree Blues Heron Feb 2021 #126

I will be one of the last ones to get the vaccine but I LOVE reading about others JI7 Feb 2021 #128

Oh, for **** sake! GaYellowDawg Feb 2021 #136

Nailed it in ONE sentence... (the first one) NurseJackie Feb 2021 #140

Agreed! beaglelover Mar 2021 #199

This +1000! mcar Feb 2021 #146

Well said. sheshe2 Feb 2021 #190

Well... GaYellowDawg Mar 2021 #195

Are you serious? piddyprints Feb 2021 #139

I don't know if I can handle the craziness I_UndergroundPanther Feb 2021 #152

These ARE appointments at pharmacies SheltieLover Feb 2021 #159

Some areas have zero vacancies within hundreds of miles obamanut2012 Feb 2021 #186

Every vaccine given benefits EVERYONE! DenaliDemocrat Feb 2021 #164

Sorry but no edhopper Feb 2021 #166

Here in the U.S. this is NOT a zero-sum game. Every person Hortensis Feb 2021 #180

I've chosen not to make a big deal out of mine BannonsLiver Feb 2021 #181

I'm nowhere near eligible, so those posts don't bother me. Pongo Feb 2021 #182

Philadelphia suburbs have hardly received any vaccines iamateacher Feb 2021 #184

I see your point Kali Feb 2021 #188

This reads like something from McSweeny's. Politicub Feb 2021 #194

I live in a very red area in a blue state cherish44 Mar 2021 #197