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In reply to the discussion: If the HUNDREDS of men who sexually harrassed me got locked up, they would need 48576 jails [View all]wnylib
(26,158 posts)of mine in junior high. She was short, had an average waist, small hips, and was huge on top. All natural (she was in my gym class). She was an exceptionally nice person, well-groomed and always appropriately dressed, very bright, and helpful to everyone with homework.
But all the boys could see was her bust. She was not a person to them, just a target for snide comments and snickers. One time I heard a couple boys refer to her as a slut. I got angry and asked why they would say such a thing. One of them said, "it's obvious, isn't it? Just look at those boobs."
I never had an upper level size problem of being too big or too small, but was "well balanced" and fit from physical activity. At 14, just walking down a sidewalk, older boys would pull their car up to the curb and yell, "Hey, wanna F---?" I started carrying rocks to throw at cars.