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25. People use the "lucky" thing about cancer too...which I eventually had to stop getting mad about

Fri Oct 12, 2012, 09:33 AM

Oct 2012

because it happened too often. "Oh, you're lucky they caught it so early." Yes. Yes, I am glad they caught it early. But please do not put "lucky" and "cancer" and me in the same sentence, kthanxbi.

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