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hunter

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21. My grandfather called my wife a "Mexican girl" and boycotted our wedding.
Fri Mar 19, 2021, 05:59 PM
Mar 2021

Men in his White Wild West family simply didn't marry Mexican girls, especially the darker Native American sort.

To his credit he got over it.

Part of that may have been he was scared of her.

He was a rocket engineer but she could sink all his ships with her math.

Our children nearly always seek out their mom first for protection.

I'm only called in when they need a Berserker.



I'm not proud of that.

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It would be a privilege to be there beside you defending your family & honor my friend ... Hugh_Lebowski Mar 2021 #5
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That totally cool elderly lady in San Fran put a guy on a stretcher. Love it! Treefrog Mar 2021 #12
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That hit me too. A tiny little lady hit in the face by a large man. I'm not very big myself, but Treefrog Mar 2021 #34
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You just reminded me of the safety pin movement several years ago. And I just saw mine a few niyad Mar 2021 #54
My grandfather called my wife a "Mexican girl" and boycotted our wedding. hunter Mar 2021 #21
I'm usually a Berserker with language...time to step up though. cayugafalls Mar 2021 #22
Berserker never ends well for me. hunter Mar 2021 #28
We got you. cayugafalls Mar 2021 #33
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And if it happens within my sight, this old white woman and her oak staff will be there beside you. niyad Mar 2021 #27
Angry...yep. cayugafalls Mar 2021 #31
As for language, I think that I could make their ears bleed. I have a very useful vocabulary. niyad Mar 2021 #42
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