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It's a mitzvah that u are turning this profound loss into a chance to help others. FreepFryer Mar 2021 #1
Glad to do it. Most people are clueless about dealing MineralMan Mar 2021 #3
+1,000 malaise Mar 2021 #4
And now I'm blushing... MineralMan Mar 2021 #6
+1 Ferrets are Cool Mar 2021 #9
You both are, malaise and mm! Blue_playwright Mar 2021 #75
I agree with this kind and thoughtful post. yardwork Mar 2021 #43
Mineral Man is a mensch! Ilsa Mar 2021 #49
Good PSA. Should probably be cross-posted in the Seniors Group...nt Wounded Bear Mar 2021 #2
My experience when my wife passed away. rickford66 Mar 2021 #5
Many confusing things happen, I've discovered. MineralMan Mar 2021 #7
I also inquired about the $250 death benefit. rickford66 Mar 2021 #10
I don't understand why your parents payments had to be returned. Butterflylady Mar 2021 #35
What you wrote seems to be what happened with my wife. rickford66 Mar 2021 #39
Excellent comments, thanks, MM PJMcK Mar 2021 #8
How old do you have to be to qualify for twodogsbarking Mar 2021 #40
I wonder if the notice was in the form of a letter Ilsa Mar 2021 #52
Thanks, MyMinMan! aocommunalpunch Mar 2021 #11
More good old common sense from a Democrat that's useful to people KS Toronado Mar 2021 #12
Just an additional note Pugee Mar 2021 #13
There are many, many calls that have to be made. MineralMan Mar 2021 #32
Not just for a parent. bluescribbler Mar 2021 #14
SSA will also want a copy of the death certificate. sarge43 Mar 2021 #19
True bluescribbler Mar 2021 #81
That, too for a spousal claim. n/t sarge43 Mar 2021 #83
This is also true for anyone receiving VA or Military Retirement funds NewEnglandAutumn Mar 2021 #15
Excellent points TNNurse Mar 2021 #16
You don't necessarily need passwords. MineralMan Mar 2021 #33
We had no will, no bank accounts, found no check book, TNNurse Mar 2021 #60
K&R PatSeg Mar 2021 #17
Fyi IbogaProject Mar 2021 #18
Good advice. JohnnyRingo Mar 2021 #20
My brother and I were co-executors when my mother passed. blueinredohio Mar 2021 #21
Another tidbit of advice, if not covered already jmbar2 Mar 2021 #22
Good point about death certificates. I asked the funeral home how many I should get. MineralMan Mar 2021 #26
helpful post jmbar2 Mar 2021 #28
Thanks. The worst thing is that many of the things that must MineralMan Mar 2021 #30
Ten? We get 5 for my father and have 4 left. SharonClark Mar 2021 #41
Yes. When you live 2500 miles away, you get to send them off MineralMan Mar 2021 #56
We had a recent death in the family too Unwind Your Mind Mar 2021 #23
Depending on the extent of the party's estate and their diligence and organization, BobTheSubgenius Mar 2021 #24
Same With Other Retirement Benefits That Are Paid In COL Mustard Mar 2021 #25
Social Security pay one month behind marie999 Mar 2021 #27
I can attest to this... dixiechiken1 Mar 2021 #34
Usually, but my mom died on the 5th of the month MiniMe Mar 2021 #50
I don't know how long ago that was, marie999 Mar 2021 #68
It usually depends on the day of the month someone was born nitpicker Mar 2021 #74
i was on my mom's checking account orleans Mar 2021 #29
She was very smart. I talked to my father about doing that, MineralMan Mar 2021 #31
My parents did that on all their accounts MiniMe Mar 2021 #47
I was going to mention this. Power of Attorney is also very helpful. yardwork Mar 2021 #51
It is most important True Blue American Mar 2021 #70
Mom did that with me too shanti Mar 2021 #62
Excellent, excellent post, MM. dixiechiken1 Mar 2021 #36
Thank you MM Traildogbob Mar 2021 #37
Also worthy of mention is to remember to change flying_wahini Mar 2021 #38
You need a lot of death certificates to make all those changes. MiniMe Mar 2021 #46
Most people don't do that, though. MineralMan Mar 2021 #59
Our local SS office employees are helpful. twodogsbarking Mar 2021 #42
Your thread and all of the posts that followed were so informative! mia Mar 2021 #44
Sharing experiences helps everyone, I think. MineralMan Mar 2021 #58
I went through that when my mom died MiniMe Mar 2021 #45
You may need both parents' SS# dflprincess Mar 2021 #48
His parents died a few hours apart. Nt LittleGirl Mar 2021 #79
I understand that dflprincess Mar 2021 #82
No harm, no fowl. Nt LittleGirl Mar 2021 #84
Thank you for posting this. CaptainTruth Mar 2021 #53
Very helpful and much appreciated. Thank you MineralMan. nt iluvtennis Mar 2021 #54
Good information for everyone here. llmart Mar 2021 #55
That's another good point to make. MineralMan Mar 2021 #57
Timely for me shanti Mar 2021 #61
Normally, it takes 10 days to 2 weeks. MineralMan Mar 2021 #63
As a genealogist I can confirm that not everyone's death is reported to Social Security. nt LiberalFighter Mar 2021 #64
Good advice. Iggo Mar 2021 #65
KnR Hekate Mar 2021 #66
hihowdi. thanks for this information. i copied and pasted this onto my word processer AllaN01Bear Mar 2021 #67
Thanks, MM, for this valuable information. FuzzyRabbit Mar 2021 #69
You might have to open an estate account instead Deminpenn Mar 2021 #71
It's not just SSA that will claw back payments received after death Generic Brad Mar 2021 #72
And regarding civil service retirees nitpicker Mar 2021 #73
Thanks for the information! burrowowl Mar 2021 #76
My older daughter is on my older moms checking Tree Lady Mar 2021 #77
BUT SS pays a month in arrears lillypaddle Mar 2021 #78
Yes they pay a month in arrears. No the last payment isn't valid dflprincess Mar 2021 #85
So where is the month payment that was in arrears? lillypaddle Mar 2021 #86
Mom received her last check for April around May 5th dflprincess Mar 2021 #87
Thanks for your patience and the info lillypaddle Mar 2021 #88
No problem dflprincess Mar 2021 #89
When my baby brother died two years ago in march LittleGirl Mar 2021 #80
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