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(15,536 posts)Yeah, I had three of them. The oldest one was a narcissistic compulsive liar who thought he was too good to actually hold down a real job. The few times he did get a job he embezzled money from the companies and got caught. Then he'd lose everything and be back to square one with no credit rating. We wouldn't find out the truth until much later and never from him. When we were older he was extremely jealous of me and resented that I had my life together and did it by actually doing the hard work and being a good citizen, so whenever I'd see him or he'd call on the phone he'd pull the passive aggressive stuff of getting his little digs in. The youngest brother is a people pleaser who also has the passive aggressive streak.
It took me a long, long time to realize that just because they are brothers doesn't mean I have to allow them into my life. They were the definition of toxic relationships.