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Ms. Toad

(38,957 posts)
24. Well, I have refused medical care when doctors were being idiots
Sat Apr 10, 2021, 10:42 PM
Apr 2021

(their idiocy was confirmed, by tests I insisted they run before I would consent to further treatment - their half-life calculations were not accurate for my body, I was dangerously over-heparinized, and they had refused to test before restarting heparin). I informed my daughter's gastroenterologist what rare disease I was pretty sure she had (PSC) and badgered him until he ran the appropriate test to confirm it (GGT, followed by an MRCP). And, more recently, I was persistent enough in following up with a suspicious spot that was first biopsied in 2014 (after I fired a doctor who initially refused to biopsy it, then later refused to provide a complete pathology report. The full pathology report (which I obtained by speaking directy with the pathologist) indicated the lesion fell into a very small class of presumptively benign lesions that are only masquerading as benign. On the 5th excision in the same location I was diagnosed with a rare cancer. Since soft tissue sarcomas are not usually considered until the tumor is golf-ball sized, it was only my persistence that resutled in it being diagnosed when it was kidney-bean sized. Just to name a few times being an active participant in my medical care - including challenging doctors - has been critical for me or members of my family.

So I take making informed medical decisions about my health care very seriously - and, as to the most serious health matters, each time I have disagreed with the doctors I have been ultimately been proven to be correct.

EVERYONE needs to make informed decisions, and to actively participate in their medical care rather than being a passive consumer. As to COVID vaccines that means deciding whether you care, evaluating which vaccine is appropriate for you (if you do care), and actively seeking out an appointment.

You want to be a medical sheep - fine. Be a sheep. I'd rather be actively involved and alive - and I'm only alive with two fully functional arms because I think for myself, and for my family.

And - FWIW - feel free to search my posts for the last year and see how accurate I've been as to COVID, specifically. I've been ahead of the curve as to predictions of exponential growth (made January 2020) - as well as to specific predictions for hitting milestome numbers masks (I was making and wearing masks when Fauci was still saying not to), main mode of transmission, frequency of Moderna side effects v. Pfizer, and the recent studies that demonstrate that the vaccines not only prevent severity of disease, but also prevent transmission.

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It's really tough to make adjustments when you've made up your mind. CaliforniaPeggy Apr 2021 #1
Get the Pfizer. Don't pick and choose. Just get it ASAP! NT CottonBear Apr 2021 #2
Pfizer is probably the best of the bunch, but all are good soothsayer Apr 2021 #4
I got my second Pfizer yesterday. It was the vaccine offered through my employer. CottonBear Apr 2021 #6
Yep. I felt lucky that I got my first choice, which was Pfizer kcr Apr 2021 #27
Pfizer is an excellent vaccine. LisaL Apr 2021 #3
Take the first one you can get, and don't look back MerryHolidays Apr 2021 #5
Ignore the "just get any shot" crowd. Ms. Toad Apr 2021 #7
What if the specific reason is that you only want one shot ? JI7 Apr 2021 #11
The do what you think is best for you, period. Sometimes the best advice is no advice. littlemissmartypants Apr 2021 #13
If OP didn't want advice, he probably wouldn't be asking for it on DU. LisaL Apr 2021 #14
Clearly. Consider mine the unadvice advice. Like an unbirthday or the uncola. NT littlemissmartypants Apr 2021 #16
That's as valid as any other reason. Ms. Toad Apr 2021 #15
I don't see how wanting a single shot rather than two shots justifies LisaL Apr 2021 #18
Making an informed choice about the vaccine you want is just as valid Ms. Toad Apr 2021 #19
The only way that argument would be valid if we were actually offered a choice- LisaL Apr 2021 #21
There is a choice. Ms. Toad Apr 2021 #22
+1 hamsterjill Apr 2021 #25
While someone is waiting they can get infected. LisaL Apr 2021 #28
You are correct - while someone is waiting they can be infected Ms. Toad Apr 2021 #31
OP is asking for advice. LisaL Apr 2021 #32
I don't read the OP that way. Ms. Toad Apr 2021 #33
The "just get any shot" crowd represents the vast majority of the medical community. honest.abe Apr 2021 #23
Well, I have refused medical care when doctors were being idiots Ms. Toad Apr 2021 #24
I will stick with the recommendations of the vast majority of the medical community. honest.abe Apr 2021 #26
I agree with all the others russiamommy Apr 2021 #8
I've read much less J&J shipping, possibly due to 15 mill contaminated doses SheltieLover Apr 2021 #9
Take the Pfizer. Given all the varients and folks not wearing masks, I would take any one of them riversedge Apr 2021 #10
Get whatever you can dweller Apr 2021 #12
I got Pfizer. Get it if that's what's available liberal_mama Apr 2021 #17
To all the replies I've gotten since I posted... Silent3 Apr 2021 #20
Sure. Hopefully J&J will still be available in your area. Hortensis Apr 2021 #29
There is going to be a severe shortage of J&J in upcoming weeks, because LisaL Apr 2021 #30
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