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MineralMan

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Sun Apr 18, 2021, 09:12 AM Apr 2021

Being Neighborly Pays Off [View all]

The times are sketchy these days. I live in a very diverse neighborhood and tensions are a bit high right now. That makes it even more important to be a good neighbor and cultivate positive relationships with neighbors.

Right now, I've been doing some Spring yard cleanup. My old Ford Ranger pickup has branches and brush in its bed. I'm taking the load to the county's free green waste disposal site later today or tomorrow morning.

My wife and I walk our two dogs up and down our block. For the past couple of days, I've been picking up fallen branches my neighbors have placed near the curb and putting them in the pickup bed. It wasn't full, and I hate not having a full load when I go to the disposal site. The trash truck doesn't pick up yard waste. Neither does the recycling truck. Unless you have a way to haul it to the county yard, you have to pay someone to come and take it away.

So, yesterday, while on a dog walk I saw a rather large fallen tree branch in one nearby neighbor's yard, so I picked it up and carried it down the street toward my house. The resident of the house came out. He just said, "Thank you!" I smiled and waved back at him.

It's easy to do things to help neighbors. Why not just do them?

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Being Neighborly Pays Off [View all] MineralMan Apr 2021 OP
Good karma headed your way MM. gab13by13 Apr 2021 #1
We are all stronger working together than we could ever be separately. Under The Radar Apr 2021 #2
;-{) Goonch Apr 2021 #3
Far too often MissMillie Apr 2021 #4
Many people are simply afraid to interact. MineralMan Apr 2021 #9
I also live in a very diverse neighborhood. Siwsan Apr 2021 #11
Yes. Making some sort of polite contact MineralMan Apr 2021 #12
And don't forget the hand wave when driving. Sometimes a wave, sometimes a finger lift. erronis Apr 2021 #16
All of those gestures say, "I see you." MineralMan Apr 2021 #20
People like Donald Trump will never get it, gab13by13 Apr 2021 #5
I have noticed DENVERPOPS Apr 2021 #6
This mac56 Apr 2021 #19
Helping Friends and Neighbors Always Brings The Smiles: wyn borkins Apr 2021 #7
Welcome to DU! eggplant Apr 2021 #23
Thank You wyn borkins Apr 2021 #25
Thanks for your selflessness. hamsterjill Apr 2021 #8
Yes. Little things are important. MineralMan Apr 2021 #10
Something nice just happened to me too FakeNoose Apr 2021 #13
Nice of your neighbor to do that. MineralMan Apr 2021 #14
I don't envy your city life... MiHale Apr 2021 #15
And yet, in rural New England, there are still "neighbors" who wouldn't lift a finger to help. erronis Apr 2021 #17
Townies! Mopar151 Apr 2021 #28
I've lived in the city mountain grammy Apr 2021 #18
Yes indeed. Helpers are everywhere! calimary Apr 2021 #22
It's the same here in the city neighborhoods. MineralMan Apr 2021 #21
Good job LetMyPeopleVote Apr 2021 #24
I bought the house in which we live as a starter. BobTheSubgenius Apr 2021 #26
Nice of your neighbor. I hate sledge hammers! MineralMan Apr 2021 #27
I can certainly understand that POV, but it's not something I'm confronted with all that often. BobTheSubgenius Apr 2021 #30
OH, yeah. Forgot to mention. BobTheSubgenius Apr 2021 #31
k&r Demovictory9 Apr 2021 #29
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