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StarfishSaver

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3. True

Sun Apr 25, 2021, 08:25 AM

Apr 2021

But some of the comments in response to other police killings that I'm seeing on DU and elsewhere dampen some of that hope. Too many white people love to say they're allies and abhor racism but only in the abstract - when it comes to real life, they are very quick and consistent in excusing it when it actually occurs.

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"Ghosted by Allies: Why BIPOC Still Can't Trust White People With Social Justice" [View all] StarfishSaver Apr 2021 OP

K & R. n/t OneGrassRoot Apr 2021 #1

I find some hope with the response leading to Chauvin's conviction, the immediate outrage to the hlthe2b Apr 2021 #2

True StarfishSaver Apr 2021 #3

FWIW, at least some of those are trolls Maeve Apr 2021 #4

Because only your judgement matters, right? Happy Hoosier Apr 2021 #23

Sadly there was precious little outrage about Ma'Khia wryter2000 Apr 2021 #7

Oh yes, I was saddened and bewildered by your stated fact Cozmo Apr 2021 #11

And now they're making up lies about her StarfishSaver Apr 2021 #12

Somehow white people always imagine themselves as the "good guy" the cops are saving... hunter Apr 2021 #34

Yes StarfishSaver Apr 2021 #35

I heard enough stories in the '70s & '80s of black people being abused... electric_blue68 Apr 2021 #60

When he had a non-lethal Bettie Apr 2021 #15

That is simply not true Zeitghost Apr 2021 #33

That's the problem I have in this case. The dead girl absolutely WAS a deadly threat here, but Progressive Jones Apr 2021 #38

And didn't anyone notice wryter2000 Apr 2021 #45

And if he had killed the wan in pink, people would be bending over backwards StarfishSaver Apr 2021 #64

Maybe she smoked a little joint once n/t wryter2000 Apr 2021 #70

If she had, we would surely hear all about it StarfishSaver Apr 2021 #71

But he didn't kill the wrong one, did he? Treefrog Apr 2021 #76

He got lucky wryter2000 Apr 2021 #79

Tasers have a stupidly high failure rate. Calista241 Apr 2021 #67

KNR niyad Apr 2021 #5

timeline of support/oppose BLM 2017 to present KatK Apr 2021 #6

K&R Solly Mack Apr 2021 #8

Whatever. Goodheart Apr 2021 #9

Exactly! The OP does little but whine and opine. jaxexpat Apr 2021 #16

I don't see how accusing me of untrustworthiness is productive Goodheart Apr 2021 #17

It is insulting. The idea which has touted on this forum of late is all white people are racist... Demsrule86 Apr 2021 #19

It's a manipulation tactic. Happy Hoosier Apr 2021 #27

Huh? jaxexpat Apr 2021 #32

It isn't about you. cate94 Apr 2021 #54

Thanks for the word salad. Goodheart Apr 2021 #56

uh ... electric_blue68 Apr 2021 #58

+1000 this is the truth and you put it so well. Demsrule86 Apr 2021 #20

This is illustrated every day Bettie Apr 2021 #10

Thank you! StarfishSaver Apr 2021 #13

What, exactly, is illustrated every day? Goodheart Apr 2021 #21

For a lot of white people Bettie Apr 2021 #22

That's simply slanderous Goodheart Apr 2021 #26

And when any person of color criticizes any white person for being racially insensitive or racist StarfishSaver Apr 2021 #28

"Our great white saviors"? REALLY? Goodheart Apr 2021 #31

Some Wypipo make that necessary. /nt tonedevil Apr 2021 #40

Except my OP didn't say that StarfishSaver Apr 2021 #44

I've learned to pretty much tolerate uncomfortableness... electric_blue68 Apr 2021 #61

"Our great white saviors." You just answered why many white people don't involved. SMC22307 Apr 2021 #78

Any white person whining about "damned if we do, damned if we don't" StarfishSaver Apr 2021 #80

LOL. Yeah, that 'tude will win allies. SMC22307 Apr 2021 #84

We have no problem winning allies StarfishSaver Apr 2021 #86

Preach, sister wryter2000 Apr 2021 #46

Multiple times over the years people have posted about studies that show Solly Mack Apr 2021 #24

Oh, good information Bettie Apr 2021 #25

"I've started and stopped several posts over the last week or so" Maeve Apr 2021 #39

I do it too Bettie Apr 2021 #42

You're welcome. Solly Mack Apr 2021 #43

Yup wryter2000 Apr 2021 #47

I don't know about the age perception aspect but the ... electric_blue68 Apr 2021 #63

+1 betsuni Apr 2021 #66

Where!? Happy Hoosier Apr 2021 #29

After the Trayvon Martin murder I saw so many comments from white people like betsuni Apr 2021 #65

Even with video, we have too many people who refuse to believe what they can see with their own eyes StarfishSaver Apr 2021 #69

Oh yeah, "we don't know what happened before the video started." betsuni Apr 2021 #85

Oh well... Devil Child Apr 2021 #14

I personally am sick of this sort of rhetoric. Don't trust anyone, and do it yourself... and see it Demsrule86 Apr 2021 #18

If something that a stranger posts on a discussion board "drives away" anyone from the cause StarfishSaver Apr 2021 #30

Nothing you or anyone else posts will drive me away. I know that we must end institutional racism Demsrule86 Apr 2021 #36

Yes, we need allies and we have plenty of them StarfishSaver Apr 2021 #37

Thank you for starting this thread wryter2000 Apr 2021 #49

If you are saying that I have lectured you, I have not. And I would say that to seek allies who Demsrule86 Apr 2021 #51

You may not be seen... tonedevil Apr 2021 #41

I don't care how I am seen. I do my best to combat racism because it is important to every Demsrule86 Apr 2021 #48

OK. /nt tonedevil Apr 2021 #50

What I'm fascinated with BannonsLiver Apr 2021 #68

"attempting to reach a mutual understanding but maybe that's too last century." Jedi Guy Apr 2021 #81

It is not up to BIPOC to negotiate with our allies how we will fight for our rights StarfishSaver Apr 2021 #82

You sure you responded to the right post? Because that's not at all what I said. Jedi Guy Apr 2021 #83

Yes, I am StarfishSaver Apr 2021 #87

Your reading comprehension needs some work, I'm afraid. N/T Jedi Guy Apr 2021 #88

It seems to take several orders of depth and compassion to be an ally Beringia Apr 2021 #52

Allies shouldn't be concerned with their status with the BIPOC community kcr Apr 2021 #53

I suspect that being a good white ally is a fluxuating characteristic... SYFROYH Apr 2021 #55

This message was self-deleted by its author Chautauquas Apr 2021 #57

Thanks for posting and for always being willing to make posts that make people uncomfortable... Blasphemer Apr 2021 #59

I'd forgotten that quote. StarfishSaver Apr 2021 #62

Some of your comments come across as, Jedi Guy Apr 2021 #72

Care to respond to the OP? StarfishSaver Apr 2021 #73

Why can't it be both? N/T Jedi Guy Apr 2021 #74

But you haven't done both StarfishSaver Apr 2021 #75

I'll keep on keeping on somehow, I suppose. N/T Jedi Guy Apr 2021 #77