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TXPaganBanker

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Mon May 3, 2021, 02:26 AM May 2021

A friend has now caught COVID for the third time [View all]

Last edited Tue May 4, 2021, 04:55 PM - Edit history (1)

Late night rant, but I just finished talking with a Trumper friend. It's been a running conversation for the past 36 hours.

She caught COVID for the THIRD time. She thought it was a hoax until she caught it the first time. She had a mild case, so of course it was being over-hyped to hurt the former president. On the premise of "It wasn't so bad, and I've already caught it" she refused to wear a mask, and got it a second time in December. As soon as things opened, she was back on her barstool in her favorite watering hole, sure she was immune since she had it twice.

The problem is this time, she's caring for her grandparents. They're both 80+. He's got Alzheimer's, and they're both homebound. He was diagnosed diabetic last week and had his first insulin shot yesterday. I talked her through six infuriating hours last night and this morning of how the test kit worked, how to do injections, and why in Gods' name did she let him have a Twix bar with breakfast? (His first BGL read was 394). Despite the conversation on meal planning, she gave him a giant glass of orange juice to help keep his immune system up.

Well, she lost her sense of smell last week and didn't mention it. She thought it was just an after effect of having COVID twice. All three of them tested positive today. She can't imagine where they caught it since they don't go anywhere. I can't help to think she's going to kill her grandparents because of her reckless behavior. I don't know that she'll ever understand that her behavior is what led to them catching it, and she's responsible for whatever the outcome is.

I want to help their family, but you can't stop a leak in the dam when the person asking for help is still digging holes.

Update: Gma was admitted to the hospital by ambulance this morning (5/4), her breathing was so shallow she was basically panting. She's got pneumonia, and corresponding low O2 levels. The hospital made a referral for someone to "check" on Gpa, but it sounds like it was Elderly Care Services, not a nurse.

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You don't think canetoad May 2021 #1
You're calling the OP judgmental, because the OP is frustrated with a Covid denier? pnwmom May 2021 #9
You're calling the OP judgmental, because the OP is frustrated with a Covid denier? pnwmom May 2021 #11
What???? Weird! Nt USALiberal May 2021 #24
Sir, this is a message board. yardwork May 2021 #25
Judgemental? Ferrets are Cool May 2021 #26
Ever hear of projection? n/t kcr May 2021 #27
Herp Derp. MrsCoffee May 2021 #30
You're actually serious? redqueen May 2021 #41
Sounds Like A Terrific Friend SoCalDavidS May 2021 #2
I'm THAT glad canetoad May 2021 #3
Yeah, I Tend To Root Against These Types Of Morons SoCalDavidS May 2021 #5
She introduced me to my partner of four years. TXPaganBanker May 2021 #4
Yeah, He's The One That Was At Risk, And Will Now Suffer SoCalDavidS May 2021 #7
Ignoring the COVID for a moment... GopherGal May 2021 #22
Trust me, I chewed her ass for it. TXPaganBanker May 2021 #31
They took her two kids away but now she is in charge of two elders? LisaL May 2021 #34
Is he not getting help from his doctor? Treefrog May 2021 #38
The anti-vaxxers are killing each other. zanana1 May 2021 #36
Since your friend seems to be pretty well irresponsible, I wonder if your speaking to some Karadeniz May 2021 #6
Whats that I smell,,,,,,,, Cryptoad May 2021 #8
This. kentuck May 2021 #20
Yes. Obvious. Treefrog May 2021 #42
I'm not judging you! LittleGirl May 2021 #10
Well... Mike Nelson May 2021 #12
Call your local Adult Protective Services before those two vulnerable elders Tanuki May 2021 #13
Is there anyone else in her family you could approach to help out? I've been diabetic... TreasonousBastard May 2021 #14
Same TXPaganBanker May 2021 #32
TX, I basically agree with Tanuki. My best guess would be your friend is a longhauler. Hortensis May 2021 #15
you can't fix stupid weissmam May 2021 #16
This OP is a very important lesson for everyone. Imallin4Joe May 2021 #17
Three times? I can't help think that is newsworthy jimfields33 May 2021 #18
A quick Google search mentions only one other person who says she caught it a third time. Scrivener7 May 2021 #19
With the variants circulating, it's not going to be rare to catch it multiple times. LisaL May 2021 #28
I'm not sure what the answer is. TXPaganBanker May 2021 #33
No shit. She should contact the news services. Treefrog May 2021 #39
They went to a doc-in-a-box TXPaganBanker May 2021 #40
My mom told me about a Trumper she knows... OneGrassRoot May 2021 #21
just walk her thru funeral arrangements (by phone) samnsara May 2021 #23
They don't go anywhere? LisaL May 2021 #29
Sorry, indeterminite pronouns. TXPaganBanker May 2021 #35
Grandparents don't have to go anywhere, since she is the one who LisaL May 2021 #37
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