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In reply to the discussion: Matt Damon, 'months ago' [View all]elias7
(4,229 posts)'In my younger and more vulnerable years my father gave me some advice that I've been turning over in my mind ever since. Whenever you feel like criticizing anyone, he told me, just remember that all the people in this world haven't had the advantages that you've had. '
This has as broad a meaning as you want. As a nearly 60 year old, I regularly seek out my out of town daughter to explain things to me that have rendered many of my childhood experiences and understandings not only obsolete, but inappropriate. Just yesterday she explained to me why use of the pronoun they for a gender fluid person is followed by the plural are rather than is. I am Yale educated but that doesnt mean I have all the advantages that many socially progressive people here on DU have had. It has taken me a long time to understand a lot of the changes that have happened over my lifetime, to unlearn those things I thought I knew well or thought was OK.
Give the guy a break. Hes on the right track and shouldnt be ridiculed or being somewhat late to the party.