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In reply to the discussion: Matt Damon, 'months ago' [View all]Bucky
(55,334 posts)52. The redemption arc would be a lot longer, a lot more complicated
That's a decent question and troubling. I think the atonement would have to be to the part of the country that he harms with his words, not to me. I'm not personally the aggreived party.
I think it also matters who the offender is. Matt Damon, tho of course being an elite millionaire, has also done his due diligence for a big number of progressive causes and candidates. We know which side he lands on when it comes to building an inclusive society.
It's different than if Clint Eastwood or Kelsey Grammer got caught in this or some other ugliness, or some apolitical studio exec. This is, after all, a question of words, not deeds, in the controversy. Words are important, but they are not policy.
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Using a hateful slur as a joke doesn't make it any less hateful or painful.
WhiskeyGrinder
Aug 2021
#24
My BF at the time and I had friend over for dinner, and the friend used that term
alphafemale
Aug 2021
#49
when was this mythical time that the word faggot didn't have negative implications?
dsc
Aug 2021
#42
"I never saw the words used to refer to people who were actually gay or intellectually challenged."
WhiskeyGrinder
Aug 2021
#25
Sometimes one should learn from mistakes and move on--not report them to the world...
hlthe2b
Aug 2021
#21
This is petty, and the long knives continue to come closer and closer to our own
Cosmocat
Aug 2021
#27
I've worked for decades with different people who don't seem to understand the impact of their words
bigtree
Aug 2021
#29
One slur is not the full extend of ANYONE'S insensitivities and MD is a one of the good guys
Cosmocat
Aug 2021
#33
When i was in college in the 90's, this was THE word we all used for nearly everything.
Calista241
Aug 2021
#34