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llmart

(17,624 posts)
58. Outstanding essay!
Sat Sep 11, 2021, 11:04 AM
Sep 2021

Thank you for so eloquently stating what a lot of us feel. It is never psychologically healthy to dwell on such a horrific event. Learn from it, yes. But every single year the media wants us to walk around with sad faces about something that happened twenty years ago.

I'm old enough to clearly remember JFK's assassination and enough time has now passed that there's sometimes a mere mention of it on the news, but for the most part people my age don't go around somber all day long because we witnessed the event. I'm quite sure that over the decades the same will happen with 9/11. There is a whole generation of adults that weren't even born when it happened. Many of them have no real feelings about the event even if it was taught in their history classes.

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That day changed the course of history. Dawson Leery Sep 2021 #1
That seems to be the point being made in the OP JI7 Sep 2021 #3
A Commercial Nation Roy Rolling Sep 2021 #157
Our reaction to 9/11 is why we are in Crisis today, IMHO. flor-de-jasmim Sep 2021 #4
Seeing Bush the 2nds face on the TV will keep me from watching. hot2na Sep 2021 #15
How very true! jrthin Sep 2021 #19
Exactly right DeeDeeNY Sep 2021 #160
Not just that reaction to 9/11, the ineptitude and bad foreign. policy that led up to it..... 3Hotdogs Sep 2021 #135
And the hypocrisy of the burgeoning far right from this tragedy is just stunning Tikki Sep 2021 #40
You might be right... electric_blue68 Sep 2021 #156
There are good people every where...bet the kind lady from OK isn't a rabid right winger. Tikki Sep 2021 #168
Yes, there ARE Good People Everywhere! electric_blue68 Sep 2021 #172
What is it - several times more people have been killed in individual murders to spree shootings ck4829 Sep 2021 #2
I think it's time to hang up on the pity party. dhol82 Sep 2021 #5
You're a little thinker! North Shore Chicago Sep 2021 #6
It is a stark reminder of Republican incompetence like the Beirut bombing. rickyhall Sep 2021 #7
right. Cheney was IN CHARGE of a remake of terrorism response when it happened Captain Zero Sep 2021 #149
I will never forget. But I am hoping year twenty will bring the end to boston bean Sep 2021 #8
Wow, this is a great piece Bettie Sep 2021 #9
I'm glad you aren't silent. I agree with much of that. I detest this celebration of 9/11 underpants Sep 2021 #10
Thanks for posting this. It's pretty much the same discussion I had with my wife tonight. Probatim Sep 2021 #143
Are we going to memorialize January 6th the same way? Why not? CousinIT Sep 2021 #11
+1 -K&R onetexan Sep 2021 #13
I disagree. Like Pearl Harbor, it was a defining day in history. Demsrule86 Sep 2021 #12
Did you see Keith Olbermann's video about 9/11? Thought-provoking. niyad Sep 2021 #17
do you have a link to it? i'd like to see it orleans Sep 2021 #76
Yes, this one. niyad Sep 2021 #86
No, I will have to listen. We were attacked and certainly it changed history... not in a good way. Demsrule86 Sep 2021 #116
A point I try to make clear is... Bucky Sep 2021 #123
"Remembering" is one thing... malthaussen Sep 2021 #22
I have a friend that calls it what it is, grief porn. Autumn Sep 2021 #96
Honest question. What did it define? Ferrets are Cool Sep 2021 #68
That we are no longer protected marybourg Sep 2021 #82
I disagree with that Bucky Sep 2021 #109
Thank you for saying it better than I would have. Ferrets are Cool Sep 2021 #117
First of all, there is no such thing as "protection," and never was. malthaussen Sep 2021 #126
We weren't beating our chests in 1961 about Pearl Harbor. Gore1FL Sep 2021 #137
The military industrial complex never sleeps dlk Sep 2021 #14
Very true!!! McKim Sep 2021 #63
That sounds like a great idea dlk Sep 2021 #84
This message was self-deleted by its author McKim Sep 2021 #64
That's why they want to keep reminding us treestar Sep 2021 #70
When there are $billions yo be made... dlk Sep 2021 #85
When there are $ billions to be made... dlk Sep 2021 #90
WE STILL don't know the truth of what happen that day. The truth is buried and classified as always. usaf-vet Sep 2021 #16
Big events like that always have some mysteries, of course Bucky Sep 2021 #102
Many of us have had lives defined by JFK assassination, Vietnam, MLK/RFK deaths, Challenger disaster hlthe2b Sep 2021 #18
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Sep 2021 #29
+1,000 Well said. My feelings exactly. Fla Dem Sep 2021 #34
You're right FoxNewsSucks Sep 2021 #57
We've made too much out of Sept 11. marble falls Sep 2021 #20
I agree. n/t malthaussen Sep 2021 #21
It's time to wallow in pity once again and then hay rick Sep 2021 #23
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Sep 2021 #32
This. AngryOldDem Sep 2021 #44
I couldn't have said it better Ferrets are Cool Sep 2021 #69
I agree. Well said. Owl Sep 2021 #24
The memorial services and somber events are hard enough Docreed2003 Sep 2021 #25
Time has only exacerbated stillcool Sep 2021 #26
Sick of 9/11 Nuffer Sep 2021 #27
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Sep 2021 #35
660k deaths that are "officially" reported FoxNewsSucks Sep 2021 #54
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Sep 2021 #62
Experts Say 30-40% Higher ProfessorGAC Sep 2021 #87
Happy Birthday! Pacifist Patriot Sep 2021 #55
Most of us can do both. LakeArenal Sep 2021 #56
My birthday also and I feel the same way. Ferrets are Cool Sep 2021 #71
Happy Birthday. How are you observing this day? niyad Sep 2021 #91
Happy Birthday discntnt_irny_srcsm Sep 2021 #77
Happy Birthday. How are you observing this day? niyad Sep 2021 #92
And the people dying from shootings which we do nothing to stop JI7 Sep 2021 #122
Wow. Who's "celebrating"? LakeArenal Sep 2021 #28
I definitely do not say we should "just forget history." Bucky Sep 2021 #37
Well I guess we will have to disagree. LakeArenal Sep 2021 #47
I'm okay with disagreeing on opinions Bucky Sep 2021 #110
I don't parse individual words. Some folks are not as eloquent as others. LakeArenal Sep 2021 #119
To me, it has become something of a sideshow of a Polly Hennessey Sep 2021 #41
Uh, there is no "constant wailing".... electric_blue68 Sep 2021 #174
Some people forget that the site is also a repository for over one thousand unidentified remains. Donkees Sep 2021 #94
This is a beautiful and powerful tribute Bucky Sep 2021 #112
"Twenty years ago, we made a promise to the families of World Trade Center victims ... " Donkees Sep 2021 #115
You have a good point, Lake Arenal. smirkymonkey Sep 2021 #120
Thanks. LakeArenal Sep 2021 #121
Thanks for your post, LA... electric_blue68 Sep 2021 #173
Well said. Snackshack Sep 2021 #30
Finally, someone is more courageous than me. Polly Hennessey Sep 2021 #31
It will be interesting to see if any mention is made of luvtheGWN Sep 2021 #33
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Sep 2021 #38
That's wonderful to hear... electric_blue68 Sep 2021 #175
Exceptionally well put. gulliver Sep 2021 #36
It's turned into a way to keep the hate going.... AngryOldDem Sep 2021 #39
I feel sorry for those that lost loved ones. Forced to remember that day year after year after year appleannie1 Sep 2021 #42
Like those of us with friends and loved ones affected, we will always remember it. LakeArenal Sep 2021 #51
Of course, but they don't have to see it happen every year and relive the initial pain over and over appleannie1 Sep 2021 #93
Not everyone does that. Some see it as a celebration of a loved one's life. LakeArenal Sep 2021 #118
my condolences if you knew people who lost people, you lost people... electric_blue68 Sep 2021 #176
Two degrees of separation. But yes. LakeArenal Sep 2021 #177
{digital hug} : ( electric_blue68 Sep 2021 #179
Awww nice. ❣️❣️ LakeArenal Sep 2021 #180
A college friend lost his brother that day. Pacifist Patriot Sep 2021 #53
There are probably thousands that loathe the media attention with them. appleannie1 Sep 2021 #95
Several years ago I heard a discussion with grief counselors and psychologists dflprincess Sep 2021 #144
Thank you for taking the time to write Marthe48 Sep 2021 #43
Good to remember, but healthy to move on. forgotmylogin Sep 2021 #45
I agree, but it isn't really "we" who are making the big deal FoxNewsSucks Sep 2021 #46
hear hear lookyhereyou Sep 2021 #163
One more case of rewriting American history. Jon King Sep 2021 #48
Posts like these are why I come to DU. Pacifist Patriot Sep 2021 #49
That's a great example of real community service Bucky Sep 2021 #104
We, we, we....no, it is YOU who want something else, it happened, it changed the world, its History Shanti Shanti Shanti Sep 2021 #50
...all the way home Bucky Sep 2021 #145
DURec leftstreet Sep 2021 #52
Outstanding essay! llmart Sep 2021 #58
9/11 is the birthday of a dear friend heckles65 Sep 2021 #59
I mistrust MSM so much that I don't believe their for profit tear campaign every time there is yaesu Sep 2021 #60
Well said! BlueJac Sep 2021 #61
+1 Ferrets are Cool Sep 2021 #65
I hated the idea that was out there about making it a holiday treestar Sep 2021 #66
superb reasoning and writing. thank you. NewHendoLib Sep 2021 #67
American's love their flag waving and jingoism. Remember the Alamo! jalan48 Sep 2021 #72
I'm not sure it's realistic to expect that it go unrecognized. BannonsLiver Sep 2021 #73
I agree Bucky Sep 2021 #124
Even my socially liberal sister is getting sucked into this. lark Sep 2021 #74
Since 1946 the number of people put in harm's way by US foreign policy is truly staggering. Ford_Prefect Sep 2021 #75
Talk about throwing gas on the fires of the right orangecrush Sep 2021 #78
That's why I posted in GD, a left-of-center forum... Bucky Sep 2021 #108
Wow orangecrush Sep 2021 #142
Why do I just want to think about (and obsess on) anything ELSE today... calimary Sep 2021 #79
I agree DownriverDem Sep 2021 #80
We Even Went So Far As To DallasNE Sep 2021 #81
I think your idea cate94 Sep 2021 #83
Not my idea Bucky Sep 2021 #111
I don't know which is worse, the OP's take, or the RW overblown hypocritical JCMach1 Sep 2021 #88
I thought we made too big a deal of it when it happened. Wingus Dingus Sep 2021 #89
I think most Americans will meet the day in what way seems best to them. LanternWaste Sep 2021 #97
Bucky speaks for me. Tracer Sep 2021 #98
Never FelineOverlord Sep 2021 #99
Can I ask what specifically is going on today that you don't approve of? Takket Sep 2021 #100
Thank you for asking Bucky Sep 2021 #107
Agree with this paragraph: LeftInTX Sep 2021 #114
The bullshit explanations of why we were attacked for starters. J6 is WAAAY more of a defining ... uponit7771 Sep 2021 #158
Very interesting, nuanced post... electric_blue68 Sep 2021 #178
People's experiences that day differ greatly and will affect how they choose to memorialize the day. Make7 Sep 2021 #101
I don't think we're reveling in the pain and loss as much as it gives us a chance to Poiuyt Sep 2021 #103
Every year on 9/11 t our school's ROTC plays traps in the hall way Bucky Sep 2021 #105
The defining thing about 9/11 is it, and the Bush crooks, seperated Americans traitorsgalore Sep 2021 #106
Sorry, I disagree LeftInTX Sep 2021 #113
In real time, as the attack was happening, I said... malthaussen Sep 2021 #127
Thank you so much Bucky PatSeg Sep 2021 #125
Speaking of memorials... ymetca Sep 2021 #128
Well said, Bucky. K&R for the post and the discussion. crickets Sep 2021 #129
I don't think we're even close to being right about what 9/11 says about us station agent Sep 2021 #130
Agreed Pacifist Patriot Sep 2021 #133
I don't agree. nt Raine Sep 2021 #131
I agree. It's been 20 years. Oneironaut Sep 2021 #132
The United States has become a reality show in many ways. nini Sep 2021 #134
I am with you 100% Gore1FL Sep 2021 #136
Ya think? n/t Strelnikov_ Sep 2021 #138
I have not watched anything today about 9-11. Texaswitchy Sep 2021 #139
The Brooklyn Heights promenade was packed tonight... brooklynite Sep 2021 #140
Yes, one of the world's largest cities was attacked. NYC is #2 for Global Power Index LeftInTX Sep 2021 #148
This, too. TY (born & bread NYC'r) electric_blue68 Sep 2021 #152
this. I forgot about The Tribute in Lights... electric_blue68 Sep 2021 #151
JustADumbFireman agrees JustADumbFireman Sep 2021 #141
It's called 911 because that is the number we dial for emergency help nightwing1240 Sep 2021 #147
Yes, this Bucky Sep 2021 #165
A question for those that agree with this, please nightwing1240 Sep 2021 #146
you're not alone... electric_blue68 Sep 2021 #154
The OP didn't say anything about ignoring and casting the day aside JI7 Sep 2021 #162
It was a major day in history Lithos Sep 2021 #150
I never get a sense that it's a "celebration"... electric_blue68 Sep 2021 #155
There are a few who have turned into a mini 4th of July Lithos Sep 2021 #170
Yeah, I'd agree with you about those people electric_blue68 Sep 2021 #171
I'm still thinking about a few hundred votes in Florida in 2000 Withywindle Sep 2021 #153
THIS !!!! ☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾 and now we have a text book insurrection against democracy going on. AQ was .. uponit7771 Sep 2021 #159
Oh dear god the hot takes are a-flowing. Loki Liesmith Sep 2021 #161
A few things lonely bird Sep 2021 #164
Personally my life changed a great deal following 9/11 randr Sep 2021 #166
Personal change is one thing lonely bird Sep 2021 #169
It has been only twenty years. Progressive dog Sep 2021 #167
I disagree, and if you hadn't visited NYC before The Towers fell, or ... electric_blue68 Sep 2021 #181
This is a beautiful post and a beautiful tribute Withywindle Sep 2021 #182
Aww, thanks... electric_blue68 Sep 2021 #183
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