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Hugh_Lebowski

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Wed Sep 15, 2021, 11:16 PM Sep 2021

Just when I thought I couldn't hate the COVIDIOTS any MORE, they're possibly killing my Aunt [View all]

My 80 y.o. Aunt (fully vaxxed, fully liberal, and totally cool), my mom's only sibling, and the only person from the older generation I have left apart from my mom has been in the hospital for 7 weeks in Sonora, CA, after a simple surgery gone wrong (per Mom's opinion) has cascaded into a series of problems, infections, and follow up surgeries.

This is the convo we just had ... note that my mom was a nurse and hospital administrator for nearly 50 years, so she knows of whence she speaks. Ben and Melissa are her kids, my only first cousins. And Don is our family lawyer.

BTW, nobody has been able to visit her in person since week 1, BECAUSE COVIDIOTS ... But they were finally just allowed in to visit, then hit up with the 'comfort care' spiel.


Mom:
Aunt Lee is probably not going to make it. She now has pneumonia and they are trying to get us to put her on just comfort care. We haven't given up so far but she is pretty critical (for the umpteenth time)
I did get to see her yesterday and Ben and Melissa are with her today. Then they are trying to cancel our visitation unless we put her on comfort care.

Me:
Damn it! Pneumonia? Is she C19 positive?
Extorting you to resolve to let her pass away if you want to be able to visit sounds pretty shitty.

Mom:
She tested negative a couple of days ago. We are writing a letter from Don

Me:
Well, this sucks 🙁
Most hospitals are probably neck deep in pneumonia (and similar) too right now. Guessing the demand on treatment equipment is at a premium.

Mom:
Yes, and she's an old lady so they don't give a damn.
They are neck deep in Covid patients because the people of Sonora deny Covid and do nothing to stop it.

Me:
Do you have a feeling they're pushing the comfort care because they need the equipment for others?

Mom:
yes

Me:
just when I thought I couldn't hate the Covidiots any more.

Mom:
We plan to take her home to die if it comes to comfort care but it takes them 24 hours to arrange it.


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So sorry to hear your aunt is so ill SheltieLover Sep 2021 #1
Thanks Hugh_Lebowski Sep 2021 #5
I'm glad your mom is tough enough to deal with them! SheltieLover Sep 2021 #15
I'm so sorry. Nevilledog Sep 2021 #2
Thank you my friend :) nt Hugh_Lebowski Sep 2021 #6
Dammit. I just sorry. MontanaMama Sep 2021 #3
Thank you my friend :) nt Hugh_Lebowski Sep 2021 #7
Man, it's times like this when I hope there is a hell. Coventina Sep 2021 #4
Thank you my friend :) nt Hugh_Lebowski Sep 2021 #8
"There are 8 million stories in the Naked City" I couldn't help thinking... TreasonousBastard Sep 2021 #9
Thank you my friend :) nt Hugh_Lebowski Sep 2021 #11
Your Mom is right ismnotwasm Sep 2021 #10
Thank you my friend :) nt Hugh_Lebowski Sep 2021 #12
I'm so sorry. And it must be so hard on your mother too. Scrivener7 Sep 2021 #13
Thank you my friend :) nt Hugh_Lebowski Sep 2021 #26
I'm so sorry, Hugh. brer cat Sep 2021 #14
Thank you my friend :) nt Hugh_Lebowski Sep 2021 #27
80 is not exactly ancient these days. Certainly not old enough... 3catwoman3 Sep 2021 #16
Her mom died at 93 and dad at 94, so ... yeah (nt) Hugh_Lebowski Sep 2021 #24
I'm very sorry to hear that. Best wishes to your family. NNadir Sep 2021 #17
Thank you my friend :) nt Hugh_Lebowski Sep 2021 #28
Hugh, I'm so sorry. Strength and peace to you all. Hekate Sep 2021 #18
Thank you my friend :) nt Hugh_Lebowski Sep 2021 #29
This is horrible. I'm so sorry. nt Withywindle Sep 2021 #19
Thank you my friend :) nt Hugh_Lebowski Sep 2021 #31
My sympathies. This Feb.10th I lost my mother to Covid. argyl Sep 2021 #20
I am so very sorry for your loss, argyl Metatron Sep 2021 #22
Sorry for your loss, and thanks (nt) Hugh_Lebowski Sep 2021 #25
Hospitals full of covid patients are a great place to pick up covid. LisaL Sep 2021 #21
I'm pulling for your aunt, Hugh Metatron Sep 2021 #23
Thank you my friend :) nt Hugh_Lebowski Sep 2021 #30
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