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csziggy

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23. I am so glad I didn't change my name when I married, but it was still a PITA in 1977
Thu Sep 30, 2021, 07:39 PM
Sep 2021

First off, the accountant we used the first year took exception to me putting myself as head of household (I had the main income) so he switched our names - but didn't switch our social security numbers. Apparently on the form that he sent in to correct this, he put our names down as Husbandfirst Husbandlast, csziggyFirst csziggyLast HusbandLast.

That got the Social Security guys involved and they wrote wanting to know why I had not informed them of my name change. That took a year to resolve.

The IRS must hold grudges because they then audited us for four years, even though none of the audits showed any appreciable changes in our tax amount. In fact once or twice it turned out that we'd paid more than we owed!

That mess left such a bad taste that even now, over forty years later, I give anyone who assumes that I am Mrs. HusbandLast a really, really hard time.

Of course now for the Real ID stuff not changing my name made things so much easier. I don't have to take in a marriage license since my name never changed. Now, I just wish I could get people to spell my name correctly. It's only four letters long, it's not that fricking hard!

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Changing addresses is a PITA! [View all] MineralMan Sep 2021 OP
You'd think people would be more reluctant to move, wouldn't you? Wounded Bear Sep 2021 #1
Hmm...you have something there. MineralMan Sep 2021 #4
It's nothing Jilly_in_VA Sep 2021 #2
I have been married twice. Both times, my wives have simply not changed MineralMan Sep 2021 #8
I wish I hadn't Jilly_in_VA Sep 2021 #12
My late mother never got it, somehow. MineralMan Sep 2021 #13
I am so glad I didn't change my name when I married, but it was still a PITA in 1977 csziggy Sep 2021 #23
Moving is #3 on the Top 5 stressors in life bluewater Sep 2021 #3
Well, the move came not long after the death of both of my parents. MineralMan Sep 2021 #7
Losing a parent is always hard bluewater Sep 2021 #10
Thank you. Both things are in the past at this point. MineralMan Sep 2021 #14
If you think that's bad, try changing your name Rorey Sep 2021 #5
I concur with other posters BuddhaGirl Sep 2021 #6
My bad, but i thought this was about middle eastern flat bread jpak Sep 2021 #9
It's not? Sogo Sep 2021 #11
When you are handed a PITA, just add some lamb and beef with some tzatziki sauce and MineralMan Sep 2021 #15
Yay ! jpak Sep 2021 #19
Now you have me missing Ankara, walking down the street marie999 Sep 2021 #21
I feel your pain, MMan ironflange Sep 2021 #16
Things should start settling down now for you. MineralMan Sep 2021 #17
Thanks ironflange Sep 2021 #18
OMG ... Xoan Sep 2021 #20
Ive moved a lot in my life. Treefrog Sep 2021 #22
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