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PoindexterOglethorpe

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24. I guess having a will is hardly considered.
Wed Oct 6, 2021, 03:28 AM
Oct 2021

I am a huge advocate of having a will. I've been pestering one friend of mine for several years now, and he's still dragging his feet.

I made each of my sons draft a will when they turned 18. Took them to our attorney, told them I didn't care if they left everything to a home for unwed cats, but they absolutely needed a will.

This paid off, so to speak, when my younger son died in 2017. His will was straightforward. He left everything to his brother. He did have a somewhat sizeable estate because his grandparents had gifted him, and his older brother, every year from when they were born until the grandparents died.

My older son has recently made a new will and a trust. Hooray for him. The only problem is that he leaves everything to his parents, with no younger successors. In the normal course of events he'll outlive us, and needs younger heirs. I've spoken briefly with him about this, but really do need to push much harder.

My will names my son as my heir, with other relatives as successor heirs if he predeceases me.

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Just shameful keithsw Sep 2021 #1
Idiocracy, Republican style Champp Sep 2021 #2
Yeah but in dying they are owning the Libs. gab13by13 Sep 2021 #3
You cant rebut it; just accept your ownage. Volaris Sep 2021 #22
GOP leaders (politicians, influencers like those on Fox, etc.) are really not too sharp. Vinca Sep 2021 #4
You don't get it because you have empathy, gab13by13 Sep 2021 #6
And yet Cosmocat Sep 2021 #5
Exactly, gab13by13 Sep 2021 #8
I feel you Traildogbob Sep 2021 #12
Maybe Gaetz and MTG gab13by13 Sep 2021 #13
😱😤😡🤬🤬 Traildogbob Sep 2021 #14
Republican infestations seem to rid themselves of themselves. C_U_L8R Sep 2021 #7
"Anyone you can kill, I can kill faster!! I can kill anyone faster than you!!" bullwinkle428 Sep 2021 #9
May the odds be ever in our favor. tanyev Sep 2021 #10
"The Big Lie", the common thread for and of the common people. jaxexpat Sep 2021 #11
My dad would say " if brains were dynamite they couldn't blow their noses." twodogsbarking Sep 2021 #15
Perhaps an extremely effective ad against these Republicans PoindexterOglethorpe Sep 2021 #16
Who's stealing all the property of those who die with no surviving family? cynical_idealist Sep 2021 #18
Not sure what exactly you are trying to say. PoindexterOglethorpe Sep 2021 #19
yes cynical_idealist Sep 2021 #21
I'm sorry, but not having a will is the problem. PoindexterOglethorpe Sep 2021 #23
I guess having a will is hardly considered. PoindexterOglethorpe Oct 2021 #24
It's their human sacrifice to their portly orange god. Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Sep 2021 #17
Oh we haven't seen the GOP at their worst yet. Initech Sep 2021 #20
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