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ShazzieB

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12. I never knew how common this kind of abuse was until I started watching Dr. Phil regularly.
Wed Oct 13, 2021, 03:10 PM
Oct 2021

He has done many, many shows on domestic violence, and you wouldn't believe how often this comes up, how many men there are who repeatedly choke their partner until she passes out.

And yes, it's men who usually do this, and it's women who are the typical victims. I'm not saying there aren't cases of this behavior between same sex partners (I'm sure there are), or that there aren't women who abuse men (there are, but very few women are physically capable of overpowering a man in this fashion).

So yes, this is terrifyngly common, and it becomes a habit with certain men, until one day the strangulation goes on just a tiny bit too long and ends up with her dead and him charged with murder.

The article you posted is excellent, and I hope lots of people will read it. Here's another: https://www.strangulationtraininginstitute.com/strangulation-the-red-flag-of-domestic-violence-that-we-never-discuss/

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I cant believe he strangled her in the van and carried her all way out there. Shanti Shanti Shanti Oct 2021 #1
I think they were outside the van. gldstwmn Oct 2021 #17
What a scumbag.. Patton French Oct 2021 #2
This one only needs a DUH response malaise Oct 2021 #3
THIS THREAD IS NOT ABOUT GABBY PETITO Jilly_in_VA Oct 2021 #4
YOU USED HER NAME IN THE HEADLINE TO GET ATTENTION!!! Conversation steering never works, lol Shanti Shanti Shanti Oct 2021 #7
That was the header on the article, copied VERBATIM Jilly_in_VA Oct 2021 #8
Did YOU read the article? It was ALL about her death, with many suppositions thrown in Shanti Shanti Shanti Oct 2021 #9
Yes, I read the article Jilly_in_VA Oct 2021 #10
What if it wasn't domestic violence? What if a stranger killed her? Shanti Shanti Shanti Oct 2021 #14
Yeah right Jilly_in_VA Oct 2021 #15
You can be damn sure that Demobrat Oct 2021 #19
But you used her name in the title. gldstwmn Oct 2021 #18
I had a friend whose husband tried to kill her by leftyladyfrommo Oct 2021 #5
These guys Jilly_in_VA Oct 2021 #6
Toxic masculinity at its worst! SheltieLover Oct 2021 #11
I never knew how common this kind of abuse was until I started watching Dr. Phil regularly. ShazzieB Oct 2021 #12
Thanks for that Jilly_in_VA Oct 2021 #13
Experts also say being shot, stabbed, bludgened with a hammer and being hit with a fist... PoliticAverse Oct 2021 #16
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