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218. At no point did I say that trans kids are just autistic.

Fri Oct 22, 2021, 04:23 PM

Oct 2021

The fact that some kids with autism are convinced that they are trans is undeniable. I don't know the actual numbers, because I doubt they exist, of kids on the autism spectrum identifying as trans. I do know that my nephew feels like he was sucked into the online trans community because he was lonely and bullied as a child. It isn't that all trans kids have autism but I'd venture to guess that there are many kids that are autistic that are being groomed by online trans forums into thinking that they are trans. I have a case in my own family of exactly that.

You know who helped him along the way in his decision to identify as trans? His mother. I know parents are going to do everything they can for the children. What parent wouldn't? But we live in a different world these days and it is not out of the question for outside, online communities to have more influence over a young mind than even the parents have.

BTW "Groomed" was the word he used, not me.

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