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LenaBaby61

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43. "It's a DU myth that only white people are classiest and racist."
Fri Nov 5, 2021, 02:30 PM
Nov 2021

I have friends who are Cuban and these friends do NOT like most Mexicans, El salvadorians, Guatemalans, and anybody from Central America (Like I mentioned, my mexican friend said her family has been in the US for hundreds of years, and who are they to come here and take my job). My late aunt (Who was married to my Mom's brother was one of the first black fire captains in the Army) was from Japan. Loved her, but she did not like, get along with or trust some Koreans or Chinese people. People don't like to hear this, but there are people from other countries who come over to the US and look down on black people. My late Mom was a nurse back in the 50's and into the early-80's until she retired, and there were many a patient from another country who didn't want her touching them. Mom said she'd encounter one of these patients, then she'd go to the nurses station and request a white nurse so the patient could receive care, and usually the white nurses were pissed knowing this, but what could they do? They went and assisted the patient etc. Mom was used to having older white patents from the South not wanting her to touch their breakfast plates (Even WITH a lid covering the food no less). She grew up in the South and was used to that from them. As a supervisor in her later years, Mom was the one who black nurses came to who said I need a white nurse, because patient whatever on 7 South wouldn't let me near him/her and started screaming. My Mom would say, yes I heard/saw the buzzer going off. Mom would request a white nurse who'd say what we got. The patient doesn't want nurse X touching him/her. Oh, we got another bigot, Mom would say Yes

Personally, I try to get along with "people, humans" first because I know not everybody is racist from a certain group/race of people or country. One of my late Mom's friends for life was a Republican who grew up wealthy and privileged in Michigan, but they knew each other for over 60 years and my late Mom inherited a very large cash gift, jewelry and other things from her in fact when this woman passed away. Mom was stunned. Now, if someone gives me a reason NOT to be friendly and NOT get along with them (I can most often tell racism when I encounter it), I reply in kind.

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Clarify WHAT STATEMENTS? This is a total misrepresentation of the facts. JohnSJ Nov 2021 #1
Looks Like THe Post I Originally Responded To Me. Nov 2021 #3
Yes, another loser issue for Dems whatever will be eventually done Hav Nov 2021 #4
This is up to the courts, not the Biden administration, and The Hill is intentionally misrepresentin JohnSJ Nov 2021 #10
Sorry To Say Me. Nov 2021 #2
Sure it will, but the headline, "walking back" is bullshit. It is a clarification, and I am NOT JohnSJ Nov 2021 #8
"This could become a big campaign issue next year." LenaBaby61 Nov 2021 #27
Plus This Will Bring Up The Matter Of Repararions Me. Nov 2021 #33
"Plus This Will Bring Up The Matter Of Reparations." LenaBaby61 Nov 2021 #34
It's already an issue. Decoy of Fenris Nov 2021 #32
Doesn't matter if this does or doesn't come to pass in any form... NCDem47 Nov 2021 #5
Waiting on the "Double talking WH" memes to begin. Cattledog Nov 2021 #6
Biden's gut reaction was the right one, they need to make this go away. tritsofme Nov 2021 #7
What exactly does this mean? BlueTsunami2018 Nov 2021 #9
It means that the courts will decide compensation for any undocumented people who were JohnSJ Nov 2021 #11
Sounds like settlements before it even reaches the court system MichMan Nov 2021 #14
And that comes out of whose pocket? BlueTsunami2018 Nov 2021 #15
What is a suitable compensation when you got your kid taken away Hav Nov 2021 #12
I don't know. BlueTsunami2018 Nov 2021 #16
Donald Trump being in prison would be a good start. n/t Mr.Bill Nov 2021 #30
It is stuff like this that can make the administration appear to be disorganized MichMan Nov 2021 #13
No, it is the courts that will decide this JohnSJ Nov 2021 #18
That isn't correct; They are talking about the DOJ making settlements,so the cases don't go to court MichMan Nov 2021 #37
Thanks JohnSJ Nov 2021 #39
This has been in the news for several days Jose Garcia Nov 2021 #20
Not only that, it was the President himself on TV saying it;not Jen Psaki or some other spokesperson MichMan Nov 2021 #24
GQP'ers have tee's out with "Dementia Joe" on them, with a funny face he made pasted on them. LenaBaby61 Nov 2021 #28
This is my take as well. Self-inflicted damage, which will then be exploited by the Rethugs Celerity Nov 2021 #38
The government faces numerous lawsuits from families separated under the trumps administration JohnSJ Nov 2021 #17
Here is a link to the story about what President Biden Tomconroy Nov 2021 #19
gotcha journalism. This will be amplified just like Hillary emails, and the media will play it JohnSJ Nov 2021 #21
Some things are worth taking a stand on. Thank you Tomconroy Nov 2021 #22
I agree. All I am saying is I suspect this will be distorted JohnSJ Nov 2021 #26
Taking a stand like this ... LenaBaby61 Nov 2021 #35
I'm the kind that doesn't want another 4 years of Trump. BannonsLiver Nov 2021 #23
It's a distinct possibility anyway. Tomconroy Nov 2021 #25
The ONLY thing that matters is keeping the crazies away from power. BannonsLiver Nov 2021 #41
And yes. BannonsLiver Nov 2021 #42
Even some of my Mexican friends don't like this $ deal. One gal told me yesterday that ... LenaBaby61 Nov 2021 #36
Yep BannonsLiver Nov 2021 #40
"It's a DU myth that only white people are classiest and racist." LenaBaby61 Nov 2021 #43
One of my best friends in college was a black with light skin tones. BannonsLiver Nov 2021 #44
Assert sovereign immunity Klaralven Nov 2021 #29
I know it's probably not possible maxrandb Nov 2021 #31
I've recently posted about this newdayneeded Nov 2021 #45
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