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In reply to the discussion: Historical data on people under 30 who have had zero opposite sex sexual partners since turning 18 [View all]Bernardo de La Paz
(60,320 posts)15. (Certainly noteworthy graph) The OP was about "opposite sex", excluding same sex.
(Sorry Tom, not meaning to pick on you. As a programmer I'm almost reflexively detail oriented. And to be fair, even accounting for homosexual orientations, your contention probably still holds because of high proportion of heterosexuals.)
It certainly is a noteworthy graph. Makes me wonder too.
One explanation could be men on average have become less attractive, perhaps more long-bearded and rotund in some parts of the country. I read on DU the term "unfuckable" that some women give, occasioned by a photo in a thread of some rotund long-bearded guys occupying a state legislature with military-style rifles.
Or perhaps the percentage of homosexual men is considerably higher than previously estimated and young ones haven't figured out the codes to find mates.
Society has become more tolerant and accepting of homosexuality over many years, but the whole issue of sexual identity has become more tangled and yet more fluid (no pun intended) in recent years so there are more people being tolerant of their own sexuality and less self-policing.
Even so, media are a bit slow to catch up and the dominant depiction of sexual codes (flirting, come-ons, signalling) is still almost exclusively heterosexual.
Those two hypotheses are all I can think of at the moment.
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Historical data on people under 30 who have had zero opposite sex sexual partners since turning 18 [View all]
OnlinePoker
Nov 2021
OP
Young Men as a group are a lot less attractive then they used to be.
cinematicdiversions
Nov 2021
#5
More women are having sex than men, so you conclude that WOMEN are too choosey.
Scrivener7
Nov 2021
#40
Also, the fact that WE are having more sex is proof that WE are too choosy, and therefore
Scrivener7
Nov 2021
#52
Certainly not here (Stockholm), and the internet has made things so easy to find
Celerity
Nov 2021
#49
Hmm, the last year of the survey was 2018. I bet its even higher during the pandemic /nt
progree
Nov 2021
#11
(Certainly noteworthy graph) The OP was about "opposite sex", excluding same sex.
Bernardo de La Paz
Nov 2021
#15
Or women, on average, are less likely to have no sex at all when a young adult
muriel_volestrangler
Nov 2021
#27
I wish this graph meant that our culture has made it safer for young people, particularly men, to
WhiskeyGrinder
Nov 2021
#20
Yup. And if that is where your arousal patterns have developed, what real woman having
Scrivener7
Nov 2021
#34
Another contributing factor could be environmental pollutants on hormone levels.
meadowlander
Nov 2021
#35