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Solly Mack

(90,765 posts)
5. Even w/ ample evidence to the contrary, some idiots truly believe that women automatically feel the
Thu Dec 2, 2021, 03:21 AM
Dec 2021

the call to nurture a baby.

Oh, sure, she was raped and forced to give birth but just you wait, her maternal instincts will kick in and she'll love that baby!

Or she'll abuse it because the trauma of rape has never been dealt with and/or the baby looks just like the rapist. Or maybe, just maybe, a woman or young girl doesn't want to give birth to their own sibling/cousin/aunt/uncle, or the child of a rapist not related to her.

And why would anyone be so cruel as to force a little girl to give birth? That's child abuse and people who would do that are no better than the rapist that got the child pregnant. Sick and depraved all.

Or you hear the completely dismissive "the baby is innocent".

So? Just because the fetus wasn't the rapist doesn't make it a blessing. Or wanted. Or needed. Or the best outcome.

Even if she wasn't raped and simply does not want to carry a pregnancy to term - they say the same kind of shit.

Oh, honey. Just because you feel that way now doesn't mean your maternal instincts won't kick in later.

Like enjoying a good fuck (or lamenting a bad one) that results in pregnancy translates into instant maternal instincts. Instant desire to be a mother.

Like you couldn't possibly know your own mind about not wanting a child and that once overcome by hormones everything will change.

People who think that way are no different than the fool who said women have a way of shutting it all down to prevent conception during rape.

No clue about the effects of rape, no clue about how reproduction works, no clue about the female body, and for damn sure no clue about women as people.

And just because somebody's grandmother/mother/sister/aunt changed her mind about having kids doesn't mean it holds true for all women.

And just because a rape victim does choose to give birth doesn't mean all rape victims want to carry the fetus to term.

You want to "choose life"? Then how about choosing the life of the person in the world - the woman. Choose her well-being. Choose her rights.


















I had a woman tell me mercuryblues Dec 2021 #1
Oh that poor woman. Do you know how she is niyad Dec 2021 #29
No, but I do know she was getting professional healthcare mercuryblues Dec 2021 #35
I hope so as well. niyad Dec 2021 #36
K & R Progressive Jones Dec 2021 #2
Thank you for your post Tumbulu Dec 2021 #3
You are most welcome. niyad Dec 2021 #34
So much tragedy these days. smirkymonkey Dec 2021 #4
Even w/ ample evidence to the contrary, some idiots truly believe that women automatically feel the Solly Mack Dec 2021 #5
Very well said malaise Dec 2021 #8
+1 2naSalit Dec 2021 #10
K&R a million times! llmart Dec 2021 #13
Hear Hear, Sir The Magistrate Dec 2021 #18
Absolutely spot on. Would you consider cross- niyad Dec 2021 #22
I always feel the need to respond to everyone when I start an OP Solly Mack Dec 2021 #25
Not a problem. Huggggs niyad Dec 2021 #27
Antinatalism is actually a thing. Frasier Balzov Dec 2021 #6
The world does not need any more unwanted children vlyons Dec 2021 #7
That is not actually accurate for the United States or other western countries. cinematicdiversions Dec 2021 #14
:) Yes, U.S. population would have been shrinking for decades Hortensis Dec 2021 #24
U.S. Americans use 16 times the resources, on average... hunter Dec 2021 #31
Once we get a handle on clothing, feeding and housing the 8 billion already here gratuitous Dec 2021 #33
K & R...nt Wounded Bear Dec 2021 #9
The criminal system is already overflowing with unwanted people. lindysalsagal Dec 2021 #11
Freakonomics showed that the unexplained drop in crime Scrivener7 Dec 2021 #12
It only makes sense. We can't afford these catholic wet dreams of a jesus state. lindysalsagal Dec 2021 #30
If they do away with Roe, we need to light this country up. Paladin Dec 2021 #15
Don't wait for Roe to fall. Whatever you're going to do, do it now. WhiskeyGrinder Dec 2021 #20
My children's mother did not want to be a mother. panader0 Dec 2021 #16
She was absolutely furious when she became pregnant, Croney Dec 2021 #17
She could have gotten an abortion if she wanted. panader0 Dec 2021 #19
Not judging your behavior or hers, just sympathizing with how she must have felt. Croney Dec 2021 #21
Wow! Even with all that time that's gone by. I'm sure it ain't easy to share that. TY. nt Carlitos Brigante Dec 2021 #26
I am so glad that you and your children have done niyad Dec 2021 #28
Usually it's fathers who run off. LisaL Dec 2021 #38
. . . niyad Dec 2021 #23
This is one example of how cruel it is to force any woman to carry her pregnancy to term. BeckyDem Dec 2021 #32
That is absolutely horrible, niyad. Kath2 Dec 2021 #37
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