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DFW

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Tue Dec 14, 2021, 07:51 PM Dec 2021

Moral dilemma that took about ten seconds to resolve [View all]

A friend of mine is from a very backward (to us coastal folks) part of Tennessee on the Missouri border. He is a rare bird in those parts. He is a solid Democrat who got his ass handed to him when he ran for Congress. He is a devout Christian, which I can't even fathom, being more of the George Carlin school of thinking on the subject. Friendly irreconcilable differences, call it. My friend truly believes the whole thing, tax, title and license. I believe in George Carlin, though I do not pray to Joe Pesci.

However, my friend in Tennessee is genuine, the absolute real thing. Compassionate, caring, and exuding a friendship that just radiates authenticity.

So, when I got his message that his home town of Dresden, Tennessee was demolished, with people left with nothing but the shards of the contents of what used to be their homes, I responded--immediately and substantially. I don't buy the "there, but for the grace of God, go I" line. My version is a simple, "wow, that could have been me!" And when you look at this photo he sent, you do NOT want that to have been you:



There were plenty of other towns that got demolished, too. LOTS of them. The difference here is that my friend and his extended family all live here, and he asked his friends, of which I am one, for help. If it had been my family, he would been one of the first to ask what he could do, and then do it to the extent that it was in his power. I can, and will, do no less.

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He lives in Dresden? - yikes lame54 Dec 2021 #1
What's left of it, yes. DFW Dec 2021 #3
Just thinking of Kurt Vonnegut lame54 Dec 2021 #4
I don't know if their paths ever crossed DFW Dec 2021 #7
Slauterhouse Five features the bombing and leveling of Dresden... lame54 Dec 2021 #8
Oops. I should have known. DFW Dec 2021 #9
💕 blm Dec 2021 #2
You are such a good friend, my dear DFW! CaliforniaPeggy Dec 2021 #5
Well said, CP and DFW. We are complex and can hold many as friends that have very different beliefs. erronis Dec 2021 #22
Sorry to hear what happened to your friend Bayard Dec 2021 #6
+1. you're absolutely right stopdiggin Dec 2021 #10
All the best to your friend and to you. The photos I've see all show towns that look like they've ... Hekate Dec 2021 #11
That's exactly what my wife said DFW Dec 2021 #13
Terrifying destruction. Wishing your friend well. LoisB Dec 2021 #12
Thanks. I hope to hear from him DFW Dec 2021 #14
How awful! mcar Dec 2021 #15
It really looked like the end of the world DFW Dec 2021 #16
Yeah, that's what I meant mcar Dec 2021 #17
Ten seconds? DFW, I doubt if it took you even that long to decide to help. panader0 Dec 2021 #18
Well, to tell you the truth DFW Dec 2021 #19
Kick. BlackSkimmer Dec 2021 #20
I just heard about the line of tornadoes earlier today. Horrific. Of course you are helping niyad Dec 2021 #21
I donated to a Kentucky fundraiser Skittles Dec 2021 #23
Good, thanks DFW Dec 2021 #30
I grew up in Tornado Alley, although at a different time when storms were not so bad. Lonestarblue Dec 2021 #24
Here you go, and thanks for ANY help you wish to offer! DFW Dec 2021 #28
I remember Dresden as a sleepy little farming town Lars39 Dec 2021 #25
Can we help? chloesmom Dec 2021 #26
There is indeed DFW Dec 2021 #27
Here is the link and an address DFW Dec 2021 #29
Thank you! chloesmom Dec 2021 #31
EVERYTHING helps, so thanks! DFW Dec 2021 #32
Just donated again chloesmom Dec 2021 #33
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