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TexasBushwhacker

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52. Language is communication

Sat Dec 25, 2021, 01:15 PM

Dec 2021

If you truly did not understand what he meant, then the proper response is "Excuse me?" or "I don't understand."

If you don't respond at all, they may think you're deaf or a snob. They would be right on one assumption.

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I've stopped responding to people who can't use real sentences [View all] ripcord Dec 2021 OP

That's not laziness, it's dialect difference. tblue37 Dec 2021 #1

+1. n/t femmedem Dec 2021 #25

Which schools teach this dialect? AncientAndy Dec 2021 #39

I was taught metric. LuckyCharms Dec 2021 #41

I spent 45 years teaching college English, but when I am with my Sicilian-American tblue37 Dec 2021 #44

In the Chicago dialect, the "family room" is called a front room, but it's pronounced... Progressive Jones Dec 2021 #135

I was taught how to dial a telephone Effete Snob Dec 2021 #65

. Iggo Dec 2021 #97

I figure any college with a decent linguistics program. Iggo Dec 2021 #95

Message auto-removed Name removed Dec 2021 #128

Language is far more complex than radius777 Dec 2021 #124

The legitimacy of a dialect doesn't depend on it being taught in classroom. Act_of_Reparation Dec 2021 #133

Lot more charitable than my thoughts. Lancero Dec 2021 #86

... greenjar_01 Dec 2021 #2

... demmiblue Dec 2021 #16

OMG n/t leftstreet Dec 2021 #3

Are you sure English is his first language? vanlassie Dec 2021 #4

I Fail To See Your Problem, Sir The Magistrate Dec 2021 #5

+1000!!! Nt USALiberal Dec 2021 #12

. WhiskeyGrinder Dec 2021 #20

Linguistics is successful if the message conveyed can be understood by the recipient. TheBlackAdder Dec 2021 #80

Indeed ibegurpard Dec 2021 #90

. LuckyCharms Dec 2021 #6

... demmiblue Dec 2021 #7

Huh MustLoveBeagles Dec 2021 #8

are you serious? Kali Dec 2021 #9

Was the person autistic? KS Toronado Dec 2021 #10

He was 20 something skateboarder ripcord Dec 2021 #13

Really? On Christmas Day even? LuckyCharms Dec 2021 #26

Irony is a funny thing, isn't it? MineralMan Dec 2021 #28

Ouch. Dial H For Hero Dec 2021 #35

I'll admit, that's a nice dunk wellst0nev0ter Dec 2021 #38

Autistic people can skate board. KS Toronado Dec 2021 #30

My first job out of college, I worked outreach for the elderly way up in the Appalachian mountains. BlackSkimmer Dec 2021 #54

+1000! USALiberal Dec 2021 #105

Reminds that I once drove with a friend to visit her Hortensis Dec 2021 #118

Yes. Beautiful people I met in those days. BlackSkimmer Dec 2021 #122

"He was 20 something skateboarder" Mariana Dec 2021 #87

Lol, is this a parody???? Nt USALiberal Dec 2021 #104

Lol, geez, lighten up! Nt USALiberal Dec 2021 #11

Is it possible that he has learning difficulties or received a subpar education? PTWB Dec 2021 #14

He speaks just fine at City Council and school board meetings ripcord Dec 2021 #22

Your OP refers to him as "some guy", normally indicative of your not knowing him. Dial H For Hero Dec 2021 #37

Hmmm indeed. One wonders what bridges may be missing their Maru Kitteh Dec 2021 #106

A trumpie skateboarder? BlackSkimmer Dec 2021 #42

A 20 something Trumpy skateboarder, who also shows up at school board and city council meetings Celerity Dec 2021 #49

I know, right? BlackSkimmer Dec 2021 #53

It's an odd one for sure XanaDUer2 Dec 2021 #63

Hey, and back atcha! BlackSkimmer Dec 2021 #64

I overheard him talking with friends at a hipster coffee shop Effete Snob Dec 2021 #66

. Iggo Dec 2021 #89

This is fascinating! CrackityJones75 Dec 2021 #119

I am upset about people use the wrong double quote!!! Nt USALiberal Dec 2021 #15

... MustLoveBeagles Dec 2021 #17

You think you made a point Alpeduez21 Dec 2021 #18

Question for you... LuckyCharms Dec 2021 #19

Have you, now? Well, that's a pretty rude thing to do. MineralMan Dec 2021 #21

Way to take a stand, Ripcord. Says a lot about you. WhiskeyGrinder Dec 2021 #23

I don't have any difficulty understanding it in written form. old as dirt Dec 2021 #24

Have you ever heard of dialects? Are you familiar with the Crunchy Frog Dec 2021 #27

Why you do that? edhopper Dec 2021 #29

Oh my god yes! Iggo Dec 2021 #98

You know nothing about the gentleman in question beyond his appearance and two poorly constructed Dial H For Hero Dec 2021 #31

Nah, read the other posts. BlackSkimmer Dec 2021 #56

Or Newfoundland... Jedi Guy Dec 2021 #69

Ha! BlackSkimmer Dec 2021 #103

I'm sure your verbal interaction with people will be greatly missed Stinky The Clown Dec 2021 #32

Smokes. Let's go. LuckyCharms Dec 2021 #33

Wait! Dr. Strange Dec 2021 #84

Good catch! LuckyCharms Dec 2021 #91

yes DiamondShark Dec 2021 #94

Probably a Gen Z bartender. Tomconroy Dec 2021 #34

Nice ageism. So sick and tired of the endless Millennial and Gen Z bashing on this board. Celerity Dec 2021 #43

I say bro, brah, dude ismnotwasm Dec 2021 #45

Me too. LuckyCharms Dec 2021 #47

bruv (in the UK) Celerity Dec 2021 #51

I love slang and real time linguistic changes. I don't always use it, but I stay aware ismnotwasm Dec 2021 #62

I stream a ton of Brit tv shows, and bruv and fam are my new words this year. Iggo Dec 2021 #100

Fam has been prevalent here for years tishaLA Dec 2021 #140

+1. 'Dope' was to the 90s what 'rad' was to the 80s radius777 Dec 2021 #121

Me old China. ;) N/T Jedi Guy Dec 2021 #71

My dad grew up in Fulham, way before it was posh. BlackSkimmer Dec 2021 #123

I use "dude" a lot. I only use "bro" or "brah" ironically 99% of the time. Jedi Guy Dec 2021 #70

I've noticed this ismnotwasm Dec 2021 #77

Oh yeah, "gnarly" is back. Jedi Guy Dec 2021 #78

Hahaha! Agreed. I hope tubular was a one-off ismnotwasm Dec 2021 #83

I know! And then what would you do? Iggo Dec 2021 #99

He spoke to you using the same casual language he would have used with a friend--a friendly gesture. femmedem Dec 2021 #36

bah, humbug iemanja Dec 2021 #40

Please provide sample sentences 48656c6c6f20 Dec 2021 #46

Rush Limbaugh billh58 Dec 2021 #48

Really? NT mahatmakanejeeves Dec 2021 #50

Language is communication TexasBushwhacker Dec 2021 #52

It grinds on me too BUT MuseRider Dec 2021 #55

I ran into a situation once with someone who behaved like you. MineralMan Dec 2021 #57

When I Travelled In France, Sir The Magistrate Dec 2021 #59

Absolutely. I always apologize for speaking any of the languages I speak poorly. MineralMan Dec 2021 #61

It is too bad that this teller was so unhelpful w/ these people/tourists. It is a good... SWBTATTReg Dec 2021 #75

That was many years ago. The teller was not fired. MineralMan Dec 2021 #76

I see it as an effect of the American Exceptionalism philosophy misanthrope Dec 2021 #82

Remember umbrella man? old as dirt Dec 2021 #96

These videos were completely new to me! ShazzieB Dec 2021 #129

It's just another excuse... old as dirt Dec 2021 #131

This had to be years ago, assuming it ever happened. BlackSkimmer Dec 2021 #116

Mineral Man said it was "many years ago." ShazzieB Dec 2021 #132

Traveling/doing art research in Italy I used "mi dispiace" a lot. The Italians loved that I was at CTyankee Dec 2021 #92

I did the same thing when I visited France in 1977. n/t ChazII Dec 2021 #81

I did the same thing with Spanish. Iggo Dec 2021 #110

The one time my high school French came in handy was in a similar situation. Dial H For Hero Dec 2021 #79

I can't say anything because, I'm sure multigraincracker Dec 2021 #58

You got ya some tense problems dpibel Dec 2021 #60

Bet yo life. OilemFirchen Dec 2021 #68

Sounds like dialect to me. Elessar Zappa Dec 2021 #67

One of my VA disabilities is Expressive Aphasia so if we ever meet you wouldn't want to talk with me marie999 Dec 2021 #72

It's X'Mas, so thought I'd offer this bit of Enoki33 Dec 2021 #73

I haven't heard a native English speaker in person for 2 months Tetrachloride Dec 2021 #74

Hope you are enjoying that rarified air Texasgal Dec 2021 #85

I shall stop responding to people who think they are better than others... Iggo Dec 2021 #88

My wife gets english pronouns wrong all the time. old as dirt Dec 2021 #93

That's odd....and awesome. Iggo Dec 2021 #101

You do you. gldstwmn Dec 2021 #102

Ok Sunsky Dec 2021 #107

Language is a living thing Bettie Dec 2021 #108

Here's hoping you received all the admiration you were expecting this Christmas EYESORE 9001 Dec 2021 #109

This thread turned out like I thought it would MustLoveBeagles Dec 2021 #111

Here's my suggestion EYESORE 9001 Dec 2021 #113

I'm with you MustLoveBeagles Dec 2021 #115

Surprised he's not deleted it yet lol. BlackSkimmer Dec 2021 #125

So am I MustLoveBeagles Dec 2021 #127

These be mean, intolerant times. Go widit. Or not. Hortensis Dec 2021 #112

And they may be all the better for not having to deal with you. nolabear Dec 2021 #114

Wow. You actually wrote this? CrackityJones75 Dec 2021 #117

I try hard not to judge people, Emile Dec 2021 #120

I need to relate this here... 634-5789 Dec 2021 #126

I've stopped responding to a certain kind of people, too. ShazzieB Dec 2021 #130

I've stopped responding to people who refuse to use the Oxford comma. Act_of_Reparation Dec 2021 #134

that's a bit harsh Skittles Dec 2021 #136

reminds me of an old classic DU trolling thread Kali Dec 2021 #137

Beer and many experiences. Iggo Dec 2021 #139

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