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AmBlue

(3,460 posts)
20. I feel your pain.
Tue Jan 11, 2022, 10:49 AM
Jan 2022

My mom is 89 and has CLL leukemia and dementia and lives with me. Her dementia is getting really bad and everything is a challenge. She can still eat and walk with assistance but that's about it. Because of her CLL and covid we haven't even considered ALFs. Her immune-compromised state makes her very vulnerable.

I did learn that once the dementia is advanced enough to qualify them for hospice care, Medicare pays 100% for nursing visits and you get a team assigned that includes a social worker. My SIL's dad just passed away of dementia and had this care for a year and a half at no cost to her dad. Have you checked out if she qualifies for these resources?

It is so sad that our country doesn't provide support for our elders and those of us who are caregivers are on our own.

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So my 91-year-old Mom has COVID. [View all] Liberty Belle Jan 2022 OP
((Liberty)) blm Jan 2022 #1
Hugs. onecaliberal Jan 2022 #2
I'm so sorry. luvs2sing Jan 2022 #3
I will pray for her safety and recovery. Anyone who has had a loved one Tanuki Jan 2022 #4
Oh, liberty, I am so very sorry that you and your mom are going through this. Sending niyad Jan 2022 #5
Similar story with my 93 yo MIL. She did have some stomach symptoms robbedvoter Jan 2022 #6
I'm glad your Mom recovered. Liberty Belle Jan 2022 #21
this makes me so mad that the idiots dont belive in masks and or vaxx.:( AllaN01Bear Jan 2022 #7
Omicron is crazy contagious. Ms. Toad Jan 2022 #8
I'm glad you recovered. Liberty Belle Jan 2022 #15
Unless Medicare pays for (likely) a very expensive test to Ms. Toad Jan 2022 #19
This is very similar to my Mom's situation. TygrBright Jan 2022 #9
:What a great person you are to do this for your mom. Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2022 #10
Thank you for checking. This is a gap that ought to get filled one of these days. Liberty Belle Jan 2022 #16
Just an idea. Can you get the relatives of the other two covid Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2022 #17
regarding what laura pourmeadrink said... orleans Jan 2022 #18
I fucking hate Medicare. Now they cut out her physical therapy completey; Liberty Belle Jan 2022 #22
I am incensed that a nation that dares call itself "great" allows our elders Maru Kitteh Jan 2022 #11
Thanks antivaxxers COL Mustard Jan 2022 #12
So, disgusting. Hope she recovers fully. You take care of yourself, too! electric_blue68 Jan 2022 #13
I am so sorry about your mom. I feel your frustration with these morons. They don't make sense. LoisB Jan 2022 #14
I feel your pain. AmBlue Jan 2022 #20
Mom can't live at home or with us because she's in a wheelchair, and our house has stairs Liberty Belle Jan 2022 #23
I'm so sorry AmBlue Jan 2022 #24
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