So we took mom to a board and care facility yesterday

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3. It's going to take her time to adjust.

It's important to understand that.

It does seem as if you've gotten her in the facility in a timely manner. Too often people delay and delay, remaining at home when they can no longer care for themselves, or when their children, even if they live nearby, can do that.

We're dealing with that in my family with my 78 year old brother and his same aged wife. It does seem as if they are on board, and are trying to figure out exactly where to live. In there case, there is plenty of money to pay for a place, even if they each live to be 100, which is frankly very unlikely. For them, it will be an independent/assisted living place, because right now while they do need help, they don't need full care.

Hang in there.