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MineralMan

(151,287 posts)
95. Yeah. Taking someone into a jewelry store to buy
Sun Mar 20, 2022, 10:26 AM
Mar 2022

them a gift is risky for your budget. Not all the time, but sometimes.

It also works the other way. My wife always goes for the less expensive item. That would be OK, but I know she'll be happier with one that costs more. So, I usually shop for her gifts by myself.

An example: For our 30th wedding anniversary, I suggested that she might like a three-diamond ring. She said she might like that very much. So, I said, "Why don't you look around on Amazon and show me one you like?"

She did, and sent me a link to one with three really small stones. On Amazon, the pictures of jewelry are much larger than the actual item. Then, when you get the ring, you're often disappointed, since you saw a magnified photo of it online.

So, I found one similar to the one she picked, but with a total carat weight for the three diamonds of 1 carat. The center stone was larger than the side stones. I sent her the link. She said, "Wow! That's much nicer than the one I picked out." So, we ordered that one and she was very pleased when it arrived. More expensive, but much more fun to wear.

My wife is easy to please, and it's always my pleasure to please her.

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They don't want to pay labor costs, so they lose more customers. tblue37 Mar 2022 #1
+1 n/t area51 Mar 2022 #93
No one in customer service? luv2fly Mar 2022 #2
I did not check Customer service. MineralMan Mar 2022 #4
You have to register & sign in on Amazon also. Why is it offensive to you at a b/m store? delisen Mar 2022 #3
That is true. I have an account at Amazon. MineralMan Mar 2022 #8
It is true that Amazon will let you "window shop" without registering but there are costs. delisen Mar 2022 #36
You raise some interesting questions. MineralMan Mar 2022 #39
Kmart, Sears HipChick Mar 2022 #5
Yes. The only possible way brick and mortar stores can compete MineralMan Mar 2022 #11
Walmart online storefront keeps getting better and better JCMach1 Mar 2022 #30
Yes. Target, too. MineralMan Mar 2022 #40
We got a plain (not smart) 42" UHD (RCA brand) for my son's XBOX X during the pandemic. It was $159 JCMach1 Mar 2022 #88
That's happened snowybirdie Mar 2022 #6
A quarter century ago, ... old as dirt Mar 2022 #7
In Dubai, where I lived and worked for 12 years, everything was 18k up JCMach1 Mar 2022 #32
I visited el Museo del Oro in Bogota back in 2005. old as dirt Mar 2022 #69
Carrots are things you eat. PoindexterOglethorpe Mar 2022 #54
I've been known... old as dirt Mar 2022 #70
If order was fulfilled by Amazon you should be ok. Freethinker65 Mar 2022 #9
Well, there's nothing complicated about MineralMan Mar 2022 #16
Sometimes online vendors will fill orders faster than local stores csziggy Mar 2022 #47
That's an excellent example, too. MineralMan Mar 2022 #61
Pretty sure I mentioned placing an online/app order for a product out of stock at local pharmacy Freethinker65 Mar 2022 #87
Whenever I am asked to sign in I usually use Fred Flintstone or Abe Lincoln and other fiction dutch777 Mar 2022 #10
Travel agents used to get paid from Tree Lady Mar 2022 #33
Fifty years ago a friend was told he had to provide a phone number to a vendor csziggy Mar 2022 #48
Amazon changed the game, and it's here to stay. Buckeye_Democrat Mar 2022 #12
When I send "cash" gifts to my great nephews and niece, I send prepaid credit cards csziggy Mar 2022 #50
Yes, I've also bought a few prepaid general-use cards... Buckeye_Democrat Mar 2022 #55
I like the kids to have something they can hold in their hands csziggy Mar 2022 #63
Regulate the shit out of Amazon. aocommunalpunch Mar 2022 #13
+100 sinkingfeeling Mar 2022 #15
I've shopped from Amazon, before. old as dirt Mar 2022 #17
If i don't log out I don't log in everytime..I click on my Amazon link and start shopping.. EX500rider Mar 2022 #26
Google remembers my login information at Amazon. MineralMan Mar 2022 #27
I do use it for books on occasion. old as dirt Mar 2022 #34
A number of years ago I filled my library with signed hardcover copies of my 2 favorite authors... Hekate Mar 2022 #85
what? Celerity Mar 2022 #28
I can help you if you need help creating account! Nt USALiberal Mar 2022 #53
Yeah, OK, you do you. MineralMan Mar 2022 #19
I will, thanks. aocommunalpunch Mar 2022 #71
In what areas is Amazon not regulated ? brooklynite Mar 2022 #51
I predict you will not get an answer. MineralMan Mar 2022 #57
Wherever their claw like appendages have a grip aocommunalpunch Mar 2022 #72
Last time I checked, nobody was obliged to purchase from them... brooklynite Mar 2022 #74
Seems about right. aocommunalpunch Mar 2022 #80
Lol, ok, please explain!!! Nt USALiberal Mar 2022 #52
Regulate it...hell, nationalize it n/t leftstreet Mar 2022 #73
In my area, stores were both.. luvs2sing Mar 2022 #14
If you counted all of the employees at all of the Kohl's stores MineralMan Mar 2022 #20
Commercial real estate rates are killing brick and mortar stores. Mosby Mar 2022 #18
Yes. And Amazon isn't the only one, either. MineralMan Mar 2022 #22
I suggest that your brick and mortal examples were both poor examples. brooklynite Mar 2022 #21
Brick and mortar shopping will likely persist... Buckeye_Democrat Mar 2022 #24
Well, yes. However, Tiffany's is not the destination of choice MineralMan Mar 2022 #25
I agree. shrike3 Mar 2022 #60
Always had to psych myself up to go into stores, unless it was a musical instrument store. Hoyt Mar 2022 #23
My wife has the Prime account. MineralMan Mar 2022 #29
I'll just put this South Park clip here. Buckeye_Democrat Mar 2022 #31
I love the "this isn't very fulfilling " Tree Lady Mar 2022 #37
LOL! MineralMan Mar 2022 #42
I'm sorry to hear that. shrike3 Mar 2022 #35
Funny how you don't want Jared to have your info, yet Amazon has all that and more. tinrobot Mar 2022 #38
Yes, Amazon has all of that information. MineralMan Mar 2022 #43
Considering the pay XanaDUer2 Mar 2022 #41
OK, whatever. I choose not to return to stores like that. MineralMan Mar 2022 #44
Sure XanaDUer2 Mar 2022 #46
I worked retail in the 1970s and 1980s. Elwood P Dowd Mar 2022 #66
That's a good point, for sure. MineralMan Mar 2022 #67
There's an interesting sub reddit XanaDUer2 Mar 2022 #68
Talk about NO Customer Service, did you see this, MM? Totally Tunsie Mar 2022 #45
Same here mercuryblues Mar 2022 #49
Sounds familiar. MineralMan Mar 2022 #56
I prefer brick and mortar stores for buying clothes, unless I'm already very familiar with highplainsdem Mar 2022 #58
Shopping is difficult these days. KentuckyWoman Mar 2022 #59
Yeah. I'm 76 years old, myself. MineralMan Mar 2022 #62
One of my pet peeves is the difference between shopping and buying. old as dirt Mar 2022 #76
Point well taken. I don't shop. I buy. KentuckyWoman Mar 2022 #83
I buy many things online because they don't have them in stock at the stores. marie999 Mar 2022 #64
Yes. That's getting more and more common. MineralMan Mar 2022 #65
I used to work retail back in the day Maeve Mar 2022 #75
You're far from alone in noticing the changes. MineralMan Mar 2022 #78
Amazon et. al. are TOO convenient. usonian Mar 2022 #77
Well, delivery services vary from place to place. MineralMan Mar 2022 #79
Did you have an onion on your belt at the time? Hassin Bin Sober Mar 2022 #81
Uh, what? MineralMan Mar 2022 #84
An obscure TV show reference, I think. Mister Ed Mar 2022 #90
It was just a lame insult. MineralMan Mar 2022 #91
Reminds me of my waning days as a Sears customer. I wanted some items for my then-teen ... Hekate Mar 2022 #82
is there not a person capable of sales anymore? alphafemale Mar 2022 #86
Yeah. Taking someone into a jewelry store to buy MineralMan Mar 2022 #95
This is why I ForgedCrank Mar 2022 #89
OK, but here's the thing: MineralMan Mar 2022 #92
I love Amazon. tavernier Mar 2022 #94
Maybe the sign-in was Covid-related Polybius Mar 2022 #96
Nope. Nobody working in the store MineralMan Mar 2022 #97
I hate giving Amazon my money, BUT eissa Mar 2022 #98
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