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Jilly_in_VA

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Sun Mar 20, 2022, 03:44 PM Mar 2022

The Violence Against Women Act Still Doesn't Address This Dangerous Issue [View all]

Kira’s boyfriend never actually pulled the trigger. But during the four years they dated, he often used his assault-style rifle and a slew of other guns to threaten and intimidate her.

He would load his AR-15 and point it at her while she was working out on the living room floor. He sometimes threatened to kill himself and described how the apartment would look with his brains scattered everywhere. He often used weekends to clean and disassemble each firearm as he described in detail how he would kill her if she cheated on him. On some mornings, he would tell her how he stood over her with a gun while she was sleeping, trying to figure out if he wanted to shoot her.

“He would always have his finger on the trigger, as if he was teasing me. He would pull back a little bit with his finger, not pulling the trigger back fully, but just touching it and letting go,” Kira recalled. “And then he’d say, ‘You see how easy this is? Just one pull of a trigger and you’re everywhere.’ That was something that he did a lot.”

Kira tried to leave her boyfriend three times after years of physical, mental and financial abuse, and finally did escape. (For her protection, HuffPost is only using her first name.) Her ex-boyfriend was charged with misdemeanor assault and criminal mischief after the last domestic violence incident, and she now has an order of protection against him.

But due to something called the “boyfriend loophole,” people like Kira’s ex could still be able to own firearms despite their domestic violence charges.

https://www.huffpost.com/entry/violence-against-women-act-boyfriend-loophole_n_62324f9be4b0d39357c25448
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Because of course.

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Republicans I_UndergroundPanther Mar 2022 #1
+1000 smirkymonkey Mar 2022 #16
Isn't murder and violence KT2000 Mar 2022 #2
Thats why I would feel no regret I_UndergroundPanther Mar 2022 #3
Oh, dear lord. PoindexterOglethorpe Mar 2022 #4
Yes! KT2000 Mar 2022 #5
That's a great point Johnny2X2X Mar 2022 #11
+1000 smirkymonkey Mar 2022 #17
And toxic I_UndergroundPanther Mar 2022 #21
What in the world does "LGBT stuff" have to do wirth it? And, stop blaming victtims obamanut2012 Mar 2022 #33
Didn't mean to say anything offensive. PoindexterOglethorpe Mar 2022 #34
How do you address it? maxsolomon Mar 2022 #6
Tony Soprano would know how to resolve this situation if his daughter was the victim. nt albacore Mar 2022 #7
How many of us have a Tony Soprano in our corner? Jilly_in_VA Mar 2022 #9
He's lucky she didn't end him with one of his own weapons. gldstwmn Mar 2022 #8
Should preclude half this country from owning one Jilly_in_VA Mar 2022 #10
All of the Russian money that gldstwmn Mar 2022 #12
What is the loophole? DVRacer Mar 2022 #13
Well maybe it's because she's the girlfriend, not the wife FakeNoose Mar 2022 #18
Financial abuse I_UndergroundPanther Mar 2022 #22
I learned in my mispent youth...marrying an abusive man-child in my teens that...you Demsrule86 Mar 2022 #14
Yeah Jilly_in_VA Mar 2022 #19
Just Charges? Bow To The Robots Mar 2022 #15
So all the Jan 6 rioters should be on the streets? dpibel Mar 2022 #24
Again, careful what you wish for. Bow To The Robots Mar 2022 #25
I see no evidence dpibel Mar 2022 #26
Fallacy. Argumentum Ad Hominem. Bow To The Robots Mar 2022 #27
Temporary or permanent? Reviewable? dpibel Mar 2022 #28
I'm still not the topic. Bow To The Robots Mar 2022 #29
I'm fascinated dpibel Mar 2022 #35
Recommended. H2O Man Mar 2022 #20
These fuckers will get guns, I_UndergroundPanther Mar 2022 #23
I agree. H2O Man Mar 2022 #32
Any felony... Bow To The Robots Mar 2022 #30
Yet not all H2O Man Mar 2022 #31
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