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Jirel

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20. I'm sorry you went through that.
Fri Apr 29, 2022, 10:07 AM
Apr 2022

I completely understand your choice, given your experience.

I did see that, in the article. I take issue with it. Women experiencing harassment (and threats) happens everywhere, at all hours. But, while I'm glad women are sharing their experiences, it is not something that should cause women to try to warn off other women from running where and when they choose, or to attack an ad showing a woman doing a relatively common activity the way she chooses. I have been through a couple attempted assaults in my life - and they had nothing to do with running or being out at night. Sadly, sexual assault, or at least the attempt, is rampant in most of the world, in virtually every setting. But, adult women are hardly unaware of that, and are capable of making our own decisions as to our activities and safety, and should not be shamed or overwarned or told that our choices are somehow abnormal.

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Life as it should be in every city in the world lapfog_1 Apr 2022 #1
I've found that many men have no idea how much we restrict our activities to avoid danger viva la Apr 2022 #2
LA has many major stores open 24 hours and the others close at 2am, reopen at 6am. I drove Demovictory9 Apr 2022 #4
and the women are probably coming back from a late shift at work in some store viva la Apr 2022 #5
yes, when I was young bus rider, after I got off the bus at dusk and walked home, cars would pull up Demovictory9 Apr 2022 #6
I listen to too many true-crime podcasts-- 80% which deal with "Femicide" viva la Apr 2022 #7
That happened to me, too. They pick up prostitutes leftyladyfrommo Apr 2022 #29
I don't see hardly any men out much in the LA burb I live in except workers waiting for a bus Raine Apr 2022 #10
this was SFV, near Ventura boulevard Demovictory9 Apr 2022 #11
This is along the coast, probably rougher here Raine Apr 2022 #15
Or not. Jirel Apr 2022 #13
Oh. Well good for you then. smirkymonkey Apr 2022 #35
"None of us have a care in the world, either." betsuni Apr 2022 #46
Must be nice, huh? MrsCoffee Apr 2022 #53
But if women did NOT restrict activities, and one were assaulted, spooky3 Apr 2022 #8
Oh, ya. It was her fault. Running alone late at leftyladyfrommo Apr 2022 #30
I'm so sorry that happened to your friend. shrike3 Apr 2022 #56
It was a long time ago. It makes me sick when young leftyladyfrommo May 2022 #57
I remember a policeman saying, "Young women have no sense of danger until it is too late." shrike3 May 2022 #61
I remember how dumb I was about stuff like that. leftyladyfrommo May 2022 #63
I know exactly what you mean. shrike3 May 2022 #65
I just didn't have a clue. leftyladyfrommo May 2022 #66
Neither did I. shrike3 May 2022 #67
At least we lived to tell our tale. So many young women leftyladyfrommo May 2022 #68
As if one would meet all her night owl friends in the dimly lit streets. madaboutharry Apr 2022 #3
In preparing a related class I once taught, I was stunned to learn spooky3 Apr 2022 #9
Oh, FFS. Jirel Apr 2022 #12
Well, I used to run at night, then I was sexually assaulted while running at night. shrike3 Apr 2022 #14
I'm sorry that happened to you Demovictory9 Apr 2022 #16
Thank you. I'm at a point where I rarely think about it, and I never thought that would happen. shrike3 Apr 2022 #19
I'm sorry you went through that. Jirel Apr 2022 #20
There should be no "but" in that paragraph. MrsCoffee Apr 2022 #22
Yep North Shore Chicago Apr 2022 #47
Per the Guardian article shrike3 Apr 2022 #23
I think it is quite beautiful, actually. alphafemale Apr 2022 #17
With some, it's not so much living in fear, but knowing what the hell could happen. shrike3 Apr 2022 #21
Just stop demanding that we all live in your world paralyzed by fear. alphafemale Apr 2022 #25
I'm demanding nothing of you, darlin'. shrike3 Apr 2022 #27
That is the very thing. alphafemale Apr 2022 #36
Too bad "facing it" didn't teach you a little compassion. shrike3 Apr 2022 #37
Post removed Post removed Apr 2022 #45
Years ago I liked walking at night when it got hot outside. I didn't feel safe and I'm a man. Emile Apr 2022 #18
Feeling unsafe is a little different than being afraid, which of course you know. shrike3 Apr 2022 #31
The all-male team at Ogilvy New York lives in a fantasy world. milestogo Apr 2022 #24
It makes me want to buy it more Polybius Apr 2022 #26
But it isn't safe to jog 24/7. Wishing doesn't make it so. shrike3 Apr 2022 #28
+1 betsuni Apr 2022 #48
That depends where you live I'd say EX500rider May 2022 #62
Unless something happens there. But it may be a matter of risk assessment. shrike3 May 2022 #64
Well we "should" live in a utopia, but we don't. milestogo Apr 2022 #33
Of course she SHOULD. Yet at least 60% of women are harassed while running. MrsCoffee Apr 2022 #52
A woman SHOULD feel safe & there SHOULD be no psychopaths womanofthehills May 2022 #72
I don't see an issue with this vercetti2021 Apr 2022 #32
I take a dog. milestogo Apr 2022 #34
I've known women who've done that. shrike3 Apr 2022 #39
Some dogs are subtle about it. milestogo Apr 2022 #51
You had a good dog. shrike3 Apr 2022 #54
It's called being prudent. Or taking precautions. What smart people do. shrike3 Apr 2022 #38
I take very long walks in the middle of the night Skittles Apr 2022 #40
It's not a good idea to wear ear buds no matter who you are, in most situations. Just my opinion. shrike3 Apr 2022 #41
it is crazy stupid Skittles Apr 2022 #42
Male or female. It's just not a good idea. shrike3 Apr 2022 #43
There are other people out and about in the city streets in almost every scene-- Wingus Dingus Apr 2022 #44
I'm glad people are discussing this Novara Apr 2022 #49
+1 betsuni Apr 2022 #50
I can remember asking a colleague to walk me to my car after dark. shrike3 Apr 2022 #55
When I worked the late shift at my last job, my stop time was 10:30 pm. Jedi Guy May 2022 #59
Thanks for being such a good person. shrike3 May 2022 #60
Mom and Dad taught me that it's a man's job to protect the women around him. Jedi Guy May 2022 #69
sounds like your parents taught you to be a kind person. shrike3 May 2022 #70
Thank you for being sensitive to their fear instead of dismissing it renate May 2022 #73
It would have been really hard not to be sensitive to it, if I'm being honest. Jedi Guy May 2022 #74
walking in the dark feels differently by body type. Demovictory9 May 2022 #71
This message was self-deleted by its author Hekate May 2022 #58
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