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47. This entire thing stinks of them going after her for reporting the rape

Fri Apr 29, 2022, 02:44 PM

Apr 2022

The article even says that both things took place off campus. They say they don't deal with stuff that took place off campus when referring to the rape, but her alleged premarital sex took place off campus too. She denies having such relations with her ex-boyfriend. The accused denies raping her. So, in the end they take his denials as fact, but they reject her denials. They then use one standard for her and another for him when it comes to their involvement in off campus disciplinary actions. I totally understand calling out knee-jerk social media responses, but I don't think the characterization of this being a result of her reporting the rape is inaccurate. This is regardless if there was or wasn't a rape, or the stupid policies of the school about student's private life.

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She told her Christian college she was raped. Then she was banned from campus. [View all] Nevilledog Apr 2022 OP

This school demonstrates what many of the christian religion are like. Religion can be disgusting RKP5637 Apr 2022 #1

that's why i wont go to a catholic hospital, even tho i'm an old lady now. mopinko Apr 2022 #3

Yep, I don't blame you at all. Some of these religions now are dangerous. So many are RKP5637 Apr 2022 #5

yeah, it sorta pains me to say that. my mom worked for a catholic hospital for 40 yrs. mopinko Apr 2022 #13

So many religions get off into this kind of crap. They could be beneficial, but attract and RKP5637 Apr 2022 #17

They own 1 in 6 hospital beds in America & focused on buying regional trauma centers NullTuples Apr 2022 #26

gotta wonder what psyche care is like. mopinko Apr 2022 #32

Local bishops make medical decisions for cbabe Apr 2022 #30

yeah, no i dont even go there. mopinko Apr 2022 #34

I was raised Roman Catholic SouthernLiberal Apr 2022 #58

I think it was Napoleon who said about organized religion maxrandb Apr 2022 #63

Typical for private education Baitball Blogger Apr 2022 #2

And some public colleges. Delmette2.0 Apr 2022 #24

AAArrggghh! More Twitter shit. One would think they threw her out because she was raped. But... TreasonousBastard Apr 2022 #4

According to the male accused of RAPING her--she denied having sex with old boyfriend crimycarny Apr 2022 #7

It makes everything worse. Sex is good but rape is bad-- they have it backwards. TreasonousBastard Apr 2022 #9

So, you don't think it's kind of a concidence Cuthbert Allgood Apr 2022 #20

Of course it's bullshit. The rapist brought up the old boyfriend to get the heat off of him and... TreasonousBastard Apr 2022 #52

She denied that. appleannie1 Apr 2022 #25

Her rapist said she told him she had had sex with her ex obamanut2012 Apr 2022 #39

Twitter shit? It's the fucking headline straight from NBC Nevilledog Apr 2022 #42

NBC wasn't so slick with the headline, and Twitter didn't have to repeat it. Besides, we're... TreasonousBastard Apr 2022 #48

Well, in a way they did. halfulglas Apr 2022 #59

What does Twitter have to do with it? kcr Apr 2022 #46

This entire thing stinks of them going after her for reporting the rape XorXor Apr 2022 #47

The whole mess is mishandled. She accuses the guy of rape, so he denies it and says she's... TreasonousBastard Apr 2022 #51

Welcome to DU ! KS Toronado May 2022 #68

Thanks... XorXor May 2022 #69

I went to a state college in the 70's kimbutgar Apr 2022 #6

Did they call 911 and attempt to break the door down exboyfil Apr 2022 #12

The 70s Smackdown2019 Apr 2022 #18

I this era and also remember that none of us trusted the campus cops NullTuples Apr 2022 #27

Phones back then were pay phones in or near the common room Warpy Apr 2022 #43

Something similar happened to someone when I was in college, too obamanut2012 Apr 2022 #40

"I just felt like, why did I even speak up?" gratuitous Apr 2022 #8

"Why don't victims report??" Example 13847189374109 WhiskeyGrinder Apr 2022 #10

"And they dare call themselves Christian?" Johnny2X2X Apr 2022 #11

I wonder about the Memphis Police exboyfil Apr 2022 #14

I would not have signed anything and gone to the hospital for a rape kit, DNA evidence MagickMuffin Apr 2022 #15

That's you. She was clearly raised in a conservative Christian world. It's...very different. NullTuples Apr 2022 #29

Some might say grooming and indoctrination MagickMuffin Apr 2022 #37

Really? Did you have to? NullTuples Apr 2022 #60

"It's the complete opposite of what Jesus would do." Native Apr 2022 #16

"The Future The Right Wants" Mad_Machine76 Apr 2022 #19

raped maliaSmith Apr 2022 #21

Exactly. niyad Apr 2022 #66

Sounds like American Taliban IronLionZion Apr 2022 #22

The red flag here: "Christian college." LeftinOH Apr 2022 #23

I've heard many stories from women that sexual assault, including of children, is the norm in church lindysalsagal Apr 2022 #28

Everything in this story RaDaR63 Apr 2022 #31

What flavour pizza do you like? niyad Apr 2022 #64

That's a weird question RaDaR63 Apr 2022 #65

Well, who the FUCK else is supposed to tell the story? Most rapes do NOT get niyad Apr 2022 #67

Satan was pleased with their actions Blue Owl Apr 2022 #33

American taliban. onecaliberal Apr 2022 #35

My Observation RobinA Apr 2022 #50

If they did nothing to help her they are culpable in the rape. onecaliberal Apr 2022 #55

we all should start putting "christian" barbtries Apr 2022 #36

Did they expell her ex-boyfriend. Of course not. Nululu Apr 2022 #38

These grifters don't want to scare away the gullible parents who send their kids to these schools... hunter Apr 2022 #41

difficult to come down hard on rape when baby jeebus was conceived by the holy ghost raping Mary Celerity Apr 2022 #44

This is unfortunate to say, but schools can't be trusted & claims need to go straight to the police themaguffin Apr 2022 #45

"She expected that school officials would help her" RobinA Apr 2022 #49

So, the college is saying that, if the rape happened off-campus, it's none of their business... BobTheSubgenius Apr 2022 #53

Anyone surprised. twodogsbarking Apr 2022 #54

American Taliban. Abort Patriarchy. CousinIT Apr 2022 #56

Ever since that stupid story about a woman, an apple, and a talking snake, it's been non-stop OMGWTF Apr 2022 #57

They're not called "Talibubbas" for nothing. It's something right out of the Taliban. catbyte Apr 2022 #61

I guess this is the only thing left to do if you were a raped. OldBaldy1701E Apr 2022 #62