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MerryBlooms

(12,200 posts)
40. I am so sorry. I was told flat out, because I didn't
Wed May 4, 2022, 09:36 PM
May 2022

Apply right after my accident, because I lived on my husband's life insurance (I had lost him to cancer a few yearsprior), my stocks, etc... I thought I didn't qualify, because I had my own money. They said I wasn't considered disabled, because I didn't file. It got worse from there. I ended up losing my home, stocks, most of my remaining money and retirement to pay medical bills. I lost everything, and still ended up denied again. They want you broke, broken and completely destroyed of the will to fight them. I just couldn't go through it again. The lawyer that was recommended to me, was horrible. He had no clue how to deal with ptsd or someone who had stuttering issues. He thought he had put his call on mute, I overheard him tell his assistant to Get rid of this woman, she's in complete breakdown, I can't talk to her. I was devastated, and gave up after that.

It was a horrendous and painful experience for me, that got me nothing but additional suffering.

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I can't give right now Elessar Zappa May 2022 #1
Thank you! mvd May 2022 #2
I cannot donate bc I'm off work XanaDUer2 May 2022 #3
Thank you for the kind words mvd May 2022 #4
Isn't this the third time you've done this? BlackSkimmer May 2022 #5
It is but I thought she had a payment arrangement.. mvd May 2022 #8
Yes, living within one's means is important. BlackSkimmer May 2022 #13
Unfortunately. It has been growing since.. mvd May 2022 #14
So if you "thought" she had a payment plan, what happened? BlackSkimmer May 2022 #17
PECO is not a very good company mvd May 2022 #18
Will confirm about PECO (Phila Electric Company) Deminpenn May 2022 #67
I have a payment agreement with NYSEG because one of the electricity supply companies liberal_mama May 2022 #74
Sad LostinRed May 2022 #6
I hope so, for the future mvd May 2022 #9
Here is a couple of links. Collimator May 2022 #7
Thanks mvd May 2022 #11
LIHEAP has been extended until 5/20 tishaLA May 2022 #10
Thank you very much! mvd May 2022 #15
Done. piddyprints May 2022 #12
Thank you very much! mvd May 2022 #16
Done! CaliforniaPeggy May 2022 #19
Thank you so much, Peggy! mvd May 2022 #20
More Folks Might Help if it Was Clear There's a Shut Off Notice on $3000 Bill Indykatie May 2022 #21
I'll try if I can edit. The address is next to the amount and.. mvd May 2022 #22
Black Magic Marker Should Take Care of That. Indykatie May 2022 #25
Yes, everything you said. BlackSkimmer May 2022 #34
I explained how it is that much mvd May 2022 #42
No, it is not that at all mvd May 2022 #41
Mom is in bed now but I can change it tomorrow mvd May 2022 #43
I just donated...... ♥️ ♥️ ♥️ a kennedy May 2022 #23
Thank you. All of it helps! mvd May 2022 #24
Oh, I don't know.......I think you'll surpass the original goal..... a kennedy May 2022 #27
I would recommend appointing a financial POA and MerryBlooms May 2022 #26
So very true mvd May 2022 #28
Be prepared. The call interviews I had, MerryBlooms May 2022 #29
Thank you! mvd May 2022 #30
Listen to Merry Blooms XanaDUer2 May 2022 #31
Omg, my first interview call was literally MerryBlooms May 2022 #35
Absolutely XanaDUer2 May 2022 #36
I am so sorry. I was told flat out, because I didn't MerryBlooms May 2022 #40
I am so sorry that happened to you! yardwork May 2022 #50
That's a terrible ordeal that should have never happened mvd May 2022 #64
Just donated TuxedoKat May 2022 #32
No, but what a birthday gift my mom got mvd May 2022 #38
Just donated TuxedoKat May 2022 #33
Get in touch with LIHEAP WhiteTara May 2022 #37
For now I am leaving it open with the statement that.. mvd May 2022 #39
Ok I added the photo with the bill amount mvd May 2022 #44
Don't give up on SSDI Bluesaph May 2022 #45
Thank you mvd May 2022 #46
I'm in my 50's Bluesaph May 2022 #59
Luckily they are considering the things I mentioned mvd May 2022 #60
Thanks for the positive ssdi story XanaDUer2 May 2022 #48
Hugs to you and your mom North Shore Chicago May 2022 #47
Thank you very much mvd May 2022 #70
This message was self-deleted by its author jfz9580m May 2022 #49
This shouldn't be happening at all ever AntivaxHunters May 2022 #51
I agree! mvd May 2022 #52
I did find this AntivaxHunters May 2022 #53
Thank you mvd May 2022 #54
You're welcome AntivaxHunters May 2022 #58
I donated. I'm sorry you're going through this. yardwork May 2022 #55
Thank you, yardwork mvd May 2022 #56
Based on how quickly the $1500 was reached, I raised the goal to $2,000 mvd May 2022 #57
Kick for the evening/night crowd mvd May 2022 #61
Kick for visibility before bed mvd May 2022 #62
Kick for Friday mvd May 2022 #63
I'll keep this visible until around our birthday (May 12).. mvd May 2022 #65
Kick for visibility for the weekend crowd mvd May 2022 #66
SSDI NowISeetheLight May 2022 #68
Thanks for the info! mvd May 2022 #69
Happy Mother's Day to my mom and all the moms out there! mvd May 2022 #71
Excellent outcome! North Shore Chicago May 2022 #72
Thank you very much! mvd May 2022 #73
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