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Behind the Aegis

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44. Gay people come in the "stupid variety" too.
Fri May 6, 2022, 04:23 PM
May 2022

Sadly, most of the time, 'stupid' just can't be fixed. Ignorance, yes; stupidity, rarely. These outliers really aren't worth our time. Just like "not all that glitters is gold", it is important to remember "not all peoples of a minority will be an ally".

"How can someone believe that their value as a person is so little that he supports his enemies?"

Years and years....and YEARS of homophobia. It becomes so internalized that one doesn't even know it is affecting them. This isn't to say some aren't just greedy, hate-filled, or just the run-of-the-mill assholes; we have those too! But just like other bigotries, when it predominates in a culture, some of those affected by it are worn down, defeated, humiliated, and debased to such a point the come to ignore their own self-interests, even survival. It is almost a form of the "Stockholm Syndrome".

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some people are just too broken to fix samnsara May 2022 #1
Sorry, but you don't. Raster May 2022 #2
Stupid is stupid, and there is no greater stupid than Republican stupid. nt Roisin Ni Fiachra May 2022 #3
So sadly true. Gay, women, POC & on & on that vote Repug against their own long term best interest dutch777 May 2022 #10
I don't want to be condescending to rural gay men with my hunch, but having grown up around hlthe2b May 2022 #4
I think you're right. Phoenix61 May 2022 #18
I agree--it's an easy way to fit in and avoid scrutiny, harassment, shunning. Wingus Dingus May 2022 #23
You can't fix stupid. Oneironaut May 2022 #5
Were there any black men who approved of George Wallace? 70sEraVet May 2022 #6
Message auto-removed Name removed May 2022 #7
Oh good grief. hamsterjill May 2022 #8
This is a strong tell JustAnotherGen May 2022 #14
You got it! hamsterjill May 2022 #16
Gone finally. Crunchy Frog May 2022 #42
I'd say YOU are on the wrong forum! bluestarone May 2022 #9
What flavour pizza do you like? niyad May 2022 #11
We are dating ourselves with the pizza ChazII May 2022 #37
As do I. niyad May 2022 #46
You are a Democratic Party member -correct? JustAnotherGen May 2022 #13
Oh, hello, new account spouting right wing talking points. nt bbernardini May 2022 #15
No one is denying anyone else free will and choice Torchlight May 2022 #25
Six posts. Heh. shrike3 May 2022 #26
we generally see Trump supporters (gay or otherwise) stopdiggin May 2022 #28
Well, apparently you thought wrong. But the RW talking point about progressives AZLD4Candidate May 2022 #30
Your argument appears to be in bad faith. Caliman73 May 2022 #31
Thank you. hamsterjill May 2022 #33
Well... you thought wrong. albacore May 2022 #38
Enjoy. Your. Stay. Maru Kitteh May 2022 #39
Nothing JustAnotherGen May 2022 #12
Never understood Log Cabin Repubs, either... Wounded Bear May 2022 #17
Well his pal trump appointed a SCOTUS that will not only upend same sex marriage SoonerPride May 2022 #19
It is one guy...why bother? Demsrule86 May 2022 #20
Did you ever ask him why? Tickle May 2022 #21
I'll tell you how AntivaxHunters May 2022 #22
I USE to be surprised stopdiggin May 2022 #24
You can't. It fights itself. Aristus May 2022 #27
Vote. Midnight Writer May 2022 #29
Ignore him ... Xoan May 2022 #32
He must be one of those Log Cabin Republicans. Emile May 2022 #34
Log Closet Republicans . . . hatrack May 2022 #35
I know a transgender woman on another website Mr.Bill May 2022 #36
One of the ringleaders in the Jan 6 insurrection was a transgender woman. Crunchy Frog May 2022 #40
He's conservative. He and 150M other Americans to various degrees Hortensis May 2022 #41
There's plenty of LGBTQ+ Republicans. I don't get it, but there's no changing their minds so I beaglelover May 2022 #43
Gay people come in the "stupid variety" too. Behind the Aegis May 2022 #44
Shocked that two women who are a couple in our extended women's group went to tRump's a kennedy May 2022 #45
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