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SunSeeker

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Sat May 7, 2022, 12:09 PM May 2022

My Great-Grandpa Killed My Great-Grandma Giving Her An Abortion On Their Kitchen Table [View all]

In 1919, my 7-year-old grandmother was startled awake in the early hours by her father. “Come say goodbye to your mother,” he told her. He brought her and her siblings into the kitchen, where their mother lay dying on the kitchen table. The room, table, and her mother’s lower half were awash with her blood. This is the only memory my grandmother had of her mother. Any positive memories were shocked from her system in that moment.

My grandmother’s father killed her mother performing an illegal abortion. He was never charged with a crime. After the death of his wife, he kept his younger daughter and his young boys with him. He sent my grandmother to work as a farmhand for a relative. To him, the abortion was a necessary risk. They already had too many kids.
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My adult child has never had sex without contraceptives. Currently, my child is wild with fear after the leak of a draft Supreme Court opinion indicating a plan to overturn Roe. Their health and life is too complicated to successfully manage a pregnancy or a child. This gentle soul is in a state of panic on behalf of all fertile people with uteruses. In speaking with my offspring, I had to promise that if Roe is overturned, I would form a pipeline to help people make their way to a country where abortion is legal. My kid can’t sleep for worrying about those who will fall through the cracks — those who will die due to unsafe abortions. My child knows the story of my great-grandmother.

https://www.huffpost.com/entry/great-grandma-killed-illegal-abortion_n_62754440e4b046ad0d7ba081

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How horrifying for all involved. 3catwoman3 May 2022 #1
OMG. I wonder how many more pregnant women will now be deliberately murdered by 50 Shades Of Blue May 2022 #2
Indeed. It's horrifying. nt SunSeeker May 2022 #3
My fear also pandr32 May 2022 #4
GOP voters will still elect them from jail IronLionZion May 2022 #5
Yep. Delphinus May 2022 #7
Wife murdering doesn't conflict with pro-life family values IronLionZion May 2022 #8
it will be substantial NJCher May 2022 #9
There's an entire genre of folk songs about that. yardwork May 2022 #10
The larges cause of death for pregnant women is already murder Warpy May 2022 #11
This and other things with the terroristic far right in this country makes me wish that I had the cstanleytech May 2022 #6
Yeah, the filthy rich make sure you can't escape Farmer-Rick May 2022 #13
Yup most of the developed countries like Ireland and New Zealand don't want Americans unless we have cstanleytech May 2022 #16
Look at JobsUSA, frequently, to see what's available. stollen May 2022 #18
I wish I had the means to make huge donations ShazzieB May 2022 #14
Be careful what you wish for. There are ways and places in the U.S. to be safe and reasonably free housecat May 2022 #28
You sure he did the deed? Warpy May 2022 #12
Have you seen death certificates? stollen May 2022 #17
No. Promintent women always died of heart failure Warpy May 2022 #19
Wow there's a dissertation or book project. housecat May 2022 #27
Around 1940 my grandmother's sister had an abortion; around 1950 grandmother's daughter housecat May 2022 #15
What I've been wondering... Novara May 2022 #24
It's medieval. Women always got needed abortions without penalty other than dying! housecat May 2022 #26
I'm so sorry. area51 May 2022 #20
This message was self-deleted by its author jfz9580m May 2022 #21
I have never visited any social media; I don't sign petitions; I donate privately; I stay away from housecat May 2022 #29
This message was self-deleted by its author jfz9580m May 2022 #30
That's an eye opener story. I fear what's ahead Emile May 2022 #22
McConnell's plan... MiHale May 2022 #23
It's every Republican's plan. They're the forced birth party. nt SunSeeker May 2022 #25
I saw this the day you posted it, but had to wait a day to read it NickB79 May 2022 #31
It's horrific. SunSeeker May 2022 #32
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