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Dark n Stormy Knight

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Wed Oct 31, 2012, 03:14 PM Oct 2012

UPDATED: My father works for FEMA. He is 75 years old and, like many men of his generation, [View all]

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he doesn't handle not working very well. Also, my parents lost over half of their retirement investments in the crash, so it's not completely by choice that he works.

Also, like many white Catholic men of his generation, he retains vestiges of the racist culture in which he grew up. He balked at voting for Obama in 2008. He said things about how the races were never intended to mix and some other weird race-related negative things about the candidate. Also, he really wanted Hillary.

But my mom and I called him on that racist crap and worked on him leading up to the election. He is a curmudgeonly, generally difficult man, so it wasn't easy. However, as we suspected he would in the end, he did vote for the black man who would become our president.

He has, over the past 4 years, become an ardent supporter. And, he despises Romney with a vehemence that may, however unlikely, surpass my own.

Yet, he still will not answer back to all the RW emails he gets from the Republicans he and my mom play bridge with. He gets mad when my mom does. He will not tell the Rs who start trashing Obama at the bridge table that he disagrees. He hates it when my mom does. Even though she generally just says, "We all don't agree, so let's not discuss politics here."

So, it is with great surprise and pride that I read these recent posts he made on facebook:

1. I came to FEMA in Sept 2011 to assist in the disasters Tropical Storm Lee and Hurricane Irene. My work is with the municipalities - townships, school districts, waste water treatment plants roads and bridges. Tears came to my eyes when the oath of office -- to defend the constitution etc -- was administered. Helping to restore these entities to pre-disaster or better condition has been a high point in my life's work.

I am very much convinced that this work could never, never be done by anything but a national government entity.

Update -- Yesterday, our FCO in Harrisburg, PA exhorted us to extend the same effort in responding to Sandy. Today too, I was very much heartened to see the Governor of New Jersey praise FEMA and to hear an NY congressperson look directly into a TV camera and say "Thank You FEMA". i am very proud to be able to help!

2. I find it utterly reprehensible that a man who has never held a position in the federal Government would stick his nose in the response to the event, and would do so by using it as a way to pretend that he cares. Care Sir, BY DONATING $30,000,000 of your wealth to the relief effort. send several of the Caddys lying around in your closed mansions. Put people in those homes. Stay out of the way of the Federal Government now and on election day.

3. It is slowly coming to me that anyone who buys Romney's BS can only be doing so out of racial bigotry.

Update: It's kind of late to add this, but I just remembered that my dad is on twitter: http://twitter.com/donhennigan

He doesn't post much, but if you want to encourage him with a follow, maybe he will start. (Please don't be misled by the "wealth management" tweet. As I said, he's still working not just because he likes it. And if Iggy tweets his ageist crap at him, my dad will probably tell him to go f*#k himself.) Here are a few of his old ones:

Chuckling at all R's antics to no avail ..POTUS will still be POTUS in Dec 2012 to 16.

@EricCantor Your tactics are BLACKMAIL. Be a man and address spending/revenue issue separately Don't ruin the [Republic] with mafia tactics.

If the R's have, as they say that they do, a plan to create jobs, they must disclose it to POTUS. Otherwise Criminal & reprehensible

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We love ya, Dad! gateley Oct 2012 #1
Great post Dark defacto7 Oct 2012 #2
Thanks. Having read Du since the the summer of 2008, I forget that I'm officially new here! And Dark n Stormy Knight Oct 2012 #7
Just write :toast: if ya can't find it!.. Cha Oct 2012 #27
Hey, thanks for that tip. I still haven't found it in the list! Dark n Stormy Knight Nov 2012 #72
I have great admiration for older dawgs who are able ... dawg Oct 2012 #3
I hear that! Cha Oct 2012 #28
That's a great Dad BeyondGeography Oct 2012 #4
My therapist agrees that neither of my parents were ever in any danger of being saddled with the Dark n Stormy Knight Oct 2012 #12
That really resonates with me BeyondGeography Oct 2012 #15
I'm so sorry you're in that situation. I have basically written off my RW sister a number of times, Dark n Stormy Knight Oct 2012 #16
The happy flip side is my mother and sister have become die-hards for the blue team BeyondGeography Oct 2012 #18
Ah, I often hope that some folks will be turned off the the RW agenda by seeing the depravity of the Dark n Stormy Knight Nov 2012 #44
Oh so sweet! peace13 Oct 2012 #5
Ooooh, I would LOVE to be in touch with your dad! See this post, please: OneGrassRoot Oct 2012 #6
I'll email him and see what he thinks. Should I just copy the text of that post and explain Dark n Stormy Knight Oct 2012 #8
I suppose the direct link to the petition page is best: OneGrassRoot Oct 2012 #10
OK, listen, I've gotta run. I lost track of time. Should have saved this post for later but I was Dark n Stormy Knight Oct 2012 #14
FEMA depends on volunteers.... Historic NY Oct 2012 #9
Just to clarify, my dad is employed by FEMA for pay. He's a civil engineer who lost his full time Dark n Stormy Knight Nov 2012 #54
K&R abelenkpe Oct 2012 #11
That is just heartwarming. llmart Oct 2012 #13
Wow... K&R ProudProgressiveNow Oct 2012 #17
watching heaven05 Oct 2012 #19
I think someone needs to perform an exorcism on him. Obviously the man is possessed by the demons of Dark n Stormy Knight Nov 2012 #69
This is a great Man... BlueNoteSpecial Oct 2012 #20
Knowing the dark side of him as well as I do, I'd never have called him that, but it's nice to view Dark n Stormy Knight Nov 2012 #47
That's a mensch. aquart Oct 2012 #21
Thank you for those kind words and that excellent advice which I will be happy to follow. Dark n Stormy Knight Nov 2012 #48
Whoa--that was powerful BeliQueen Oct 2012 #22
I think he will, in turn, be inspired by your appreciation. Thank you. Dark n Stormy Knight Nov 2012 #49
Good Job, Dad! That's a big step forward for BlueToTheBone Oct 2012 #23
Wonderful posts - Both of them GoneOffShore Oct 2012 #24
That's very kind of you to say. My mother thanks you. My father thanks you. [Two of] my sister[s] Dark n Stormy Knight Nov 2012 #46
Great post! And welcome to DU! FailureToCommunicate Oct 2012 #25
Thank you, it's good to be here finally participating. Dark n Stormy Knight Nov 2012 #50
Bravo! sdfernando Oct 2012 #26
It's not a feeling I'm used to, so, maybe even better than one might expect. Dark n Stormy Knight Nov 2012 #52
That warms my heart. Tell him for me he's wonderful. nolabear Oct 2012 #29
Good for him! kath Oct 2012 #30
He used on of his relatives as an advisor, I believe. I don't think all of their retirement savings Dark n Stormy Knight Nov 2012 #51
Thank you for this heart warming post. Duval Oct 2012 #31
Awwww. Thanks. I felt the same way reading my dad's post about how he got choked up during the Dark n Stormy Knight Nov 2012 #71
I'm 67 and I came to the same conclusion oldbanjo Oct 2012 #32
My dad exactly! Patiod Oct 2012 #33
People can change and be forgiven... Stellar Oct 2012 #40
And yet conservatives always try to throw Byrd at us, as if he's embarrassing Patiod Nov 2012 #73
I'm very sorry for your loss. And sorry he wasn't able to experience the pride and confidence of Dark n Stormy Knight Nov 2012 #45
Thank you DnSK Patiod Nov 2012 #74
He is a wise man. And, he is a changed man. Changed for the BETTER. ProfessionalLeftist Oct 2012 #34
uhhhhhh Iggy Oct 2012 #35
I really don't know what this means. Dark n Stormy Knight Nov 2012 #53
IT MEANS Iggy Nov 2012 #55
This is outright bigotry. It's called ageism. Such moronic generalizations applied to a person Dark n Stormy Knight Nov 2012 #56
+1000! Fearless Nov 2012 #57
Good response. n/t OneGrassRoot Nov 2012 #59
I alerted on it but it no luck. I guess it's just as well that this kind of ignorance be Dark n Stormy Knight Nov 2012 #61
Your edit history is funny pintobean Nov 2012 #60
I'm *trying* to be good. Dark n Stormy Knight Nov 2012 #64
My Dad was a GOP lifer, until the fake Iraq war. I had to explain it all to my dad, too. A few years lindysalsagal Oct 2012 #36
Small steps. At least he didn't vote for the village idiot. Every little bit helps. Dark n Stormy Knight Nov 2012 #75
Now that's he's not automatically buying their BS, I don't lindysalsagal Nov 2012 #76
It takes one to know one. Curmudgeoness Oct 2012 #37
I hadn't thought of it that way, but yeah, maybe that's true. It's hard to say because he's not very Dark n Stormy Knight Nov 2012 #78
Typical for men of that generation. Curmudgeoness Nov 2012 #79
WHOA. Care Acutely Oct 2012 #38
your dad is inspiration to us all! sally5050 Oct 2012 #39
That was the part that got me, too. Well, that and his reaction to the administration of the oath. Dark n Stormy Knight Nov 2012 #58
From an emergency preparedness standpoint, the problem is that FEMA doesn't have enough... rwsanders Nov 2012 #41
Yes...funding, resources and SUPPORT OneGrassRoot Nov 2012 #63
+1000 for comments and image. Dark n Stormy Knight Nov 2012 #65
That seems to be the problem with most of our government agencies in this new age of the robber Dark n Stormy Knight Nov 2012 #66
Awesome dad!! n/t vaberella Nov 2012 #42
I love your post and bookmarked it tilsammans Nov 2012 #43
Thank you for the encouragement. Though, every other post I make will probably be just banal Dark n Stormy Knight Nov 2012 #70
Wow! Your Dad's on the money! nt. OldDem2012 Nov 2012 #62
Well, if you can't be in the money, you can at least be on it. Dark n Stormy Knight Nov 2012 #67
A super post malaise Nov 2012 #68
HUGE K & R !!! WillyT Nov 2012 #77
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